BeautifulEri: Please guys....we're sorry....just let it go...just don't post here anymore....Let this one go too...
I understand what u said T, and we didnt wanna open wounds, I have received many mails and I feel so lucky people DO CARE, you have no idea. It was NEVER our intention to hurt anybody. We are sorry we did.
I am sure we can see past this now...
I think I can speak as one of the many people who were hurt by that thread. As a few people here will know of the pain and anguish it caused me - I remember reading through the thread and being the only person who thought to mention the pain that the family must also be feeling (up to the point I read anyway - I did then go off for a while to write to a friend)
The point I am trying to make is that, much of the society in which we exist, is very much based around 'insensitivity' to our fellow beings - and death itself is decorated with little honour - sort of like, off they go to heaven, all will be well - the beauty is very effectively dismissed with these attitudes - death is a moving on, not only for the deceased but also for the people left behind - it is a thing of wondrous beauty, a traversal to the great beyond and a massive thing to get your head around - whichever side of the journey you may be experiencing... and believe me, there are people reading these threads who are in fear of leaving their loved ones behind, how they will cope etc. it is a very real fear for some people...... - not everybody can look death in the face and joke about it for they are not all inured to the pain it elicits.......
the one thing it most definitely is not - is a joke.....
I know you are both saying sorry and have realised it wasnt funny - at all - but before i can heal the pain it caused in me - I think I have to hit 'post'
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
dcj22: Maybe if I just go ahead and have the heart attack I'm working on here they'll all feel better.
Come on nobody wishes that on anyone..just that it brought alot of pain and heart ache..You are loved by alot on here..just wasnt really a great topic that is all..Love you hun
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where's the joke?
Being of a certain age and living
on my own, i thought the op gave
good information and maybe even
could save a life.
But then again as i said, i may of
missed something.
I think you did, yes...
How was the match?? or