kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
I am having a long distance relationship now..but we have met in person a few times now...Well i will tell you how in the hell you can love someone you have not met..It happen with me and Eric that lives in North Carolina...We loved each other b4 we met..Not Lust..but Love..and when we met in person nothing change..
If you love someone and met them..and only see them maybe once a month..you never forget what they look like..How could you...You keep them in ur heart...ur thoughts..ur mind...We study each other so much b4 we met in person so we had no suprises...
I love him and he loves me with all our hearts...and i will be moving this year to North Carolina..and be Married...
You know Love is Love..You cant fight it...If its true Love you will do anything to be with that person...where there is a will there is a way...JMO
Manolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK1,611 posts
Claayer: I had a bf.. who lived JUST over 300 miles away.. he would come here.. I would go there.
He ended it because of the distance..
The distance didn't bother me at all.. obviously it could have been better.. but it was still workable. (easily)
He now.. more than a year later.. is going on and on and ON about how I was 'The One' for him.. and how it was only the distance.. and can we get back together etc.. (and if we are still single.. will I marry him next May Day 09.. hahah.
I agree with Pete that the world has gotten smaller. I think it's okay to begin a relationship long distance. At some point, if things work out, that distance has to close. The guy I like right now is 4000 miles away. You take the time away to really get to know someone. To learn about the person, instead of relying on the physical aspect of the relationship. Then when you get to the point of being able to actually be together, you've gotten through the getting to know you phase. So, yes, I do believe it can work as long as the distance gets closed before it's too late.
Manolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK1,611 posts
gangel: Nice.I'm not going to ask what is yr job
Back to the thread, do you believe in long-distance relationships?
aaahahahaha, i just realised that i must work in hell I have to be satan's little helper, cause my boss is definately Satan incarnated
No gangel, i don't. I need physical presence for the relation to work - i got too much to share with my person and i cannot do that when she is far away. For me, it is not that the relationship will die or that my feelings will change. But i believe that a relationship is a living thing that evolves... And i feel that i cannot evolve with it if i am not physically present.
I have had a long term relationship (more than 5 years) that was for the most part a long distance one... we would get together 4-5 times a year and we would talk dayly... I wont go into too much detail, the point is that it didnt work, nomatter how baddly we both wanted it to work. The relationship evolved, and we didnt. And that is (shortly) my point of view...
On the other hand though, i WOULD get into a distance relationship IF there was a prospect of being permanently together in the near future... For example, if i knew that it was within my means to relocate if i found someone worth it, i would hesitate too much. But for me, that possibility must clearly be there and within the forseeable future to initiate anything long distance...
Manolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK1,611 posts
dcj22: I agree with Pete that the world has gotten smaller. I think it's okay to begin a relationship long distance. At some point, if things work out, that distance has to close. The guy I like right now is 4000 miles away. You take the time away to really get to know someone. To learn about the person, instead of relying on the physical aspect of the relationship. Then when you get to the point of being able to actually be together, you've gotten through the getting to know you phase. So, yes, I do believe it can work as long as the distance gets closed before it's too late.
What do you mean "the guy you like now"?????? i thought you liked ME! you could at least have said "ONE of the guys i like now...."
Hoi Dana Great post As long as it is closed before it is too late...
Yes I believe if there are no cheaters, that most of the time you find them. I had one it didn't work out but it wasn't due to distance. I am still looking for it but it is difficult I don't know what man are looking for, but I don't post my picture because I want first to be contacted and then if they are really interested in me I show the picture.
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If you love someone and met them..and only see them maybe once a month..you never forget what they look like..How could you...You keep them in ur heart...ur thoughts..ur mind...We study each other so much b4 we met in person so we had no suprises...
I love him and he loves me with all our hearts...and i will be moving this year to North Carolina..and be Married...
You know Love is Love..You cant fight it...If its true Love you will do anything to be with that person...where there is a will there is a way...JMO