The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last... ( Archived) (64)

Feb 13, 2008 11:20 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Ambrose2007: I'm thinking it's a good thing you can't read their minds, daugher.



Ahmmmmm? Am not interested,daddy professor
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Feb 13, 2008 11:26 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
A case in point, dear angel. With someone like Marty cavorting about, no girl here is safe.wow uh oh mumbling
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Feb 13, 2008 11:29 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
Ambrose2007: A case in point, dear angel. With someone like Marty cavorting about, no girl here is safe.



shock shock shock

I am a nice respectable Irish boygrin



I dont do naughty things....

I just like to talk about them grin irish
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Feb 13, 2008 11:30 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Ambrose2007: A case in point, dear angel. With someone like Marty cavorting about, no girl here is safe.



Deeply wrong,daddy...You know me.wine
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Feb 13, 2008 11:38 AM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
gangel: Deeply wrong,daddy...You know me.


Then it seems my work here is done (for today, at least). hug wine cool
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Feb 13, 2008 12:02 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
martyg: I am a nice respectable Irish boy
I dont do naughty things....

I just like to talk about them


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Feb 13, 2008 12:04 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
grin irish
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Feb 13, 2008 1:28 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
KingLeo: I guess I'll just stop buying women flowers.



Never, honey. Never.
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Feb 13, 2008 3:41 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
wfriars
wfriarswfriarsOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA22 Threads 312 Posts
I must admit that this thread has maybe not completely reflected my goals on a dating site.

I am not looking to be used, abused, cheated on, tossed aside, etc, etc.

Mr. Santagati's definition of a Bad Boy is not a player or a mysogynist. He says that the Bad Boy is just really a misunderstood creature.

Bad Boy: One who is not worried about what women think, but rather what women are. He is not worried with heart break but confident in his conquests. He is confident with an er of cocky but not an overwhelming ego. He is charming, non-confrontational, and above all intrigued by women of every type.

I hope this helps in understanding.
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Feb 13, 2008 3:52 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
wfriars: I must admit that this thread has maybe not completely reflected my goals on a dating site.

I am not looking to be used, abused, cheated on, tossed aside, etc, etc.

Mr. Santagati's definition of a Bad Boy is not a player or a mysogynist. He says that the Bad Boy is just really a misunderstood creature.

Bad Boy: One who is not worried about what women think, but rather what women are. He is not worried with heart break but confident in his conquests. He is confident with an er of cocky but not an overwhelming ego. He is charming, non-confrontational, and above all intrigued by women of every type.

I hope this helps in understanding.




I would say that your man Santagati is acting like something of an apologist with that definition! laugh

'Not worried about heartbreak in his conquests?' I'm sorry, that's a cold, serial womaniser I see described...nothing more.

Empathy should be central to a healthy ego...and it's lacking big time.

JMO...interesting discussion!handshake
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Feb 13, 2008 3:59 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
wfriars
wfriarswfriarsOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA22 Threads 312 Posts
Detente: I would say that your man Santagati is acting like something of an apologist with that definition!

'Not worried about heartbreak in his conquests?' I'm sorry, that's a cold, serial womaniser I see described...nothing more.

Empathy should be central to a healthy ego...and it's lacking big time.

JMO...interesting discussion!


I should likely be the one who is an apologist.

I should apologize for not being able to correctly convey his words. It really is a good book. I learned an immense amount from it.
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Feb 13, 2008 4:03 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
wfriars: I should likely be the one who is an apologist.

I should apologize for not being able to correctly convey his words. It really is a good book. I learned an immense amount from it.



Ok...I get you. But would you buy a really attractive, super comfy car that was tempramental and prone to breaking down...veering of the road without warning even?

If it's without any semblence of reliability, it's just not going to fulfill it's purpose - safe, comfortable carriage from A to B.

Makin' any sense?dunno
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Feb 13, 2008 4:20 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
wfriars
wfriarswfriarsOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA22 Threads 312 Posts
Detente: Ok...I get you. But would you buy a really attractive, super comfy car that was tempramental and prone to breaking down...veering of the road without warning even?

If it's without any semblence of reliability, it's just not going to fulfill it's purpose - safe, comfortable carriage from A to B.

Makin' any sense?


My idea car would be an older sports car. I'm not looking for comfortable. I am comfortable by myself. I am looking for the ride, the thrill, the challenge. I am looking for adventure, excitement. The kind of car I look at and think I could drive you around the world and back again. A car that fits me!
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Feb 13, 2008 4:24 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
wfriars: My idea car would be an older sports car. I'm not looking for comfortable. I am comfortable by myself. I am looking for the ride, the thrill, the challenge. I am looking for adventure, excitement. The kind of car I look at and think I could drive you around the world and back again. A car that fits me!


devil

I totally understand.grin

You just need to find a nice boy, and bring out the devil in him yourself.wink
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Feb 13, 2008 4:40 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Aries01: I think people sometimes get confused between 'nice boy' and 'boring boy' the two don't necessarily coincide...

You have heard about what they say about the quiet ones haven't you??


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So true!bowing
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Feb 13, 2008 4:47 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
kidatheart: That attentiveness should be mutual. Nobody likes to be ignored or feel as if it's one sided.

What do they say about the quiet ones?
Hi kid wave quiet ones are the worst ?? or the best depending how you view it ?grin
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Feb 13, 2008 4:49 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
kidatheart: That attentiveness should be mutual. Nobody likes to be ignored or feel as if it's one sided.

What do they say about the quiet ones?


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devil

U'll have to guess grin
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Feb 13, 2008 4:53 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: come on over nice guy!


Go ahead and finish last!
devil


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peace
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Feb 13, 2008 4:54 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Best, worst, guess!sigh I'm confused!laugh
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Feb 13, 2008 5:02 PM CST The Truth about Bad Boys...And why nice guys finish last...
JamesPond
JamesPondJamesPondWest Lothian, Lothian, Scotland UK3 Threads 48 Posts
I remember when I was trying to chat up a lass I fancied for a while, she turned to me and said 'look, you're a nice guy but I prefer bad boys'. 2 months later I saw her with a peach of a black eye and a broken nose and one boyfriend on his way to the slammer.

Still, as long as shes happy.
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