The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last... ( Archived) (64)

Feb 13, 2008 5:05 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
JamesPond: I remember when I was trying to chat up a lass I fancied for a while, she turned to me and said 'look, you're a nice guy but I prefer bad boys'. 2 months later I saw her with a peach of a black eye and a broken nose and one boyfriend on his way to the slammer.

Still, as long as shes happy.


Wow...bit of a lesson to be learned there.jaw drop
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Feb 13, 2008 5:08 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
I have to believe that "nice guys" don't finish last. Eventually they become the "last" first date of a wonderful woman. JMO.
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Feb 13, 2008 5:16 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
KrazieStill: I have to believe that "nice guys" don't finish last. Eventually they become the "last" first date of a wonderful woman. JMO.


cheers

Well said!!


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Feb 13, 2008 5:17 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
No nice guys.
No bad boys.

Rather have a well balanced man.
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Feb 13, 2008 5:45 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
wfriars: I must admit that this thread has maybe not completely reflected my goals on a dating site.

I am not looking to be used, abused, cheated on, tossed aside, etc, etc.

Mr. Santagati's definition of a Bad Boy is not a player or a mysogynist. He says that the Bad Boy is just really a misunderstood creature.

Bad Boy: One who is not worried about what women think, but rather what women are. He is not worried with heart break but confident in his conquests. He is confident with an er of cocky but not an overwhelming ego. He is charming, non-confrontational, and above all intrigued by women of every type.

I hope this helps in understanding.



Let's talk about it again in,say ten Years?
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Feb 13, 2008 9:11 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
TheWALL2 is in da house,and if you ain't living on the EDGE sweetheart...........you're taking uo too much room.grin
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Feb 13, 2008 9:21 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: As far as I'm concerned the name says it all..."Bad Boys"....Heartbreakers...Why would anyone who is a "Bad Boy" want to treat you decent?????

Women choose bad boys and then act all surprised when they get treated like crap...HMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!

I would rather not have to analyze and manipulate my s/o into treating me as I should be treated...and as for hanging on...A man should be with you solely because he wants to be...NOT because you have to manipulate him into it!!!!!!!!!!
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Feb 13, 2008 9:22 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Women don't want nice guys........they want guys with a bit of a backbone....or,pardon my italian...........a set of CUYONES.
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Feb 13, 2008 9:25 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
thewall2: Women don't want nice guys........they want guys with a bit of a backbone....or,pardon my italian...........a set of CUYONES.


You can have all that and be a good, decent, self-respecting man.cool
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Feb 13, 2008 9:28 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''very mad
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Feb 13, 2008 9:46 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
thewall2: At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''



If that is true, there is nothing wrong with being self-respecting; that does not make him a bad boy laugh
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Feb 13, 2008 9:55 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
thewall2: At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''


NOT me cause I would probably turn to him and say..."STFU and sit down ya big OAF"!!!!!!!!!!



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Feb 13, 2008 10:00 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
''Little man,you like staring at my woman,huh?''

SLAMS beer bottle on table.


''But SHE'S MINE!!!!!!!''very mad
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Feb 21, 2008 8:05 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
dwayne5266
dwayne5266dwayne5266fort mitchell, Kentucky USA1 Posts
wow! this has gone on forever, show me a man who doesn't some how desire to be a tough guy, or a woman whom does not desire to be a princess, however , we are often sold on the package long before we know the contents, most guys, want a lady in the street and a freak in bed, yes? perhaps like a cologne or perfume does not smell the same on another it's a matter of chemistry , finding the right amounts of bad boy/girl that works in your life, i am not a bad boy (duh!) but yeah , at times i desire that image, oh well such is life, treat em' like crap bad boys , and i'll be there to build them back up:)
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Feb 21, 2008 8:44 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
KCTFreeSpirit
KCTFreeSpiritKCTFreeSpiritHuddersfield, West Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 45 Posts
When we fall in love we want someone who has the power to break our hearts - but who doesn't

Thay way we are loving right up to the edge.

A bad boy offers excitement - He also offers been unfaithful and maybe lots of other stuff -

Having been a bad boy in my time - I've come to realise - and the pain it brought me , that a glint in the eye is good

It's just best keep there for one person.

It's all a journey : No pain - No gain

In a way : Better the saint - who's been a sinner - than a Saint who's never sinned.

heart beating sad flower devil
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Feb 21, 2008 9:10 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
the Three Millionth version of this story......

Nice guys always finish last....always........always......

Bad Boys.......well....the girls know....

they say they want a good man......but that doesn't mean they want a spineless jellyfish of a man either.....


I may be a real BAD BOY.....But Baby I'm a REAL GOOD MAN.......

In that one line of a great country song.....lies the truth......

Good Man....does not equal Wuss....or pushover........
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Feb 21, 2008 9:20 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
All depends on one's definition of naughty. What I cannot handle myself, I make a phone cal. No problem..

Old saying, I may be old but "no me jodas".....grin


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Feb 21, 2008 9:32 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
highplains: Finishing last...means finishing LONELY, too, bro. You can be a BAD BOY and a GOOD MAN.....it's not even as big a stretch as you would think. You can't beat 'em, the Bad Boys, so join 'em. You don't have a be a cave man...drag 'em by the hair.....nasty son of a bi*ch, either.


True. You have a point there. I do believe in a proper balance in many aspects of life. I just needed to let out some steam this morning.

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Feb 21, 2008 9:41 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
I've said it before... A good man is hard to find.... but a hard man is good to find. devil
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Feb 21, 2008 10:33 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
HJFinAZ:
Old saying, I may be old but "no me jodas".....


¡Eres maldito galán!
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