Do you believe in long-distance relationships? ( Archived) (122)

May 31, 2008 5:00 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I am having a long distance relationship now..but we have met in person a few times now...Well i will tell you how in the hell you can love someone you have not met..It happen with me and Eric that lives in North Carolina...We loved each other b4 we met..Not Lust..but Love..and when we met in person nothing change..

If you love someone and met them..and only see them maybe once a month..you never forget what they look like..How could you...You keep them in ur heart...ur thoughts..ur mind...We study each other so much b4 we met in person so we had no suprises...

I love him and he loves me with all our hearts...and i will be moving this year to North Carolina..and be Married...

You know Love is Love..You cant fight it...If its true Love you will do anything to be with that person...where there is a will there is a way...JMO
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May 31, 2008 5:08 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Manolito: Hoi Angel!

how are you ova there?
everything good?

Summer is here!


Tiiiing, dobre sam, Mano.wave It's a cool, cool summeeerrgrin Hope your fine,handshake
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May 31, 2008 5:10 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
Claayer: I had a bf.. who lived JUST over 300 miles away.. he would come here.. I would go there.

He ended it because of the distance..

The distance didn't bother me at all.. obviously it could have been better.. but it was still workable. (easily)

He now.. more than a year later.. is going on and on and ON about how I was 'The One' for him.. and how it was only the distance.. and can we get back together etc.. (and if we are still single.. will I marry him next May Day 09.. hahah.

Pffft!... No.. you snooze you lose.


hahahaa thumbs up

The nanny's back tongue laugh
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May 31, 2008 5:14 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Zellarrone1: I suppose we could all invest in a webcam, still not quite the same though




That's an inexpensive date. That could work applause
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May 31, 2008 5:15 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Indyfella: That's an inexpensive date. That could work
At least we wouldn't forget what they looked like laugh
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May 31, 2008 5:17 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Zellarrone1: At least we wouldn't forget what they looked like



But, it would be awkward kissing a webcam good night thumbs down
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May 31, 2008 5:20 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Indyfella: But, it would be awkward kissing a webcam good night
True, I tried it once and it left lips marks all over my monitor roll eyes
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May 31, 2008 5:21 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Zellarrone1: True, I tried it once and it left marks all over my monitor



Me too.......(but that's our secret)
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May 31, 2008 5:31 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
In a word.....NO
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May 31, 2008 5:47 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
waste of time
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May 31, 2008 5:52 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
a_l_e_x: waste of time
scold
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May 31, 2008 5:59 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I agree with Pete that the world has gotten smaller. I think it's okay to begin a relationship long distance. At some point, if things work out, that distance has to close. The guy I like right now is 4000 miles away. You take the time away to really get to know someone. To learn about the person, instead of relying on the physical aspect of the relationship. Then when you get to the point of being able to actually be together, you've gotten through the getting to know you phase. So, yes, I do believe it can work as long as the distance gets closed before it's too late.
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May 31, 2008 6:00 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
gangel: Nice.I'm not going to ask what is yr job

Back to the thread, do you believe in long-distance relationships?


aaahahahaha, i just realised that i must work in hell devil I have to be satan's little helper, cause my boss is definately Satan incarnated laugh roll eyes


No gangel, i don't.
I need physical presence for the relation to work - i got too much to share with my person and i cannot do that when she is far away.
For me, it is not that the relationship will die or that my feelings will change. But i believe that a relationship is a living thing that evolves... And i feel that i cannot evolve with it if i am not physically present.

I have had a long term relationship (more than 5 years) that was for the most part a long distance one... we would get together 4-5 times a year and we would talk dayly...
I wont go into too much detail, the point is that it didnt work, nomatter how baddly we both wanted it to work. The relationship evolved, and we didnt. And that is (shortly) my point of view...

On the other hand though, i WOULD get into a distance relationship IF there was a prospect of being permanently together in the near future... For example, if i knew that it was within my means to relocate if i found someone worth it, i would hesitate too much. But for me, that possibility must clearly be there and within the forseeable future to initiate anything long distance...
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May 31, 2008 6:02 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
cristina: that gendobre is everywhere

35 ºC, yuhuuuuuuuuu


hahaha, yeah, slavic kind of heeeeellooooo laugh wave

i picked some slavish on my travels, haha blushing
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May 31, 2008 6:05 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
dcj22: I agree with Pete that the world has gotten smaller. I think it's okay to begin a relationship long distance. At some point, if things work out, that distance has to close. The guy I like right now is 4000 miles away. You take the time away to really get to know someone. To learn about the person, instead of relying on the physical aspect of the relationship. Then when you get to the point of being able to actually be together, you've gotten through the getting to know you phase. So, yes, I do believe it can work as long as the distance gets closed before it's too late.


What do you mean "the guy you like now"?????? wow
i thought you liked ME! moping
you could at least have said "ONE of the guys i like now...."
rolling on the floor laughing


Hoi Dana wave
Great post thumbs up As long as it is closed before it is too late...
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May 31, 2008 6:08 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I say again...if you can't maintain a relationship locally....how can you maintain one with a person 500 miles away??scold
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May 31, 2008 6:09 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
traviata
traviatatraviataColorado Springs, Colorado USA1 Threads 10 Posts
Yes I believe if there are no cheaters, that most of the time you find them. I had one it didn't work out but it wasn't due to distance. I am still looking for it but it is difficult I don't know what man are looking for, but I don't post my picture because I want first to be contacted and then if they are really interested in me I show the picture.
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May 31, 2008 6:10 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
gangel: Hahah, mai si prav za tova.ili ?
can you tell me what langage you and (manolito) are speaking
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May 31, 2008 6:10 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
shipoker55: I say again...if you can't maintain a relationship locally....how can you maintain one with a person 500 miles away??


love and effort. dunno
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May 31, 2008 6:14 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
jus_4you: can you tell me what langage you and (manolito) are speaking



Between bulgarian and romanian.wave
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