highplains: Yes Indeed. Self Confidence, pride, being self assured, may make a man seem like a bad boy. Even some well placed "mouthing off" will make a fella seem like a "bad boy". And when the rubber meets the road, you gotta be able to man up and face the rumble. Bending to every whim, and being a really "sweety" of a man all of the time....will make a fella just that....sweet....and LONELY.
I started to post about this subject, but I don't need to...you got it under control bro.
People get confused between nice guys and just plain boring guys. (boring guys, there are boring girls who will appreciate you)
I think it's human nature to value that which takes some effort to achieve and hold on to.
I appreciate a man who makes me a better me. Someone I know is going to require that I make an effort to be witty, well read, attractive, experimental, open and continue to grow and learn, and I expect the same from my partner.
I think most Bad Boys are just men who need a woman who continues to challenge them when the chase is over.
Of course I'm not referring to the truly vile specimens such as wife beaters, rapists, etc. there is a whole different category for them.
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I started to post about this subject, but I don't need to...you got it under control bro.