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Do you believe in long-distance relationships? ( Archived) (122)

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May 31, 2008 3:46 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
LilSexyKitty88
LilSexyKitty88LilSexyKitty88Lakewood, Ohio USA1 Threads 3 Posts
LilSexyKitty88OPLakewood, Ohio USA3 posts
I mean, is there a point to them? Is there a point to just talking to someone on the phone or communicating through just im and emails, but not in person because of the distance?.. And eventually just meeting up with them.. say.. once a year because A lives in New York and B lives in L. A., for example?.. Or here's another scenario.. Let's say you start dating someone.. and fall for them quick, but.. then they tell you that they want to join the military and sign the contract for four years... What would you do? Would you still keep it up?? I mean, you'd only see that person twice a year.. and maybe (?) still have feelings for them after a few months?

To me, these kind of relationships don't make sense.. I mean, I was friends with this one girl, and she told me that she LOVES a guy that lives in South Carolina or something.. But, she's never even met the guy!!! HOW THE HELL COULD YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU HAVEN'T EVEN MET FOR CRYING OUT LOUD?.. and better yet..HOW COULD YOU KEEP UP SOMETHING WITH A PERSON THAT IS CONSTANTLY ABSENT? I believe you love someone and grow with someone by sharing life experiences, spending a lot of time, and really getting to know them. Also, physical contact being physically present (in my eyes, at least) is what keeps the spark alive.. I mean, if you almost never get to see someone, don't you kind of even forget what exactly they look like?dunno

SORRY, BUT FOR ME ABSENCE DOES NOT MAKE THE HEART FONDER...
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#2
May 31, 2008 3:51 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mindffulChicago, Illinois USA18,996 posts
absence does make the heart grow fonder
and other body parts quite restless

devil



laugh
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#3
May 31, 2008 3:56 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
rasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA4,665 posts
NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE.

btw....... did I say NO?

If I'm going to be in a serious relationship. I want to be able to spend time together, not just once or twice a month or less.
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#4
May 31, 2008 3:56 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mindfful: absence does make the heart grow fonder
and other body parts quite restless


hahaha laugh
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#5
May 31, 2008 3:58 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
rasgumby: NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE.

btw....... did I say NO?

If I'm going to be in a serious relationship. I want to be able to spend time together, not just once or twice a month or less.


I disagree... tongue

Yes I do.. as a start.. and a base.. and a foundation.. in this day and age..

YUP I do. thumbs up thumbs up
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#6
May 31, 2008 4:00 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Yes...the point to it is a deep love and respect you have. That is way more important than any distance.

I was in a LDR...she lived 650 miles from me. It didn't work out but I would do it again in a heartbeat!!!
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#7
May 31, 2008 4:07 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
rasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA4,665 posts
Claayer: I disagree...

Yes I do.. as a start.. and a base.. and a foundation.. in this day and age..

YUP I do.


Is that a proposal?wink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Darn it.........now my sides hurtkiss
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#8
May 31, 2008 4:08 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
xoredheadxo
xoredheadxoxoredheadxoMorgantown, West Virginia USA14 Threads 1,179 Posts
xoredheadxoMorgantown, West Virginia USA1,179 posts
I do now!!!!!!!!

Grizz73 = Fairbanks Alaska

xoredheadxo = WV

he's coming here in September forever!!!!!!!!

IT DOES WORK!!!!!!

grizzy73 + xoredheadxo = forever!!!!smitten
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#9
May 31, 2008 4:16 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Indyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA18,150 posts
From Lakewood Ohio to Indianapolis Indiana isn't that far.....we can make it work. applause
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#10
May 31, 2008 4:19 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
rasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA4,665 posts
Zellarrone1: Nope, no point to them at all...sadly most of the LDR's are doomed from the start


I will put a note in a bottle and toss it in the ocean just for you....be watchin for it sweetie.............wink grin
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#11
May 31, 2008 4:25 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK7,644 posts
rasgumby: I will put a note in a bottle and toss it in the ocean just for you....be watchin for it sweetie.............
How romantic wow I'll then reply to the note and toss it back in your direction. Wonder how many decades it will take to complete it's return voyage rolling on the floor laughing
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#12
May 31, 2008 4:29 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
LilSexyKitty88
LilSexyKitty88LilSexyKitty88Lakewood, Ohio USA1 Threads 3 Posts
LilSexyKitty88OPLakewood, Ohio USA3 posts
HELL YES! T
rasgumby: NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NO. NOPE. NOPE.

btw....... did I say NO?

If I'm going to be in a serious relationship. I want to be able to spend time together, not just once or twice a month or less.


HELL YES! HERE'S SOMEONE THAT FEELS ME FOR ONCE!peace
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#13
May 31, 2008 4:30 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
LilSexyKitty88
LilSexyKitty88LilSexyKitty88Lakewood, Ohio USA1 Threads 3 Posts
LilSexyKitty88OPLakewood, Ohio USA3 posts
I KNOW, AREN'T THEY JUST DOOMED FROM THE START IF YA NEVER SEE THE PERSON??
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#14
May 31, 2008 4:43 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mbcasey: Yes...the point to it is a deep love and respect you have. That is way more important than any distance.

I was in a LDR...she lived 650 miles from me. It didn't work out but I would do it again in a heartbeat!!!


Mine was 4148 miles.. and I too would do it again. thumbs up
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#15
May 31, 2008 4:43 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
rasgumby: Is that a proposal?
Darn it.........now my sides hurt


hahaha laugh roll eyes
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#16
May 31, 2008 4:48 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
Manolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK1,611 posts
gangel: Hahah, mai si prav za tova.ili ?


Hoi Angel! wave

how are you ova there?
everything good?

Summer is here! banana cheering hug
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#17
May 31, 2008 4:54 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mbcasey: Yes...the point to it is a deep love and respect you have. That is way more important than any distance.

I was in a LDR...she lived 650 miles from me. It didn't work out but I would do it again in a heartbeat!!!


I had a bf.. who lived JUST over 300 miles away.. he would come here.. I would go there.

He ended it because of the distance.. shock shock

The distance didn't bother me at all.. obviously it could have been better.. but it was still workable. (easily)

He now.. more than a year later.. is going on and on and ON about how I was 'The One' for him.. and how it was only the distance.. and can we get back together etc.. (and if we are still single.. will I marry him next May Day 09.. hahah.

Pffft!... thumbs down No.. you snooze you lose.
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#18
May 31, 2008 4:55 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Claayer: I had a bf.. who lived JUST over 300 miles away.. he would come here.. I would go there.

He ended it because of the distance..

The distance didn't bother me at all.. obviously it could have been better.. but it was still workable. (easily)

He now.. more than a year later.. is going on and on and ON about how I was 'The One' for him.. and how it was only the distance.. and can we get back together etc.. (and if we are still single.. will I marry him next May Day 09.. hahah.

Pffft!... No.. you snooze you lose.


Can I be an usher at your wedding??grin
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#19
May 31, 2008 4:57 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mbcasey: Can I be an usher at your wedding??


hahaha.. shoowaaarrr you can Ken
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#20
May 31, 2008 4:57 PM CST Do you believe in long-distance relationships?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Claayer: hahaha.. shoowaaarrr you can Ken


laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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