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Feb 4, 2008 1:17 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
...take me out, as friends or on an actually date (I'm surprised I still know what that issigh ), where would we go and what would we do?
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Feb 4, 2008 1:20 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: ...take me out, as friends or on an actually date (I'm surprised I still know what that is ), where would we go and what would we do?


moping Am dateless???
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Feb 4, 2008 1:21 PM CST If you could...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: ...take me out, as friends or on an actually date (I'm surprised I still know what that is ), where would we go and what would we do?


as a friend, we could go for a nice tea and i'd extraordinary let you speak for most of the time!wink banana banana
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Feb 4, 2008 1:21 PM CST If you could...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: Am dateless???


Please, stop that!very mad
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Feb 4, 2008 1:22 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
cristina: as a friend, we could go for a nice tea and i'd extraordinary let you speak for most of the time!


YES! But I'd much rather hear what you had to say...my life isn't too interesting, hasn't got too juicy lately...
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Feb 4, 2008 1:26 PM CST If you could...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: YES! But I'd much rather hear what you had to say...my life isn't too interesting, hasn't got too juicy lately...


Not even for your age? Don't you want to live too many things in advance!

Why is it not interesting? Don't you tell me that unlike others of your own age, you don't really like going out that much! Is this why you think it's not interesting baby?
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Feb 4, 2008 1:29 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
ok
tip4ya

multiple threads turns people off
(healthy non co dependent people)
cuz usually people who post like that
"use us" (CS) for a short period of time
looking for comfort or who knows what
and then they are out the door mucking things up again-
never to be seen again at CS-

so some are a bit slow to befriend posters like that
and rightly so i think.

rushrushrush never builds a foundation
maybe its been heard as haste makes waste?

anyway-the other thing is
if theres a thread up and its not responded to in 3 mins
dont pour some self pity on it for flavor
unless you are interested in empty codependent comfort
which i spose is a reasonable bandage sometimes

people are online here from worldwide timezones-
its not always jumpin
sometimes there are 4 ppl in forum
so relax

now that i look like the big B
OH welllllll

lemme suggest
low and slow is the way to go if one is here to meet people
there are some wonderful people here
cultivating real friendships
i think about zero were borne of haste and desperation

hi
im mindfful
my nickname is MF
grin
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Feb 4, 2008 1:32 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: ...take me out, as friends or on an actually date (I'm surprised I still know what that is ), where would we go and what would we do?


oh...i won't ask or do it...even if you like to date with me.

cos i have to spent thousands of good dollars to take you to sri lanka or i have to fly to ur country.rolling on the floor laughing
i love my pocket ...than girlsrolling on the floor laughing


wine
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Feb 4, 2008 1:36 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
cristina: Please, stop that!



oh.....don't go with cris....she is a sweet nice enemy....rolling on the floor laughing she will kick ur weakest partrolling on the floor laughing

but she is .....not a Nwine
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Feb 4, 2008 1:36 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
mindfful: ok
tip4ya

multiple threads turns people off
(healthy non co dependent people)
cuz usually people who post like that
"use us" (CS) for a short period of time
looking for comfort or who knows what
and then they are out the door mucking things up again-
never to be seen again at CS-

so some are a bit slow to befriend posters like that
and rightly so i think.

rushrushrush never builds a foundation
maybe its been heard as haste makes waste?

anyway-the other thing is
if theres a thread up and its not responded to in 3 mins
dont pour some self pity on it for flavor
unless you are interested in empty codependent comfort
which i spose is a reasonable bandage sometimes

people are online here from worldwide timezones-
its not always jumpin
sometimes there are 4 ppl in forum
so relax

now that i look like the big B
OH welllllll

lemme suggest
low and slow is the way to go if one is here to meet people
there are some wonderful people here
cultivating real friendships
i think about zero were borne of haste and desperation

hi
im mindfful
my nickname is MF



WOW....thanks for that tid bit....


You know you could have just ignored my THREE threads....

Sorry to OVERWHELM you...

Free country, at least mine is anyways...
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Feb 4, 2008 1:38 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
the kid is wisin up
adjusting his priorities
thumbs up

its a cute phase men go thru
laugh

id take you to other places on the internet and the library too
theres no reason to be bored if you are interested in something.

my mom used to say if we said "im boooored"
(when we came in at 11am saturday mornings
in summer when there was no school)

if youre bored youre boring
now scram

i eventually 'got that'
ive told my kids the same thing
they are grown and they are definitely not boring

head banger
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Feb 4, 2008 1:41 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: ...take me out, as friends or on an actually date (I'm surprised I still know what that is ), where would we go and what would we do?
Well if I was 20 yrs younger, I would take you out to eat at a nice restaurant, maybe have a little wine with dinner, and then either go out to a movie afterwards or got to see a live band.. and then whatever else we decided after that...
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Feb 4, 2008 1:46 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: WOW....thanks for that tid bit....You know you could have just ignored my THREE threads....

Sorry to OVERWHELM you...

Free country, at least mine is anyways...


wah wah wah
like i said it was only suggestion
take it or leave it
you are right
its a free country
im american btw
and free is great but there are consequences to all actions
even in your world-just one? posting on a forum,
all sorts of responses show up in response-and not all will we like.

i just suggested another strategy
that might be useful, depending on your goals here,
and a bit of background as to why...

all i said had some validity to it
it has no effect on me at all if you didnt see it.

and you have miles to go to hone your sarcasm hon
and apparently your reading comprehension
i was sharing a dynamic regarding forums
overwhelmed? please.

hey do it til it dont work anymore.
that goes for everything.
im no judge-just an observer.

idea
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Feb 4, 2008 1:47 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
Daniel4021: Well if I was 20 yrs younger, I would take you out to eat at a nice restaurant, maybe have a little wine with dinner, and then either go out to a movie afterwards or got to see a live band.. and then whatever else we decided after that...


20 years younger would be TOO young for my blood lol, but thank you for your idea. How are you today?wave
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Feb 4, 2008 1:47 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
tadaaah

my point has jst been illustrated

rock on



yawn
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Feb 4, 2008 1:48 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: 20 years younger would be TOO young for my blood lol, but thank you for your idea. How are you today?


I'm good, to young huh, why would that be? And how are you?
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Feb 4, 2008 1:49 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
Daniel4021: Well if I was 20 yrs younger, I would take you out to eat at a nice restaurant, maybe have a little wine with dinner, and then either go out to a movie afterwards or got to see a live band.. and then whatever else we decided after that...


oh my god....danny...is she a 19 years olddoh

i didn't see her profile.....doh

oh thanks god at last i found someone special i think.........she may be a water drop to me in this desertgrin smitten


wish me good luck my friend
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Feb 4, 2008 1:50 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
mindfful: tadaaah

my point has jst been illustrated

rock on


Okay? Glad I could amuse you today... I'm not about hostility, I just didn't think 3 meaningless threads in one day was much, but that's fine what you think. I'm Leah, and it was nice meeting you.
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Feb 4, 2008 1:50 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Just looked at your profile, and it says 21-40, so if I was 20 yrs younger it would be in that age range..
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Feb 4, 2008 1:53 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
Daniel4021: Just looked at your profile, and it says 21-40, so if I was 20 yrs younger it would be in that age range..


Lol, yes....I forgot I put that on there laugh

What I meant is that prefer men in there late 20's to mid 30's... boys, not men, my age are not adults at all.

I'm doing good today...Went to the doctor and found out that the lump in my breast isn't cancerous! YAY for me!!!peace
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