gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds
I recommend you send him the video, 'you can't text message breakup', by Kelly.
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
mbcasey: I have a broken heart and no children, and I just read a post where someone basically trashed me. You have alot to live for with a 10 year old son, so just remember some people have it alot worse...
gigi36: thank u to those who posted replies, it makes me feel good to know people care. it is still dark days right now, but i am a little better than yesterday
Hang in there gigi You took the chance and it did not work out...time will help you heal and I am sure you will find somebody who deserves you
I know you are hurting right now, but when you start to think about him and the memories come creeping in, get up and get busy. Don't just sit around and feel sad. If he was 14 years younger, then that made him 22, or 23. That age is so immature, he is a jerk and you need a real man. He was only 12 years older than your son!!! You will hurt, but I promise, you will get over this!! Just take one day at a time. There are too many nice loyal men out there for you , so get out there and find a real man.
gigi36: yeah 666 i went down to GA to see him in May and it was fun and we were happy and he was supposed to come up in july. he is 14yrs younger than me and i should have listened to my instincts but he pushed for this and said not to think of ag, as but a #
He's 22?
Seems he is stilll maturing and i don't think you should trust/expect a relationship with a guy that young, to work out. He has no real experience in dating or any real responsibilities that come with it.
I know people expect the best from such situations, but, it would be best to stay real. I wouldn't date a man that young.
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