Since this thing isn't really working to help me find a date, how about I ask a question that's been (87)
I know you wont want to hear this..but here i go...messing arouond with another womans man is a no no...put the shoe on the other foot..it dont matter how you feel about him..He is Married..off limits..he wont leave her come on..that is the oldest line in the book..You will be the one to get hurt...and you are hurting another and the family..Best advice Leave and dont keep doing what you are doing.
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get your OWN life....
jmo
jmo
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AngelEyes2244: weighing on my mind very heavily for the past 8 years.. Yes I said 8 years....
The reason I'm starting to date again is because for the past 8 years I've been in love with the same man. It all started when I was 17 years old and my first boyfriend, the first guy I ever truely loved broke my heart. I had a neighbor. My neighbor was 27. We started hanging out, he gave me advice, explained to me that thigns like this happen and while it sucks there will always be someone better.
As time went on my neighbor, we'll call him Joe, and I became closer and closer and a certain chemisty that neither of us could deny ensued. We fought it until finally one night I was sitting out on his back deck late into the night with him and he kissed me. My heart skipped a beat, it was the most passionate, sensual, gentle amazing kiss I had ever felt. That was it, I was hooked. Joe and I fooled around, and saw eachother for quite sometime after that until he moved away. We tried to keep in touch but things tapered off. When he finally came back I was in a great relationship with a great guy who pulled me out of a very dark place in my life... Then Joe came back. I told him about this wonderful man who rescued me from myself and he was happy for me. Because I was in this relationship I failed to tell Joe how I felt about him. Then Joe got his roommate pregnant and they got married.
Not too long down the line me and that great guy went our separate ways and I got the courage to tell Joe how I really felt about him. The only problem was that it was too late. Joe was already married to this wreched woman who treated him like dirt.
So now, for the past 5 years (almost as long as Joe has been married) we've been carrying on a relationship behind his wife's back. He's unhappy with her but does not make false promises that he has plans of leaving her. I'm ok with this for the most part except I don't get the time I'd like to have with him. I don't get to do normal couple stuff with him like go out on dates, spend the night together, take him to my friend's weddings. I have to spend time with him outside of our hometown for fear that someone who knows his wife will see us together and she'll find out. I want her to find out, I want her to know that he loves me, that he wants me and that she's not enough for him. She treats him like he's a doormat and I can't stand it. She takes advantage of him and I just wish I could do something about it. My heart is completely invested in him and that's why I can't seem to find someone else who I can be with.
Bottom line, I have no idea what to do.. Any suggestions??????
Thanks everyone!!
Calli
The reason I'm starting to date again is because for the past 8 years I've been in love with the same man. It all started when I was 17 years old and my first boyfriend, the first guy I ever truely loved broke my heart. I had a neighbor. My neighbor was 27. We started hanging out, he gave me advice, explained to me that thigns like this happen and while it sucks there will always be someone better.
As time went on my neighbor, we'll call him Joe, and I became closer and closer and a certain chemisty that neither of us could deny ensued. We fought it until finally one night I was sitting out on his back deck late into the night with him and he kissed me. My heart skipped a beat, it was the most passionate, sensual, gentle amazing kiss I had ever felt. That was it, I was hooked. Joe and I fooled around, and saw eachother for quite sometime after that until he moved away. We tried to keep in touch but things tapered off. When he finally came back I was in a great relationship with a great guy who pulled me out of a very dark place in my life... Then Joe came back. I told him about this wonderful man who rescued me from myself and he was happy for me. Because I was in this relationship I failed to tell Joe how I felt about him. Then Joe got his roommate pregnant and they got married.
Not too long down the line me and that great guy went our separate ways and I got the courage to tell Joe how I really felt about him. The only problem was that it was too late. Joe was already married to this wreched woman who treated him like dirt.
So now, for the past 5 years (almost as long as Joe has been married) we've been carrying on a relationship behind his wife's back. He's unhappy with her but does not make false promises that he has plans of leaving her. I'm ok with this for the most part except I don't get the time I'd like to have with him. I don't get to do normal couple stuff with him like go out on dates, spend the night together, take him to my friend's weddings. I have to spend time with him outside of our hometown for fear that someone who knows his wife will see us together and she'll find out. I want her to find out, I want her to know that he loves me, that he wants me and that she's not enough for him. She treats him like he's a doormat and I can't stand it. She takes advantage of him and I just wish I could do something about it. My heart is completely invested in him and that's why I can't seem to find someone else who I can be with.
