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Mar 31, 2008 10:28 PM CST How do they do it.......
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
so was thinking today how people make marriges work? my parrents have been married for 37 years and my mom was the first woman that my dad dated. I have one brother and one sister for some reason unknown to us we all married the first person we dated. now all devorced. well I am in the process. anyways how did it work for them and not any of us. just thinking.
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Mar 31, 2008 10:38 PM CST How do they do it.......
anjel
anjelanjeltempe, Arizona USA4 Threads 2 Polls 549 Posts
they make it work, if they "BOTH", want to make it work...

they ride over the bumps together slowly, and appreciate the smooth roads...

They are business partners, they know thier roles, they have strong minds, and hearts..... They are humble, they appreciate each other. They are blessed...
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Mar 31, 2008 10:43 PM CST How do they do it.......
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
anjel: they make it work, if they "BOTH", want to make it work...

they ride over the bumps together slowly, and appreciate the smooth roads...

They are business partners, they know thier roles, they have strong minds, and hearts..... They are humble, they appreciate each other. They are blessed...


thumbs up
teddybear
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Mar 31, 2008 10:46 PM CST How do they do it.......
anjel
anjelanjeltempe, Arizona USA4 Threads 2 Polls 549 Posts
Manolito!

wine

Hey!flirty flower
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Mar 31, 2008 10:49 PM CST How do they do it.......
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
anjel: Manolito!



Hey!


i hope you like stories Anjel blushing

sad flower
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Mar 31, 2008 11:00 PM CST How do they do it.......
anjel
anjelanjeltempe, Arizona USA4 Threads 2 Polls 549 Posts
Manolito: i hope you like stories Anjel


love this is how i feel for them!

have u one for meblushing ???
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Mar 31, 2008 11:02 PM CST How do they do it.......
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
well, you asked a question, you shall get an answer...

...havent finished typing it in yet tho, hahahaha devil
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Mar 31, 2008 11:07 PM CST How do they do it.......
anjel
anjelanjeltempe, Arizona USA4 Threads 2 Polls 549 Posts
uh oh....cany wait for this!innocent
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Mar 31, 2008 11:08 PM CST How do they do it.......
anjel
anjelanjeltempe, Arizona USA4 Threads 2 Polls 549 Posts
anjel: uh oh....cany wait for this!


sorry, cany=cant
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Apr 2, 2008 4:03 AM CST How do they do it.......
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
slim1977: so was thinking today how people make marriges work? my parrents have been married for 37 years and my mom was the first woman that my dad dated. I have one brother and one sister for some reason unknown to us we all married the first person we dated. now all devorced. well I am in the process. anyways how did it work for them and not any of us. just thinking.
Decades ago it was not so easy or common to get a divorce so some couples had no option to "make it work" seemingly on the outside at least

professor
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Apr 2, 2008 4:33 AM CST How do they do it.......
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
My Mam and Dad where married for 44yrs, doesnt mean either of them was happy though, I never remember a kind word being exchanged between them it was more a case of 'you have made your bed now lie in it'
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Apr 2, 2008 4:41 AM CST How do they do it.......
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Zellarrone1: Decades ago it was not so easy or common to get a divorce so some couples had no option to "make it work" seemingly on the outside at least
Hi Zell, wave i agree the choices were not there, divorces was considered unacceptable
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Apr 2, 2008 4:42 AM CST How do they do it.......
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
vonney: My Mam and Dad where married for 44yrs, doesnt mean either of them was happy though, I never remember a kind word being exchanged between them it was more a case of 'you have made your bed now lie in it'
Morning vonney hug
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Apr 2, 2008 5:15 AM CST How do they do it.......
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
morganlee: Hi Zell, i agree the choices were not there, divorces was considered unacceptable
Hi Morgan wave Yes, my mother was stuck in an abusive marriage for 39 years which only ended when my father died. I also remember many of her friends kind of stuck in similarly long sad marriages sad flower
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Apr 2, 2008 5:33 AM CST How do they do it.......
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Zellarrone1: Decades ago it was not so easy or common to get a divorce so some couples had no option to "make it work" seemingly on the outside at least


Yup.. thats it.

Helloo Zell wave hug
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Jun 16, 2008 6:05 PM CST How do they do it.......
sillyricky55
sillyricky55sillyricky55San Diego, California USA9 Threads 244 Posts
slim1977: so was thinking today how people make marriges work? my parrents have been married for 37 years and my mom was the first woman that my dad dated. I have one brother and one sister for some reason unknown to us we all married the first person we dated. now all devorced. well I am in the process. anyways how did it work for them and not any of us. just thinking.


Seems when we were younger divorce was not an option. Today it is called short term gratification. If the first argument does not go their way, their out. No communication.So many things have been said as to why marriages don't work, but it does however take two to tango and to make it work.
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Jun 16, 2008 6:13 PM CST How do they do it.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
My parents were married over 45 years...they stayed together becos they were and still happy...

Everyone has rough times and i am sure they did too...but they loved each other enough and made vows to God and they kept them...
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Jun 16, 2008 6:22 PM CST How do they do it.......
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Different times.......changing people.......new age generations.........wine
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