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Jul 1, 2008 5:05 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
kissmedeeply: I know my dear..i have reason why i havent married until now...

i think i am more mature and want to settle down now..




Married or not married.....divorced or seperated......they are all but labels......we are who we are and it's experiences we learn from.....conversing
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Jul 1, 2008 5:07 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
muppetkiller
muppetkillermuppetkillerSnyder, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 310 Posts
I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.
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Jul 1, 2008 5:07 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: Married or not married.....divorced or seperated......they are all but labels......we are who we are and it's experiences we learn from.....


or...dont learn from...gigglegrin smoking
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Jul 1, 2008 5:07 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
muppetkiller: I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.


hahaha laugh


wave Hey Girlie hug
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Jul 1, 2008 5:08 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Claayer: Yep.. I agree.

I was thinking about this the other day actually.

Also.. someone for me that hasn't had children.. THAT would be shock (for them) with my 'gang' ... lol

I need a keeper with a gun.. a few sheep dogs and a lasso. Anyhooo.. preferably been married.. and preferably had children.




I have a couple of child proof straight jackets......some duct tape.....some tie wraps and blindfolds you can borrow for the summer school vacation period....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 1, 2008 5:08 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
muppetkiller: I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.


Why is marriage the barometer for normality?

Simply because we're too smart to suffer with the rest of you?confused

That is a big generalization...
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Jul 1, 2008 5:09 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: or...dont learn from...




Are you still in the 1st class........rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 1, 2008 5:09 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
muppetkiller: I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.


Well then i quess there must be something wrong with melaugh
Maybe i was the Smartest in the crowdroll eyes
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Jul 1, 2008 5:10 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
trish123: Hiya Bob

I think I would have to be much more wary of never married - especially if they hadnt even ever lived with somebody - and if they hadnt ever ventured far fromm mummies apron would be a definate no no no................
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Jul 1, 2008 5:10 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: Are you still in the 1st class........



No, but I have an ex-fiancee that never got out of kindergarten...giggle
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Jul 1, 2008 5:15 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
fiancee counts and 38 is close enough IMHO
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Jul 1, 2008 5:16 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Muppet killerconfused
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Jul 1, 2008 5:31 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
muppetkiller
muppetkillermuppetkillerSnyder, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 310 Posts
muppetkiller: I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.


Let me pull my foot out of my mouth, if things had happened differently, I would have never married, or had a child. I'm actually jealous of single people.
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Jul 1, 2008 5:32 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
stefonline: I have a couple of child proof straight jackets......some duct tape.....some tie wraps and blindfolds you can borrow for the summer school vacation period....


hahaha!! laugh DONE! handshake
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Jul 1, 2008 5:33 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
muppetkiller: Let me pull my foot out of my mouth, if things had happened differently, I would have never married, or had a child. I'm actually jealous of single people.


Well i have never Married...and dont regret it..

But i am glad i have my boys...

Never ever regret having themhug
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Jul 1, 2008 5:40 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
muppetkiller
muppetkillermuppetkillerSnyder, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 310 Posts
Whatever comes to mind, is what I say. It's based on personal experience and my thoughts. I never think much before I say anything and there's no guile in my words.

I'm not tactful and I never lie. No offense to anyone, I just say what comes to mind. Don't take it personally. On the upside, you can be sure I never lie. I lack the ability.
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Jul 1, 2008 5:42 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well i have never Married...and dont regret it..

But i am glad i have my boys...

Never ever regret having them


That's MY point. Just because people don't get married anymore doesn't mean their relationship doesn't conform to the typical assumptions made about marriage, we just don't have a piece of paper to give us the tax-break, or...the headache...

Why are divorces so expensive? Because they're WORTH IT!

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Jul 1, 2008 5:43 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
muppetkiller: Whatever comes to mind, is what I say. It's based on personal experience and my thoughts. I never think much before I say anything and there's no guile in my words.

I'm not tactful and I never lie. No offense to anyone, I just say what comes to mind. Don't take it personally. On the upside, you can be sure I never lie. I lack the ability.


I didn't take it personal muppie. I'll hold you accountable for what you say, though...

Which is why I'm not married...laugh doh
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Jul 1, 2008 5:47 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
ur fine in ur words..

I was just getting the assumptions that people who didnt get married..something was wrong with them...

Sometimes i just think its smart

I dont jump into something that quickly when i was young...

To me whether you were married or not...

Shouldnt really matter...

Each to their own
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Jul 1, 2008 5:48 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: That's MY point. Just because people don't get married anymore doesn't mean their relationship doesn't conform to the typical assumptions made about marriage, we just don't have a piece of paper to give us the tax-break, or...the headache...

Why are divorces so expensive? Because they're WORTH IT!
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