alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Ok, I know y'all aren't going to believe me, but an average looking guy with an honest smile is more likely to get my attention than some hottie from hottieville. Most, not all maybe, but most really good-looking guys I've met know it, and think they don't have to do anything to get a woman but be. No thanks, I want a man who appreciates me, not one who's comparing me to the last or next woman who's throwing themselves at him.
nomindgames: In most situation I stand alone in inside over outside of a man.See here most woman agree with me, .I say looks are a bonus and would be nice,but yes it's the persons thoughts beleifs and actions that I judge by.Just as I tell men,don't like me for what you see,like me for my humor,attitude,determination etc..I have found too late,that a man who has low self-esteem or self-worth doesn't sjow it unti your around them some.Looks or not,that is my pet peeve when meeting a man ad starting to date.
Is it an admirable trait that a woman should judge a man by his so called inner qualities? I think it’s a fatal mistake since first of all it takes years to truly know someone’s “qualities“, and to dismiss certain people because of something like self esteem or sense of humor shows , at least to me, that your selection is based more upon social abilities than upon personal value. Some of the worlds greatest men were introverts lacking in the most basic of social graces. This is because they focused on greater goals than that of “how to impress the ladies”..imo……
In my opinion.....looks can be deceiving! I believe it's what is inside that counts. You don't have to be good-looking to have a heart of gold. And as for the question.....No! I would NOT brush off the average looking guy. Not only is it not right.....it would be rude!
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Oh what the hell, i guess i am one!
Look real close.......why do'es it look like that little guy is flipping me the bad finger.........
Reminds me of the old rock group... Bad Finger!
Also the really old group..Missouri! Honest