2catchastar: If you include his chest in your kisses, with a lot of chest hair doesn't it well hinder you some? Just asking I really dont know, I was just informed in the another thread I am a born again virgin. And memmory fails me.
Hmmmmm.....I don't like chest hair because, sure, it gets in the way of any body contact....it is not as senuous for kissing as well as everything else.....
Hmmmmm.....I don't like chest hair because, sure, it gets in the way of any body contact....it is not as senuous for kissing as well as everything else.....[/quote
Ok keep this thread up! I am running out to start a new buisness, body waxing I think guys are going to be wantin to get rid of some excess body hair after reading this.
2catchastar: Hmmmmm.....I don't like chest hair because, sure, it gets in the way of any body contact....it is not as senuous for kissing as well as everything else.....[/quote
Ok keep this thread up! I am running out to start a new buisness, body waxing I think guys are going to be wantin to get rid of some excess body hair after reading this.
Portiea...how is the dating scene going for you? If it none of my business...then that's cool. I am just curious...Do you like German men? How do they differ from American men?
StressFree: Portiea...how is the dating scene going for you? If it none of my business...then that's cool. I am just curious...Do you like German men? How do they differ from American men?
Has to be! cause it sure aint because they want to with me! Born aain virgin remeber!
But seriously: It just depends on the woman and what she likes....I don't like facial hair either....to me...it gets in the way of contact and is simply not as sensuous....but I also like a man to be natural....so I wouldn't be attracted to one of those guys who shaves and waxes everything....Individual taste...
But seriously, I don't date really, just hang out with friends...German men don't do it for me....I like American men...of all races and ethnicities...but American men for some reason...haven't been able to figure it out yet...But definitely not Germans...
Portiea: Yes, and as OP I will insist everyone behave and be kind....
please go ahead...you are under my protection and i am formidable
Thanks Portiea...
I get a lot of mail from people I haven't talked to before and the first question out of their mouth (not hi, how are ya, etc.) "Is how did your husband die?" I'm not sure how to reply to this so I tend to just ignore them. I mean I know it's human nature to be curious but it is something I feel that shouldn't be asked in the first email, or is it appropriate and am I just sensitive? How would you reply?
I get a lot of mail from people I haven't talked to before and the first question out of their mouth (not hi, how are ya, etc.) "Is how did your husband die?" I'm not sure how to reply to this so I tend to just ignore them. I mean I know it's human nature to be curious but it is something I feel that shouldn't be asked in the first email, or is it appropriate and am I just sensitive? How would you reply?
I think its very inappropriate and that is something you share with someone when your ready. Question should not even be asked on a first e-mail
I get a lot of mail from people I haven't talked to before and the first question out of their mouth (not hi, how are ya, etc.) "Is how did your husband die?" I'm not sure how to reply to this so I tend to just ignore them. I mean I know it's human nature to be curious but it is something I feel that shouldn't be asked in the first email, or is it appropriate and am I just sensitive? How would you reply?
Well, frankly for me, and this is obviously just my perspective: I've lived in some foreign countries...Asia and the Middle East where the culture is quite different. I know I am not interested in a man from these cultures unless he is pretty thoroughly educated and Westernized, simply because of the cultural differences I am willing to adapt to. So, I don't get mail from most of these guys as I block out these countries. I get some mail like this from such men who are immigrants to Europe, and I just don't respond. I am not interested in them, so I don't respond. Maybe it is rude, but there is no point for me to encourage someone like this, and I can't sent a note to everyone like this who writes to me because it would entail too much time, and also could be seen as encouragement. That's my answer. I am sure there are other approaches.
If you are interested in getting to know these people, then you should answer and be as clear as you can. But it is a cultural and language issue and a huge hurdle to get over, I think.
Justme4uok: I think its very inappropriate and that is something you share with someone when your ready. Question should not even be asked on a first e-mail
I think it is asked because it is coming from someone from a very different cultural background. When I rode in taxis in Asia and the Middle East the taxi drivers asked this type of question.....they don't really get all these single women running around loose and free...they just don't really get it...
Portiea: I think it is asked because it is coming from someone from a very different cultural background. When I rode in taxis in Asia and the Middle East the taxi drivers asked this type of question.....they don't really get all these single women running around loose and free...they just don't really get it...
Believe it or not it is coming mainly from american men!
DaisyChick: Believe it or not it is coming mainly from american men!
From American men who are not immigrants? That is strange...I have never gotten such a mail. I just don't answer any mail I am not interested in....I guess it is cold...but when I did, at first, I found that some men were encouraged even though I told them I was not interested, or some berate you for some reason...one guy told me to get off the site and I think he complained to the mods because I got a mail from them and they actually hid my profile until I changed the wording on it to say I was actively looking....When I just don't respond, I have no problems....
God...maybe nowI will!! Except I think most ofthe men who write to me have not read my profile and may not even be reading the forums..they just respond to the pciture orsomething...
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable from teh get go...I don't think you are responsible for replying...bottom line.
Portiea: I think it is asked because it is coming from someone from a very different cultural background. When I rode in taxis in Asia and the Middle East the taxi drivers asked this type of question.....they don't really get all these single women running around loose and free...they just don't really get it...
Okay girls, thanks, glad to know I am not being a b*tch. I've shared to story before here on the forums but it just seems like they aren't as interested in getting to know me when they start off with a question like that.
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