Skeptikos: J Goose, learn something about herpes before before you condemn it as the nightmarish dream it it. You may have just lost a potential good mate.
Hey fella......in an earlier post, I mentioned that I went home and researched it. Web MD, Herpes.com, etc. No cure, lame treatment, highly contagious. Once you have it that's it. Game over. And like I said, if got it from her, and things didn't work out, I'd have to tell the next girl, etc.
I never condemn, poke fun, or debunk in a thread unless I research something first.
I get amazed that people with nothing to do always go visit someone that is working their backside off. Why don't they visit with another person that has nothing to do.
The same with people with herpes. Why not find a herpes sufferer to share with. At least they would have something in common to talk about.
riyablossom: Herpes as a disease cant be cured entirely as the virus stays dormant in the ganglia in the body. You can only treat that particular episode and pray it never happens again.
Now its not really dreadful as Herpes can be contracted from someone or by yourself as a reactivation of dormant infection.
But i do believe what you did was right ( personally) cos that was a genuine honest reaction while considering you have never spoken before ... hence there is no kind of consideration in such a situation actually to be expected practically of you by her.
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
j_goose: ^^^^^^ Typo....... I told her we couldn't be "more than friends"
I think it was very brave of her to tell you and i commend that. However no you weren't being a Di*ck you were being honest. You could have lied to her then dropped her. I feel sorry for her but thats not your problem.
j_goose: say I did give her a chance and I contracted herpes from her. And say it didn't work out. Now I'd have to tell the next girl.....and so on.....I don't think it's worth the risk. AT ALL
Zell said....{I usually tell them I have herpes, the clap or that I'm gay and they all react like you did, so it does the trick }
wow....i would never say i had something and didnt....yuck.....i just tell them i am not into them....why not be honest, bold, blunt why ya gotta lie......just tell it like it is..... j...you did the right thing....did you run like hell lol
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So she said I was a d*ck. But I've been called worse......
I'd say you were more of a 8==D