uk_man_31: I totally agree sounds to me like hes having his cake and eating it. Us men can be totally capable of happily maintaining more than one relationship at one time, the question is wether we chose to or not. This becomes perfectly clear when you talk to gay men, although not all gay men are unfaithful but they are very premisques(did I spell that right)well they like to funk a lot.
Hiya.. slight correction... some do.. one of my best friends and a couple of my good friends are gay... and none of them are promiscuous... my BF is waiting for 'Mr Right' and is getting less action than me.. which is saying a LOT
Well hun if you have been preoccupied with a married man for so long it is any wonder you have been single for 8 years.. Leave him to work out his marriage..give thm both a chance at fiding their own solutions....find your own self before even contemplating looking for another partner.. You should never invest your entire savings in the one basket without considering the outcome...gambling is an odds against...especially one that does not belong to you...
rubyrubydoowarrington, Cheshire, England UK73 posts
you need to invest your heart into yourself babe , although you feel she treats him so bad , if its so bad why is he still with her ? at the end of the day he made a commitment to her , you might not want him to be with her but he is and he continues to come to you and then leave you again , dont be a door mat babe , be true to yourself and want someone who wants you and only you in his life , you will waste so many years just waiting for him to leave and he wont . how many weekends have you sat looking at the phone , alone , and it just dont ring? he is just having his cake and eating it too , how many tears have you cried at the hopelessness of it all . i bet hes not shed many .
you are the only one who can make things right , walk away now babe while you still have some dignity intact
If he is willing to cheat on his wife, where does that leave you when the time comes? He could cheat on you for the same reason he is cheating on his wife. It is not worth it for you to go through this and be hurt so another will have to pick up the pieces. Follow your heart and make good decisions, but him you don't need.
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Hiya.. slight correction... some do.. one of my best friends and a couple of my good friends are gay... and none of them are promiscuous... my BF is waiting for 'Mr Right' and is getting less action than me.. which is saying a LOT