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Apr 22, 2008 6:56 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
this is the only place I could think of to get some advice that will most likely be correct ok here is my question.....



when I am home this week end I have a date with a friend of a friend so I need some advice about it.... this beeing my first real date ever. is it aproperate to give flowers if so what kind.... roses or not? kiss on the cheek at end of date? these are real questions. never went on a date with my ex. so I have no experience any help would be helpfull.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:01 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
slim1977: this is the only place I could think of to get some advice that will most likely be correct ok here is my question.....
when I am home this week end I have a date with a friend of a friend so I need some advice about it.... this beeing my first real date ever. is it aproperate to give flowers if so what kind.... roses or not? kiss on the cheek at end of date? these are real questions. never went on a date with my ex. so I have no experience any help would be helpfull.


Just turn up on time, clean and smart and smile a lot. Ask her questions about herself and really hear her answers. Some of the things she says she likes, profess to like them too. Add the odd joke. If you like her tell her. She will let you know if it is ok to kiss her. Watch her body language.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:03 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
Hi slim, I think Flowers would be nice. But not roses maybe a small bunch of mixed flowers, something that smells sweet. As for a kiss on the check no I dont think so unless she starts to give you one first. Maybe a hug on the first night. Second night you might ask her if you can give her a kiss. to me I think that is Romantic. Hope everything goes well. have a great time.hug
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Apr 22, 2008 7:04 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
gingerb: Just turn up on time, clean and smart and smile a lot. Ask her questions about herself and really hear her answers. Some of the things she says she likes, profess to like them too. Add the odd joke. If you like her tell her. She will let you know if it is ok to kiss her. Watch her body language.


Yep, that's it. Act like you care applause
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Apr 22, 2008 7:04 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
don't give flowers on the first date if there is a second date i would give her a single red rose or white rose. go to kiss her on the cheek when saing goodbye but you will know if she wants more seriously girls give away hundreds of clues just be your self and if there is no second date it was her loss
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Apr 22, 2008 7:05 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
A small bouquet of flowers. Roses are OK, just not red on a 1rst date. White roses are OK.

Kiss on cheek or lips......you'll know by the end of the date.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:06 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
gingerb: Just turn up on time, clean and smart and smile a lot. Ask her questions about herself and really hear her answers. Some of the things she says she likes, profess to like them too. Add the odd joke. If you like her tell her. She will let you know if it is ok to kiss her. Watch her body language.


Brillant. Listen to these ladies, they know the do's and dont's. thumbs up
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Apr 22, 2008 7:07 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Indyfella: Yep, that's it. Act like you care


If you act like you care, then she will expect it in the future.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:07 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Give her DIAMONDS, great big diamonds. Well it'd work for me.

Just ignore me and listen to the sensible people.grin
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Apr 22, 2008 7:08 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
gentlepaws: A small bouquet of flowers. Roses are OK, just not red on a 1rst date. White roses are OK.

Kiss on cheek or lips......you'll know by the end of the date.



Not advisable. scold


If a guy i didn't realllllllly like did that, i'd be grossed out.


sick barf
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Apr 22, 2008 7:11 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
If things start working out, give her a house ,a car and get the hell out of there.
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Apr 22, 2008 7:39 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
Just take her shopping on your credit cards for the whole afternoon.............
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Apr 22, 2008 7:41 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
prncss4someone: Just take her shopping on your credit cards for the whole afternoon.............


rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 22, 2008 7:43 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
DogMaI
DogMaIDogMaISartell, Minnesota USA17 Threads 1 Polls 2,729 Posts
bubbles69: Give her DIAMONDS, great big diamonds. Well it'd work for me.

Just ignore me and listen to the sensible people.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing That might just get you a kiss on the cheekthumbs up
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Apr 22, 2008 7:44 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
DogMaI
DogMaIDogMaISartell, Minnesota USA17 Threads 1 Polls 2,729 Posts
gentlepaws: If things start working out, give her a house ,a car and get the hell out of there.


So your saying save all the money on the wedding and divorce lawyerslaugh
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Apr 22, 2008 7:46 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
slim1977: this is the only place I could think of to get some advice that will most likely be correct ok here is my question.....
when I am home this week end I have a date with a friend of a friend so I need some advice about it.... this beeing my first real date ever. is it aproperate to give flowers if so what kind.... roses or not? kiss on the cheek at end of date? these are real questions. never went on a date with my ex. so I have no experience any help would be helpfull.
he needs your help not your jokes.frustrated
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Apr 22, 2008 7:49 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
allready: he needs your help not your jokes.


just what i was thinking
slim if you wanna ask more questions just email me okay but really being yourself can't fail it is the only the other person that can fail with not liking you make sense?
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Apr 22, 2008 7:50 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
kare65
kare65kare65brisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 225 Posts
Agree with alot here :-)

Most importantly be yourself......................................


Hope all goes well for u
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Apr 22, 2008 7:52 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
prncss4someone: Just take her shopping on your credit cards for the whole afternoon.............


I agree rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 22, 2008 7:52 PM CST time for everyone to give advice.
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
baileysqueen: just what i was thinking
slim if you wanna ask more questions just email me okay but really being yourself can't fail it is the only the other person that can fail with not liking you make sense?
Thank you Bailey.
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