mikeeemikeDen Hague, South Holland Netherlands173 posts
I also hate it when you take a lady to a steak house or for some spare ribs and you find out after she reads the menu that she is a vegetarian, and she's an animal activist. Tends to dampen the mood a little.
mikeeemike: I also hate it when you take a lady to a steak house or for some spare ribs and you find out after she reads the menu that she is a vegetarian, and she's an animal activist. Tends to dampen the mood a little.
mikeeemike: I also hate it when you take a lady to a steak house or for some spare ribs and you find out after she reads the menu that she is a vegetarian, and she's an animal activist. Tends to dampen the mood a little.
Shanmariee: I guess it is because we are talking about a first date and the fact that they are the ones that asked me out in the first place. I mean there is nothing wrong with perhaps asking what one likes to do before that evening to get an idea of what to plan, but other then that, he or she (whoever asked the other one out) should have it all planned out. Otherwise for me, if a guy is too passive or undecided on things, it makes me question his self confidence in making his own decisions.
Low self esteem is a big turn off. If someone is not sure about their value within themselves how can they expect someone else to? Confidence, without being too self absorbed, rather a balance is very attractive to me, it is a must.
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