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Jun 9, 2008 8:39 AM CST What do you look for...
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Someone who can pick me up when I feel down.

Someone I can argue with, but get over it with also.

Someone who doesn't tell porkie pies.

Someone I can lay my head on their lap with, and feel totally secure and protected in their arms.
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Jun 9, 2008 8:56 AM CST What do you look for...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
someone who has a mind and thinking of his own .. not wanting to follow the league .... a combination of a lot of qualities ... but to begin with intelligent , simple and kind.
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Jun 9, 2008 9:13 AM CST What do you look for...
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
Rosana Dana: What do you look for in a partner. Not the usual things, such as physical attraction and a sense of humor. But what kind of character traits do you look for in a mate?


Claayer Voyant: Kindness and humour


Ability to follow instructions giggle
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Jun 9, 2008 9:31 AM CST What do you look for...
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 414 Posts
vonney: Not after 4 pregnancies you cant


You can if you're someone like Paula Yates, who didn't look too bad after giving birth to 3 daughters with Bob Geldorf and 1 daughter with Michael Hutchence. wink
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Jun 9, 2008 9:32 AM CST What do you look for...
Ricco
RiccoRiccoSan Cristobal, Buenos Aires Argentina13 Threads 539 Posts
Shanmariee: Someone who can be bold and tough when needed and yet soft and gentle when possible .


Often times, business requires you to be tough, But at home opposite.hug love laugh
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Jun 9, 2008 9:57 AM CST What do you look for...
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
DEPTH in all aspectslips
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Jun 9, 2008 9:59 AM CST What do you look for...
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
irishlass45: DEPTH in all aspects


Yes indeed... deep, not dense.
laugh
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Jun 9, 2008 10:13 AM CST What do you look for...
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
spiceygamble: Yes indeed... deep, not dense.


Amen sista and that should have summed it up, she did say besides looks and attitude right? well there you go what else can you ask for?wink bouquet
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Jun 9, 2008 10:24 AM CST What do you look for...
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
Yeah, no kidding.
It doesn't matter who you are, it still sucks to get a big fancy present...
only to open it up & find a wisp of shredded paper inside!
You just can't dress up those details~

laugh
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Jun 9, 2008 10:29 AM CST What do you look for...
Ricco
RiccoRiccoSan Cristobal, Buenos Aires Argentina13 Threads 539 Posts
spiceygamble: I like to start with someone who's truthful & loving...
and work from there.


wine
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Jun 9, 2008 10:32 AM CST What do you look for...
skwidwurd
skwidwurdskwidwurdAberdeen, Grampian, Scotland UK37 Threads 631 Posts
irishlass45: DEPTH in all aspects


proof that size DOES matter!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 9, 2008 11:04 AM CST What do you look for...
pixiestyx
pixiestyxpixiestyxeverywhere, South Carolina USA238 Posts
someone who says what he means and means what he says...


is affectionate, patient, understanding,

isnt a quitter.. and doesnt procrastinate and whine

has self confidence and self love without being selfish...

doesnt have the me me me attitude...

is polite and well mannered not arrogant ..

doesnt sit and watch life go by but, participates in it and is part of it

he does not just exist but lives.......thumbs up daydream
dance
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Jun 9, 2008 11:35 AM CST What do you look for...
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
spiceygamble: I like to start with someone who's truthful & loving...
and work from there.


I like this answer.
with these established the rest can be built.

But to expect perfection, one will always have to lower their standards.
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Oct 17, 2008 9:56 PM CST What do you look for...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
sxc666: Someone who can pick me up when I feel down.

Someone I can argue with, but get over it with also.

Someone who doesn't tell porkie pies.

Someone I can lay my head on their lap with, and feel totally secure and protected in their arms.




Dittoapplause applause
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Oct 17, 2008 10:03 PM CST What do you look for...
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
dcj22: What do you look for in a partner. Not the usual things, such as physical attraction and a sense of humor. But what kind of character traits do you look for in a mate?




ermm......uh oh found what I was looking for...typing presently recomputing my needs as I certainly didn't get what I bargained for....detective
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Oct 17, 2008 10:05 PM CST What do you look for...
BullsEyeAnnie
BullsEyeAnnieBullsEyeAnnieOak Grove, Kentucky USA1 Threads 12 Posts
skwidwurd: compatibility! physical attraction nor love is enough. no matter how attracted you are to someone or how much love you feel, if there's no compatibility then it'll never last. JMO


Exactly! If I like tomatoes, he must too. If I like Po tot oes, he must too...

Kindness and respect for other's. Strength that is able to bend, yet not break. We 'compliment' each other. Share interests but not glued to the hips. Likes children (to include my own), Knows when to say, "oh, chit, lets get out of here and go for a ride" Intellegence that has varied interests.
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Oct 17, 2008 10:05 PM CST What do you look for...
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Someone that will simply let me be me. Probably better not to look at all...
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Oct 17, 2008 10:11 PM CST What do you look for...
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
Claayer: Kindness and humour
thumbs up
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Oct 17, 2008 10:13 PM CST What do you look for...
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
rwantin: Someone that will simply let me be me. Probably better not to look at all...





I'd let you be you if you stay off my back....rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 17, 2008 10:14 PM CST What do you look for...
If and when I'm ready to accept someone in my life again let me answer this question from opposite angle..

What I dont expect:
- I cannot expect some one who is handsome looking as Mr Universe..but some one with decent looks.
- I cannot expect them to be totally compatible with my thinking and behavior. differences are bound to crop up. So I expect someone with whom the differences are manageable.

Now let me tell you what I expect:
I expect some one who is capable of loving me and my family as his own.
I expect some one whom I can respect for some good quality of his.
I expect someone who has observed people and their typical behaviours in the past, so that he knows what is relatively good and what is relatively bad in our current world.
I expect some one who is sensible in taking daily routine decisions

Finally, I would expect someone in whose presence I feel happy most of the time and with whom I can talk anything under the sky.
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