Bottom line, I have no idea what to do.. Any suggestions??????
Thanks everyone!!
Calli
Why after all this time and her treating him so badly.. and him actually being in love with you.. is he still with her then? 
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AngelEyes2244: weighing on my mind very heavily for the past 8 years.. Yes I said 8 years....
The reason I'm starting to date again is because for the past 8 years I've been in love with the same man. It all started when I was 17 years old and my first boyfriend, the first guy I ever truely loved broke my heart. I had a neighbor. My neighbor was 27. We started hanging out, he gave me advice, explained to me that thigns like this happen and while it sucks there will always be someone better.
As time went on my neighbor, we'll call him Joe, and I became closer and closer and a certain chemisty that neither of us could deny ensued. We fought it until finally one night I was sitting out on his back deck late into the night with him and he kissed me. My heart skipped a beat, it was the most passionate, sensual, gentle amazing kiss I had ever felt. That was it, I was hooked. Joe and I fooled around, and saw eachother for quite sometime after that until he moved away. We tried to keep in touch but things tapered off. When he finally came back I was in a great relationship with a great guy who pulled me out of a very dark place in my life... Then Joe came back. I told him about this wonderful man who rescued me from myself and he was happy for me. Because I was in this relationship I failed to tell Joe how I felt about him. Then Joe got his roommate pregnant and they got married.
Not too long down the line me and that great guy went our separate ways and I got the courage to tell Joe how I really felt about him. The only problem was that it was too late. Joe was already married to this wreched woman who treated him like dirt.
So now, for the past 5 years (almost as long as Joe has been married) we've been carrying on a relationship behind his wife's back. He's unhappy with her but does not make false promises that he has plans of leaving her. I'm ok with this for the most part except I don't get the time I'd like to have with him. I don't get to do normal couple stuff with him like go out on dates, spend the night together, take him to my friend's weddings. I have to spend time with him outside of our hometown for fear that someone who knows his wife will see us together and she'll find out. I want her to find out, I want her to know that he loves me, that he wants me and that she's not enough for him. She treats him like he's a doormat and I can't stand it. She takes advantage of him and I just wish I could do something about it. My heart is completely invested in him and that's why I can't seem to find someone else who I can be with.
Bottom line, I have no idea what to do.. Any suggestions??????
Thanks everyone!!
Calli
The reason I'm starting to date again is because for the past 8 years I've been in love with the same man. It all started when I was 17 years old and my first boyfriend, the first guy I ever truely loved broke my heart. I had a neighbor. My neighbor was 27. We started hanging out, he gave me advice, explained to me that thigns like this happen and while it sucks there will always be someone better.
As time went on my neighbor, we'll call him Joe, and I became closer and closer and a certain chemisty that neither of us could deny ensued. We fought it until finally one night I was sitting out on his back deck late into the night with him and he kissed me. My heart skipped a beat, it was the most passionate, sensual, gentle amazing kiss I had ever felt. That was it, I was hooked. Joe and I fooled around, and saw eachother for quite sometime after that until he moved away. We tried to keep in touch but things tapered off. When he finally came back I was in a great relationship with a great guy who pulled me out of a very dark place in my life... Then Joe came back. I told him about this wonderful man who rescued me from myself and he was happy for me. Because I was in this relationship I failed to tell Joe how I felt about him. Then Joe got his roommate pregnant and they got married.
Not too long down the line me and that great guy went our separate ways and I got the courage to tell Joe how I really felt about him. The only problem was that it was too late. Joe was already married to this wreched woman who treated him like dirt.
So now, for the past 5 years (almost as long as Joe has been married) we've been carrying on a relationship behind his wife's back. He's unhappy with her but does not make false promises that he has plans of leaving her. I'm ok with this for the most part except I don't get the time I'd like to have with him. I don't get to do normal couple stuff with him like go out on dates, spend the night together, take him to my friend's weddings. I have to spend time with him outside of our hometown for fear that someone who knows his wife will see us together and she'll find out. I want her to find out, I want her to know that he loves me, that he wants me and that she's not enough for him. She treats him like he's a doormat and I can't stand it. She takes advantage of him and I just wish I could do something about it. My heart is completely invested in him and that's why I can't seem to find someone else who I can be with.
Bottom line, I have no idea what to do.. Any suggestions??????
Thanks everyone!!
Calli
You really should think about this.......
If he's willing to cheat on his WIFE with you....what will he do behind YOUR back....And you don't even have the benefit of being married to him.....Hhhmmmmm.....
