stefonline: Married or not married.....divorced or seperated......they are all but labels......we are who we are and it's experiences we learn from.....
Also.. someone for me that hasn't had children.. THAT would be shock (for them) with my 'gang' ... lol
I need a keeper with a gun.. a few sheep dogs and a lasso. Anyhooo.. preferably been married.. and preferably had children.
I have a couple of child proof straight jackets......some duct tape.....some tie wraps and blindfolds you can borrow for the summer school vacation period....
I think I would have to be much more wary of never married - especially if they hadnt even ever lived with somebody - and if they hadnt ever ventured far fromm mummies apron would be a definate no no no................
muppetkiller: I get a bit squeamish with the never-been-married crowd. Shh, If they've been single that long, something's wrong with them.
Let me pull my foot out of my mouth, if things had happened differently, I would have never married, or had a child. I'm actually jealous of single people.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
stefonline: I have a couple of child proof straight jackets......some duct tape.....some tie wraps and blindfolds you can borrow for the summer school vacation period....
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
muppetkiller: Let me pull my foot out of my mouth, if things had happened differently, I would have never married, or had a child. I'm actually jealous of single people.
Whatever comes to mind, is what I say. It's based on personal experience and my thoughts. I never think much before I say anything and there's no guile in my words.
I'm not tactful and I never lie. No offense to anyone, I just say what comes to mind. Don't take it personally. On the upside, you can be sure I never lie. I lack the ability.
kissmedeeply: Well i have never Married...and dont regret it..
But i am glad i have my boys...
Never ever regret having them
That's MY point. Just because people don't get married anymore doesn't mean their relationship doesn't conform to the typical assumptions made about marriage, we just don't have a piece of paper to give us the tax-break, or...the headache...
Why are divorces so expensive? Because they're WORTH IT!
muppetkiller: Whatever comes to mind, is what I say. It's based on personal experience and my thoughts. I never think much before I say anything and there's no guile in my words.
I'm not tactful and I never lie. No offense to anyone, I just say what comes to mind. Don't take it personally. On the upside, you can be sure I never lie. I lack the ability.
I didn't take it personal muppie. I'll hold you accountable for what you say, though...
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Galactic_bodhi: That's MY point. Just because people don't get married anymore doesn't mean their relationship doesn't conform to the typical assumptions made about marriage, we just don't have a piece of paper to give us the tax-break, or...the headache...
Why are divorces so expensive? Because they're WORTH IT!
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i think i am more mature and want to settle down now..
Married or not married.....divorced or seperated......they are all but labels......we are who we are and it's experiences we learn from.....