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Jun 26, 2008 10:38 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds frustrated crying
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Jun 26, 2008 10:39 AM CST how does one do that to someone
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds


aaawwww teddybear hug


Want to tell us some more about it? comfort hug
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Jun 26, 2008 10:42 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
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Jun 26, 2008 10:44 AM CST how does one do that to someone
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
comfort Poor thing.

Nothing helps with this sort of pain.

You just need to soldier on.
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Jun 26, 2008 10:44 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds

That person would be playing mind games with you. He would come on strong then disappear as fast as he had entered your mind. It takes a while to build a relationship, and while some seems to be able to pull it of in weeks/months, others need a lot longer before they tread the deep end. Be cautious is the advice I would give you, as it also apply to myself.
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Jun 26, 2008 10:45 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!
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Jun 26, 2008 10:46 AM CST how does one do that to someone
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop


have you spoken to him since on the phone?

have you trying calling him?
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Jun 26, 2008 10:46 AM CST how does one do that to someone
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
sxc666: Poor thing.

Nothing helps with this sort of pain.

You just need to soldier on.


Tina is right.. unfortunately. comfort
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Jun 26, 2008 10:48 AM CST how does one do that to someone
wolfpack
wolfpackwolfpackpost falls, Idaho USA8 Threads 770 Posts
need to get your mind off him and onto something else. You need to occupy your and keep busy.
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Jun 26, 2008 10:49 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop

Don't give someone so much power over you. Shrug it off, and keep busy doing other things. A man doesnot define you, because there is so much to you as a person. You have so much more to do, and there are so many more meaningful relationships that this one glitch will seem like nothing soon.
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Jun 26, 2008 10:50 AM CST how does one do that to someone
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop


I remember this from before.Are you getting these texts from that very young fella?

Text him back with the words, police report.This should make him stop.
jmho.

hug
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Jun 26, 2008 10:51 AM CST how does one do that to someone
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds


I am sorry this happened. Tina is correct...there isn't much to do about it but go through it.

Maybe he got cold feet and might have a change of heart once he realizes what he has done. Hang in there!!
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Jun 26, 2008 10:51 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
i tried to text him and i know he wont answer his phone, he isnt answering his text! i cant seem to shake this
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Jun 26, 2008 10:51 AM CST how does one do that to someone
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
gigi36: how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!
Oh honey that will make u crazy...you should be glad that you found out now and not later...

Its seems to me you love him more then he did you..JMO

I am sure you wont be the last he plays mind games with...

Everything does happen for a reason....

I know that may not help but as time goes on...you will too...

hug
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Jun 26, 2008 10:52 AM CST how does one do that to someone
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
players are everywhere!! Chin up!! If I were forty years younger, had more money, better educated, was better looking, taller, lighter,....why I'd sweep you right off your feet!!devil
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Jun 26, 2008 10:55 AM CST how does one do that to someone
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
gigi36: i tried to text him and i know he wont answer his phone, he isnt answering his text! i cant seem to shake this


did you ever meet him in person?
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Jun 26, 2008 10:56 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
lol shippoker that actually made me smile! laugh i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
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Jun 26, 2008 10:58 AM CST how does one do that to someone
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
gigi36: lol shippoker that actually made me smile! i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
scold No No NO...No man is worth that...

If he makes you feel that way about urself...then he is NOTHING
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Jun 26, 2008 10:58 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
yeah 666 i went down to GA to see him in May and it was fun and we were happy and he was supposed to come up in july. he is 14yrs younger than me and i should have listened to my instincts but he pushed for this and said not to think of ag, as but a #
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Jun 26, 2008 11:13 AM CST how does one do that to someone
gigi36: how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!

Start by shampooing him right out of your hair. Add A nice luxurious bath, with whatever you feel like adding to it, bath beads(be sure you use a non-slip bath mat in tub, a new soap, or shower gel....After that towel dry with a nice soft towel...get into your best outfit with your perfume on or body mist. Girl, take yourself out to a nice place to eat...sink your teeth into something nutritious.....enjoy every moment, because you are important!
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