how to know when your being "checked out" (28)
Men are clueless buddy. Im 50 years old and I can count on one hand the number of times Ive been "checked out".... that I know of...
Just roll with it and dont worry about the small stuff.
Just roll with it and dont worry about the small stuff.
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it's to do with eye contact and body language
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Ok x, you've just been checked out. Not bad. 
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alabamabebe: Ok x, you've just been checked out. Not bad.
LOL!!!! thanks hon, I really needed that. :)
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morganlee: it's to do with eye contact and body language
Ah, subtly.
SO lots of eye contact? and what sort of body language? what am I looking for. Keep in mind, I am completely and blunderingly stupid, I need someone to almost literally walk over to me and verbaly proposition me, lol, so what am I watching for in the way of body language?
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DadofDucks: Men are clueless buddy. Im 50 years old and I can count on one hand the number of times Ive been "checked out".... that I know of...
Just roll with it and dont worry about the small stuff.
Just roll with it and dont worry about the small stuff.
lol! yeh, I guess were just designed that way.
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i find if they look and then look again they like what they see..even though it never happen to me
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Thats easy, last time I was in a bar all these girls was checking me out, they were all standing around me, must have been 10 of them,than I got up off my back and got back on the bar stool
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xfahctor: Ok, question for you all, ladies in particular.
I have never considered myself a good looking guy, but I'm ok with it. I really am, I don't whine or complain about it, I am who and what I am and those who don't like it, well, don't look. Anyway, My ex girlfriend was always telling me how much I get "checked out" and looked over, I guess she kinda took it well and it didn't really bother her or anything. But truthfully, I never saw it. Being single again or even going to a bar when I was alone or with a few friends, I never noticed it. SO.......am I that oblivious to it? How does a guy know when he's being subtly "checked out"?
I have never considered myself a good looking guy, but I'm ok with it. I really am, I don't whine or complain about it, I am who and what I am and those who don't like it, well, don't look. Anyway, My ex girlfriend was always telling me how much I get "checked out" and looked over, I guess she kinda took it well and it didn't really bother her or anything. But truthfully, I never saw it. Being single again or even going to a bar when I was alone or with a few friends, I never noticed it. SO.......am I that oblivious to it? How does a guy know when he's being subtly "checked out"?
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hey hey! ma brutha from anotha mutha! how ya been?
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Body language, distance, and second looks....are a giveaway
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If they show up on my "who's viewed me" list I know I have been checked out.
Doing good my brother. Sorry to hear that you are single again.
Doing good my brother. Sorry to hear that you are single again.
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xfahctor: Ah, subtly.
SO lots of eye contact? and what sort of body language? what am I looking for. Keep in mind, I am completely and blunderingly stupid, I need someone to almost literally walk over to me and verbaly proposition me, lol, so what am I watching for in the way of body language?
SO lots of eye contact? and what sort of body language? what am I looking for. Keep in mind, I am completely and blunderingly stupid, I need someone to almost literally walk over to me and verbaly proposition me, lol, so what am I watching for in the way of body language?
If she looks at you gets eye contact.
Keeps looking at you every know and again
smiles
takes sip of her drink, holds eye contact with you at same time.
if with friends, she will tell them so they will take sneaky peeks
comes to bar to get another drink and stands by you.
She will be as nervous as you
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Or the other way round!
U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....
But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....
But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
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kurzita: Or the other way round!
U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
yep, forgot going to the ladies room to get noticed U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
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morganlee: yep, forgot going to the ladies room to get noticed
Haha....got u on that one.....
PLUS....you'll notice they smell better when they waft back by U from the powder room......
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kurzita: Haha....got u on that one.....
PLUS....you'll notice they smell better when they waft back by U from the powder room......
PLUS....you'll notice they smell better when they waft back by U from the powder room......
Another one, if your in a club will get up and dance !
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morganlee: Another one, if your in a club will get up and dance !
Ah yes of course.....
And if there are lights, she'll make sure that she against so U can actually see her shape through the clothes too.....
I'm very well versed in club tactics actually......was a club DJ for 13 years......amazing the things U learn and see when U are up there in the box.....
Most of the time, with all the crap about the male being the stalker, it's the other way round really.....
It's the women who mark thier prey and carry out the hunt....
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kurzita: Or the other way round!
U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
U catch eye contact once.....
Then u notice that the person is doing her utmost to avoid looking at u....
But keeps on passing close to your vicinity ever so often....
to make sure U have seen her.....But apart from all this crap.....
If u catch somebody's eye, smile....
If she smiles back, go say hello, I'm ......whatever.
Good luck mate....
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I have never considered myself a good looking guy, but I'm ok with it. I really am, I don't whine or complain about it, I am who and what I am and those who don't like it, well, don't look. Anyway, My ex girlfriend was always telling me how much I get "checked out" and looked over, I guess she kinda took it well and it didn't really bother her or anything. But truthfully, I never saw it. Being single again or even going to a bar when I was alone or with a few friends, I never noticed it. SO.......am I that oblivious to it? How does a guy know when he's being subtly "checked out"?