which one 40 somethings And older ( Archived) (50)

Jul 1, 2008 4:40 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?
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Jul 1, 2008 4:42 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
bob1959: Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?



Since I don't plan on getting married again...the being married before part doesn't really matter...so either really...depends on the person as far as creedence goes!!!!!!!!!!!


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Jul 1, 2008 4:43 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
bob1959: Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?


Hiya Bob wave

I think I would have to be much more wary of never married - especially if they hadnt even ever lived with somebody - and if they hadnt ever ventured far fromm mummies apron would be a definate no no no................ thumbs up
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Jul 1, 2008 4:43 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
davidnc76
davidnc76davidnc76Sanford, North Carolina USA15 Posts
Divorced.

For me these women dont have the drama of their ex-husbands and children always coming up in conversation.
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Jul 1, 2008 4:43 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Since I don't plan on getting married again...the being married before part doesn't really matter...so either really...depends on the person as far as creedence goes!!!!!!!!!!!






What she said!!
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Jul 1, 2008 4:44 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Your not getting married again? That's it. I'm done.
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Jul 1, 2008 4:45 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
who wants to know about xs anyway................help
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Jul 1, 2008 4:45 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
dont think it matters
It is all about the person grin
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Jul 1, 2008 4:46 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
bob1959: Your not getting married again? That's it. I'm done.


Nope...once was enough for me.....sorry to break your heart!!!!!!!!!!!


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Jul 1, 2008 4:46 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
bob1959: Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?




If they never married by 40 I would be asking some serious questions.....jaw drop
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Jul 1, 2008 4:47 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Hey trish, how's my crush tonight? I thought of a wise crack for you this morning While I was having an english muffin for breakfast but I don' dare say it.wave
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Jul 1, 2008 4:49 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: If they never married by 40 I would be asking some serious questions.....


Hey! scold

(I wasn't going to come in here because of the age thing but...I'm only 2 years away from 40. )


Just because we've never been married doesn't mean we haven't come really close, and then, come to our senses...doh

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Jul 1, 2008 4:49 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
moping
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Jul 1, 2008 4:49 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
bob1959: Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?


Hhm ............. probably neither. People and their life circumstances/experiences can be so broad and varied - so how could you write off someone before getting to know them? Lets be realistic at this stage in our lives (most) of us have been in some type of relationship(s) - so we all have a past - isn't it more important who we are today because of all that?

I personally have made the choice to stay away from people who are separated. If I become involved with someone I want to know that they are there in body/mind and spirit and that they've moved on from their previous partner. Some may disagree with this - but if that person can't end something before beginning something new - I'd be questioning why.
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Jul 1, 2008 4:50 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stefonline: If they never married by 40 I would be asking some serious questions.....


Well i will be 44 and never married..

I dont think anyone should put a label on anyone..

My choice in not marrying...

I think many wait in later life becos we are much more mature..in not
jumping out of if..incase something just goes wrong...

I dont judge no one..whether they marry or they dont...

Each to their Own...

but i will be getting Married to a wonderful man this year...

Who has been Married b4....

Life is not Perfect..Neither are we...

We all have some sort of Drama each of us wont like...

Its what we are willing to except or what we wont except
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Jul 1, 2008 4:51 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: Hey!

(I wasn't going to come in here because of the age thing but...I'm only 2 years away from 40. )Just because we've never been married doesn't mean we haven't come really close, and then, come to our senses...





I knew there would be some serious questions to be asked.......rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 1, 2008 4:52 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well i will be 44 and never married..

I dont think anyone should put a label on anyone..

My choice in not marrying...

I think many wait in later life becos we are much more mature..in not
jumping out of if..incase something just goes wrong...

I dont judge no one..whether they marry or they dont...

Each to their Own...

but i will be getting Married to a wonderful man this year...

Who has been Married b4....

Life is not Perfect..Neither are we...

We all have some sort of Drama each of us wont like...

Its what we are willing to except or what we wont except




No offence ment.......without predjuice......wave
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Jul 1, 2008 4:54 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I know my dear..i have reason why i havent married until now...

i think i am more mature and want to settle down now..hug
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Jul 1, 2008 4:56 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
horselady5
horselady5horselady5Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA18 Threads 366 Posts
Doesn't matter.

bob1959: Which person would give you more trepidation in getting to know. Divorced or never married? All things being equal of course. Why?
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Jul 1, 2008 5:03 PM CST which one 40 somethings And older
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
trish123: Hiya Bob

I think I would have to be much more wary of never married - especially if they hadnt even ever lived with somebody - and if they hadnt ever ventured far fromm mummies apron would be a definate no no no................


Yep.. I agree.

I was thinking about this the other day actually.

Also.. someone for me that hasn't had children.. THAT would be shock (for them) with my 'gang' ... lol

I need a keeper with a gun.. a few sheep dogs and a lasso. giggle


Anyhooo.. preferably been married.. and preferably had children.
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