JMO
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kissmedeeply: I know you wont want to hear this..but here i go...messing arouond with another womans man is a no no...put the shoe on the other foot..it dont matter how you feel about him..He is Married..off limits..he wont leave her come on..that is the oldest line in the book..You will be the one to get hurt...and you are hurting another and the family..Best advice Leave and dont keep doing what you are doing.
Couldn't have said it better...This man is NOT available....Find one who is!!!!!!!!!!
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Couldn't have said it better...This man is NOT available....Find one who is!!!!!!!!!!
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Couldn't have said it better...This man is NOT available....Find one who is!!!!!!!!!!
I can't be bothered to quote everyone.. but I agree with everything the other girlies have already said.
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Claayer: I can't be bothered to quote everyone.. but I agree with everything the other girlies have already said.
I am not a girlie. Need proof?
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Bowie: I am not a girlie. Need proof?
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kissmedeeply: Hey Sweetie..I really dont understand why anyone would do this..and just keep making excuses
Right....I think there are some women who actually thrive on being with someone elses boyfriend or husband....
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Unfair judging going on. The married dude is at fault as well. I'm sure there is more to this story. All I have to say, is that it is a very unfortunate situation that cannot be easy on her or him.------ This thread is Archived ------
Bowie: I am not a girlie. Need proof?
what's wrong with being a girl?
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StressFree: Unfair judging going on. The married dude is at fault as well. I'm sure there is more to this story. All I have to say, is that it is a very unfortunate situation that cannot be easy on her or him.
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Bowie: I am not a girlie. Need proof?
YES!
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Bowie: Don't like the taste of MIDOL
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StressFree: Unfair judging going on. The married dude is at fault as well. I'm sure there is more to this story. All I have to say, is that it is a very unfortunate situation that cannot be easy on her or him.
Oh please...that's a cop out..Of course you can only base an opinion on one side....Do you think the married guy is gonna come on and give his?????
If people don't want opinions...even negative ones then they shouldn't post!!!!!!
Are we suppose to all agree and say...yes that's ok when our opinion differs????????
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Oh please...that's a cop out..Of course you can only base an opinion on one side....Do you think the married guy is gonna come on and give his?????
If people don't want opinions...even negative ones then they shouldn't post!!!!!!Are we suppose to all agree and say...yes that's ok when our opinion differs????????
If people don't want opinions...even negative ones then they shouldn't post!!!!!!Are we suppose to all agree and say...yes that's ok when our opinion differs????????
Exactamundo
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The reason I'm starting to date again is because for the past 8 years I've been in love with the same man. It all started when I was 17 years old and my first boyfriend, the first guy I ever truely loved broke my heart. I had a neighbor. My neighbor was 27. We started hanging out, he gave me advice, explained to me that thigns like this happen and while it sucks there will always be someone better.
As time went on my neighbor, we'll call him Joe, and I became closer and closer and a certain chemisty that neither of us could deny ensued. We fought it until finally one night I was sitting out on his back deck late into the night with him and he kissed me. My heart skipped a beat, it was the most passionate, sensual, gentle amazing kiss I had ever felt. That was it, I was hooked. Joe and I fooled around, and saw eachother for quite sometime after that until he moved away. We tried to keep in touch but things tapered off. When he finally came back I was in a great relationship with a great guy who pulled me out of a very dark place in my life... Then Joe came back. I told him about this wonderful man who rescued me from myself and he was happy for me. Because I was in this relationship I failed to tell Joe how I felt about him. Then Joe got his roommate pregnant and they got married.
Not too long down the line me and that great guy went our separate ways and I got the courage to tell Joe how I really felt about him. The only problem was that it was too late. Joe was already married to this wreched woman who treated him like dirt.
So now, for the past 5 years (almost as long as Joe has been married) we've been carrying on a relationship behind his wife's back. He's unhappy with her but does not make false promises that he has plans of leaving her. I'm ok with this for the most part except I don't get the time I'd like to have with him. I don't get to do normal couple stuff with him like go out on dates, spend the night together, take him to my friend's weddings. I have to spend time with him outside of our hometown for fear that someone who knows his wife will see us together and she'll find out. I want her to find out, I want her to know that he loves me, that he wants me and that she's not enough for him. She treats him like he's a doormat and I can't stand it. She takes advantage of him and I just wish I could do something about it. My heart is completely invested in him and that's why I can't seem to find someone else who I can be with.
Bottom line, I have no idea what to do.. Any suggestions??????
Thanks everyone!!
Calli