I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM ( Archived) (87)

Apr 22, 2008 4:46 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
BECAUSE OF IT ?

crying dunno
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Apr 22, 2008 4:51 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
gillyloves69: BECAUSE OF IT ?


Sorry but i think she's rightroll eyes
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Apr 22, 2008 4:54 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
cristina: Sorry but i think she's right


Im inclined to agree Cristina - I take it she has stuck it out for ages Gilly and tried n tried n tried ?



Hiya Gilly, long time no see wave teddybear
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Apr 22, 2008 5:00 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
trish123: Im inclined to agree Cristina - I take it she has stuck it out for ages Gilly and tried n tried n tried ?
Hiya Gilly, long time no see


wave wave wave

HI CRISTINA TRISH ZARAH AND GINGER !..conversing ITS A LONG STORY GIRL THAT GOES BACK TO WHEN THEY USE TO RUN A BAR TOGETHER !

cheering

ANYWAY GOT TO GO AND LISTEN TO SOME MUSIC RECORDINGS NOW !

teddybear teddybear teddybear
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Apr 22, 2008 5:12 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
I agree with theothers Gilly, sorry. Alcoholics don't have the right to inflict the results of their habit on anyone and that includes their families.
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Apr 22, 2008 5:36 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
gingerb: I agree with theothers Gilly, sorry. Alcoholics don't have the right to inflict the results of their habit on anyone and that includes their families.


wave

its not as simple as all that !

roll eyes
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Apr 22, 2008 5:45 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
sono876
sono876sono876lahore, Punjab Pakistan36 Threads 457 Posts
wave i think she should give him a chance

because true love is to forgive mistakes of your life partner


and if he although would not leave alcohol then she decide what to do

but she must give him a chance

ok wave
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Apr 22, 2008 6:03 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
sono876: i think she should give him a chance

because true love is to forgive mistakes of your life partner and if he although would not leave alcohol then she decide what to do

but she must give him a chance

ok


wave

hi sono876 !

welcome to the thread man !

she's given plenty of chances !....but thats just the good news !

head banger

the bad news is as people they're both just as bad as each other !

moping conversing
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Apr 22, 2008 6:11 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: Sorry but i think she's right



You're always straight to the point, sis. thumbs up

giggle
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Apr 22, 2008 6:29 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
There is a very well known "program" with a book of the same title. It is called Alcoholics Anonymous. In that book, there is a chapter to the wives, I would suggest maybe both of them read the book. Maybe she would benefit from checking out a program called Al Anon, it is for friends & family of Alcoholics.

As for those making stupid statements about alcoholics and alcoholism, I would like to see their medical credentials. The comments just go to show how uninformed (stupid) some that post in forums..

Gilly, if this person is really a friend of yours, you could be of great benefit to him..
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Apr 22, 2008 6:31 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"Alcoholism" is a disease, I wonder how many would have these feelings if a spouse or close friend or lover or parent or child had cancer? So many wonder why others would want nothing to do with them.rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 22, 2008 7:19 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
gillyloves69: BECAUSE OF IT ?

Gilly, since you are closer to the situation than I am, please forgive me for even attempting to know something, I couldn't possible know a thing about. If your friend and his wife owned a bar together....probably it's more like drinking out the profits(pun on words) rather than just drinking and falling off his feet. Most men who become alcoholic, didn't started out that way. First it was one drink, and then two,and the rest is another long story. If he is unhappy, he will drink also, and his pain may be deeper than anyone really knows. But Gilly, I think you are the best friend, so your giving a listening hear, and a broad shoulder to lean on will be of great help. Your friend will be much happier once the misery of the divorce and the bickering is over.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:22 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Take him out and get him a drink.drinking
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Apr 22, 2008 7:26 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
bubbles69: Take him out and get him a drink.

Not unless the drink was a cup of tea or coffee, helping him to drown in his sorrows wouldn't be the kind thing to do.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:28 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
bubbles69: Take him out and get him a drink.




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Ok. Be serious Bubbles! scold



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Apr 22, 2008 7:34 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
lusciousmile: Ok. Be serious Bubbles!


Ha ha you dont really expect me t be serious do you?rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 22, 2008 7:35 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
mychelle: Not unless the drink was a cup of tea or coffee, helping him to drown in his sorrows wouldn't be the kind thing to do.


You must be getting me muddled up with someone else. I never said I was a nice person.wave
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Apr 22, 2008 7:37 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
bubbles69: You must be getting me muddled up with someone else. I never said I was a nice person.




Oh lord!

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Behave yourself now. scold roll eyes



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Ok. I don't expect that either, Bubbles. devil
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Apr 22, 2008 7:46 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
lusciousmile: Oh lord!



Behave yourself now.


Ok. I don't expect that either, Bubbles.


OK Im sorry, I'll try to behave myself. Just dont bleedin hold yur breath. laugh
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Apr 22, 2008 8:02 PM CST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY FREIND'S NOW AN ALCOHOLIC AND NOW HIS WIFE IS THINKING OF DIVORCING HIM
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
gillyloves69: hi sono876 !

welcome to the thread man !

she's given plenty of chances !....but thats just the good news !



the bad news is as people they're both just as bad as each other !
Maybe both of them need to go together and try to work on this that way, if they love each other maybe they would want to help each other though the hard times.
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