how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds
That person would be playing mind games with you. He would come on strong then disappear as fast as he had entered your mind. It takes a while to build a relationship, and while some seems to be able to pull it of in weeks/months, others need a lot longer before they tread the deep end. Be cautious is the advice I would give you, as it also apply to myself.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
Don't give someone so much power over you. Shrug it off, and keep busy doing other things. A man doesnot define you, because there is so much to you as a person. You have so much more to do, and there are so many more meaningful relationships that this one glitch will seem like nothing soon.
gigi36: he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
I remember this from before.Are you getting these texts from that very young fella?
Text him back with the words, police report.This should make him stop. jmho.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
gigi36: how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds
I am sorry this happened. Tina is correct...there isn't much to do about it but go through it.
Maybe he got cold feet and might have a change of heart once he realizes what he has done. Hang in there!!
players are everywhere!! Chin up!! If I were forty years younger, had more money, better educated, was better looking, taller, lighter,....why I'd sweep you right off your feet!!
lol shippoker that actually made me smile! i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
gigi36: lol shippoker that actually made me smile! i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
No No NO...No man is worth that...
If he makes you feel that way about urself...then he is NOTHING
yeah 666 i went down to GA to see him in May and it was fun and we were happy and he was supposed to come up in july. he is 14yrs younger than me and i should have listened to my instincts but he pushed for this and said not to think of ag, as but a #
gigi36: how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!
Start by shampooing him right out of your hair. Add A nice luxurious bath, with whatever you feel like adding to it, bath beads(be sure you use a non-slip bath mat in tub, a new soap, or shower gel....After that towel dry with a nice soft towel...get into your best outfit with your perfume on or body mist. Girl, take yourself out to a nice place to eat...sink your teeth into something nutritious.....enjoy every moment, because you are important!
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