Am I really a 8=======D???? ( Locked) (35)

Feb 18, 2008 4:39 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
Here's the story in a nutshell.....

Recently, I was on a date.....(yes, ME of all people) and after the dinner and a few drinks thing, the gal comes out with....

"I have to tell you something, and it's kind of important....I have herpes."

I was ACTUALLY speechless for a minute. Then, my reply came to me. "Well, I don't think this could end up being a 'we're just friends' thing."

Mind you, it was just a first date....(Set up by a friend---thanks, Brad...) We didn't really talk before that night.

So she said I was a d*ck. But I've been called worse......
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Feb 18, 2008 4:41 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
happy birthday
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Feb 18, 2008 4:41 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
^^^^^^ Typo....... I told her we couldn't be "more than friends"
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Feb 18, 2008 4:43 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
SteveDavid
SteveDavidSteveDavidParis, Versailles, Ile-de-France France2 Posts
haha

Makes more sense now. I was scratching my head working it out wow
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Feb 18, 2008 4:47 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
say I did give her a chance and I contracted herpes from her. And say it didn't work out. Now I'd have to tell the next girl.....and so on.....


I don't think it's worth the risk. AT ALL
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Feb 18, 2008 4:53 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
Hey, don’t beat yourself over it. You did the right thing. Over 957.5 billion people die a year from Herpes in the United States alone.

comfort
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Feb 18, 2008 4:57 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Herpes as a disease cant be cured entirely as the virus stays dormant in the ganglia in the body. You can only treat that particular episode and pray it never happens again.

Now its not really dreadful as Herpes can be contracted from someone or by yourself as a reactivation of dormant infection.

But i do believe what you did was right ( personally) cos that was a genuine honest reaction while considering you have never spoken before ... hence there is no kind of consideration in such a situation actually to be expected practically of you by her.

wine
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Feb 18, 2008 5:01 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Slenderblonde
SlenderblondeSlenderblondeWaterford, Ireland8 Threads 342 Posts
Rickster: Hey, don’t beat yourself over it. You did the right thing. Over 957.5 billion people die a year from Herpes in the United States alone.


I agree (though I think the stats could be a bit inflated there)

Sounds like she was looking for you to be ok with her and her herpes as a package.

Thats a huge ask.

Well dodged.thumbs up
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Feb 18, 2008 5:01 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
riyablossom: Herpes as a disease cant be cured entirely as the virus stays dormant in the ganglia in the body. You can only treat that particular episode and pray it never happens again.

Now its not really dreadful as Herpes can be contracted from someone or by yourself as a reactivation of dormant infection.

But i do believe what you did was right ( personally) cos that was a genuine honest reaction while considering you have never spoken before ... hence there is no kind of consideration in such a situation actually to be expected practically of you by her.


In all seriousness, I agreethumbs up
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Feb 18, 2008 5:07 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
j_goose: Here's the story in a nutshell.....

Recently, I was on a date.....(yes, ME of all people) and after the dinner and a few drinks thing, the gal comes out with....

"I have to tell you something, and it's kind of important....I have herpes."

I was ACTUALLY speechless for a minute. Then, my reply came to me. "Well, I don't think this could end up being a 'we're just friends' thing."

Mind you, it was just a first date....(Set up by a friend---thanks, Brad...) We didn't really talk before that night.

So she said I was a d*ck. But I've been called worse......


This is the type of stunt I''d pull on someone I wasn't really into if I'd been out on a blind date with them.

Maybe it was her polite way of making you lose interest in her.

I usually tell them I have herpes, the clap or that I'm gay and they all react like you did, so it does the trick cool
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Feb 18, 2008 5:38 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Zellarrone1: This is the type of stunt I''d pull on someone I wasn't really into if I'd been out on a blind date with them.

Maybe it was her polite way of making you lose interest in her.

I usually tell them I have herpes, the clap or that I'm gay and they all react like you did, so it does the trick


Have been times when i've said i'm Gay to get rid of unwanted attention if they wouln't take no for an answer , but found majority of the time that made it worse, because they asked if they could watch !
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Feb 18, 2008 5:42 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
j_goose: ^^^^^^ Typo....... I told her we couldn't be "more than friends"


So I guess a bj was out of the question? jkrolling on the floor laughing

No offense to anyone, anywhere.rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 18, 2008 6:14 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
fun_loving_4u
fun_loving_4ufun_loving_4uChicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 18 Posts
riyablossom: Herpes as a disease cant be cured entirely as the virus stays dormant in the ganglia in the body. You can only treat that particular episode and pray it never happens again.

Now its not really dreadful as Herpes can be contracted from someone or by yourself as a reactivation of dormant infection.

But i do believe what you did was right ( personally) cos that was a genuine honest reaction while considering you have never spoken before ... hence there is no kind of consideration in such a situation actually to be expected practically of you by her.


well written !!
clap !! clap !! clap !!
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Feb 19, 2008 6:32 AM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
KrazieStill: So I guess a bj was out of the question? jk

No offense to anyone, anywhere.


no worries
that was hilarious

and im sure goose would appreciate it


anyway the problem was her inappropriate revelation
too early
no wonder she has to be on a blind date
she doesnt have good sense

people dont die from it-number one riiiiick!laugh

but she may have had sense to relate to you for a bit
maybe she wouldnt even wanna do it with you

derrr


dunno
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Feb 19, 2008 6:33 AM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
the point of this whole thread is that
he wants us to believe he has eight inches


hellllo people?
consider the source
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

speaking of nutshells...
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Feb 19, 2008 7:37 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
I think if someone is living with something like herpes, they probably get brushed off a lot, and coming out with the truth is probably hard for them, harder as they keep getting rejected. But, it has to be expected. I personally wouldn't jump into the sack with ANYONE without knowing them EXTREMELY WELL as I don't want to end up with anything... it's too many one night stands and stuff now a days that spreads things.
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Feb 19, 2008 8:24 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
I respect her for telling the truth and you for being honest with her.
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Feb 19, 2008 8:26 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mastic

she is too young for you


unless there is alot of


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Feb 19, 2008 8:31 PM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
j_goose: Here's the story in a nutshell.....

Recently, I was on a date.....(yes, ME of all people) and after the dinner and a few drinks thing, the gal comes out with....

"I have to tell you something, and it's kind of important....I have herpes."

I was ACTUALLY speechless for a minute. Then, my reply came to me. "Well, I don't think this could end up being a 'we're just friends' thing."

Mind you, it was just a first date....(Set up by a friend---thanks, Brad...) We didn't really talk before that night.

So she said I was a d*ck. But I've been called worse......


dunno the truth hurts...she has a disease that is highly contagious, not just to your dangly bits, but mouth etc....you told her what was on your mind..no harm no foul....comfort whose the smart one here?hug
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Feb 20, 2008 1:24 AM CST Am I really a 8=======D????
Skeptikos
SkeptikosSkeptikosGreenville, South Carolina USA19 Threads 745 Posts
J Goose, learn something about herpes before before you condemn it as the nightmarish dream it it. You may have just lost a potential good mate.
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