Are females selfish by nature? ( Archived) (66)

May 30, 2005 11:45 AM CST Are females selfish by nature?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
Tell me about it
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May 30, 2005 12:00 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
No.......
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May 30, 2005 1:08 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
EsquireX
EsquireXEsquireXBellingham, Washington USA3 Threads 137 Posts
Perfectly understandable, Cute.
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May 30, 2005 1:09 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
thanks esquire. :)
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May 30, 2005 2:19 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
LOL,Hello eagle,well it depends in some areas yes I am,in the important ones I am fair...But like cute said women with kids do alot of work...My ex said I never listened to him,I always did what I wanted..This was true I supose but,when I asked for a dish washer and he said I have one...;-))The next day i took his credit card and bought not only a dish washer ,but a refridger,and brand new stove...I knew he was joking but at this point I was tired of just being a house wife...So I can be selfish....
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May 30, 2005 2:43 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
Rhythmatist1
Rhythmatist1Rhythmatist112 Threads 366 Posts
My ex was selfish........ I think that pretty much is describes her in one word. I think when women have children they become wrapped up in Motherhood and just appear selfish. The kids come first, unfortunately for me I had 4 step daughters 13-22 and Gavin, so there was little time left for me.. I should have analyzed the situation better before I jumped into it, but If I did I wouldn't have the best boy in the world, so in a way I am glad she was selfish........ What? Huh? did I just say that?LOL
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May 30, 2005 3:56 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
Thanks everyone, I think most females link happiness to selfishness. Am I right?
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May 30, 2005 4:05 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
Oh you are soooooooooo wrong, he who flies high!

I can't speak for ALL women, but for those of us Girls Raised In The South, selfishness is not a part of our vocabulary. Do we get what we want? Sure, Sugah! But, we tend to make the guy think it is his idea.

Since I have always lived in the South, I can only tell you how most of the women from my generation were raised. We were raised to believe that:

1. The man is the head of the household.
2. The woman does what she is told.
3. The woman raises the children.
4. The woman cleans the house.
5. The woman Never raises her voice.
6. The woman gets the beer (and opens it).
7. The woman never gets a headache.
8. The woman has dinner on the table when HE gets home.

YEAH, RIGHT!!!!

We are not selfish, but we do believe that a relationship is more than 50/50. It takes 100% from each person to make it work.

So, what am I making for dinner? Reservations, Dahlin"!
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May 30, 2005 4:08 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
RLMAO !!! Lakelady your a pip!! Welcome by the way.
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May 30, 2005 4:10 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
Thanks! I haven't been to this site in a while. Just realized what the forums were. Been having fun reading them. Decided to do a little verbal sparring.
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May 30, 2005 4:12 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
Great.Can always use another strong woman around here.
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May 30, 2005 6:13 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
Drkeyedbeauty
DrkeyedbeautyDrkeyedbeautyToledo, Ohio USA7 Threads 336 Posts
I am soooo ticked off at this i have to calm down before i can even reply so hold on to ur britches cuz there's more to come.
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May 30, 2005 6:18 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
*runs for bomb shelter*
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May 30, 2005 7:06 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
Thank you for the reply, so you admit that only some females are not, which makes majority...
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May 30, 2005 7:09 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
I hear you! I just want to understand why most of females act in a selfish way, is it nature or ...?
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May 30, 2005 7:16 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
Oh yeah, I just realized why you have never been married!
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May 30, 2005 7:26 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
You are funny, I like that. For me, marriage is destiny. It's about finsing the right person, as you relize I'm still looking. I will accept her if she's selfish, I don't think it's a bad thing. My forum is about wondering why be....
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May 30, 2005 7:40 PM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
Sorry but I was raised to think of others first and I know few selfish women myself.Now on selfish,clueless men I could write a book.
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May 31, 2005 3:37 AM CST Are females selfish by nature?
dempewolfchristy
dempewolfchristydempewolfchristy25 Threads 424 Posts
No I don't think so as we are given to sharing food and makeing sure everyone around them is comfortable, before their own needs are meant I do think we are more territorial
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May 31, 2005 4:40 AM CST Are females selfish by nature?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
I agree with that demp.
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