JamesPond: I remember when I was trying to chat up a lass I fancied for a while, she turned to me and said 'look, you're a nice guy but I prefer bad boys'. 2 months later I saw her with a peach of a black eye and a broken nose and one boyfriend on his way to the slammer.
wfriars: I must admit that this thread has maybe not completely reflected my goals on a dating site.
I am not looking to be used, abused, cheated on, tossed aside, etc, etc.
Mr. Santagati's definition of a Bad Boy is not a player or a mysogynist. He says that the Bad Boy is just really a misunderstood creature.
Bad Boy: One who is not worried about what women think, but rather what women are. He is not worried with heart break but confident in his conquests. He is confident with an er of cocky but not an overwhelming ego. He is charming, non-confrontational, and above all intrigued by women of every type.
Hugz_n_Kissez: As far as I'm concerned the name says it all..."Bad Boys"....Heartbreakers...Why would anyone who is a "Bad Boy" want to treat you decent?????
Women choose bad boys and then act all surprised when they get treated like crap...HMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!
I would rather not have to analyze and manipulate my s/o into treating me as I should be treated...and as for hanging on...A man should be with you solely because he wants to be...NOT because you have to manipulate him into it!!!!!!!!!!
thewall2: At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''
If that is true, there is nothing wrong with being self-respecting; that does not make him a bad boy
thewall2: At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''
NOT me cause I would probably turn to him and say..."STFU and sit down ya big OAF"!!!!!!!!!!
wow! this has gone on forever, show me a man who doesn't some how desire to be a tough guy, or a woman whom does not desire to be a princess, however , we are often sold on the package long before we know the contents, most guys, want a lady in the street and a freak in bed, yes? perhaps like a cologne or perfume does not smell the same on another it's a matter of chemistry , finding the right amounts of bad boy/girl that works in your life, i am not a bad boy (duh!) but yeah , at times i desire that image, oh well such is life, treat em' like crap bad boys , and i'll be there to build them back up:)
highplains: Finishing last...means finishing LONELY, too, bro. You can be a BAD BOY and a GOOD MAN.....it's not even as big a stretch as you would think. You can't beat 'em, the Bad Boys, so join 'em. You don't have a be a cave man...drag 'em by the hair.....nasty son of a bi*ch, either.
True. You have a point there. I do believe in a proper balance in many aspects of life. I just needed to let out some steam this morning.
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Still, as long as shes happy.
Wow...bit of a lesson to be learned there.