biggest turn off in a date (113)
Tater: Hto agree with all of this.
hahaha...there was "someone" who thought the list was a bit too long... :-)
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For me..it would be bad hygeine and bad clothes selection on a first date. First, you best put your butt in the shower before taking me out 
and second, please do not wear your torn up, ratty, dirty t-shirt and paint/mud splattered jeans
Now, a nice freshly washed t-shirt and pair of freshly washed jeans is A-OK though
and second, please do not wear your torn up, ratty, dirty t-shirt and paint/mud splattered jeans Now, a nice freshly washed t-shirt and pair of freshly washed jeans is A-OK though
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crystal_2010: hahaha...there was "someone" who thought the list was a bit too long... :-)
sorry just a typo ( Have ) to agree with all that, sorry I still type looking at the keyboard and forgot to check it before sending
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There are alot of things on here already that I would definately agree to. One thing I must add is when the guy doesnt have the date planned out enough. Those awkward moment of "so uh what would you like to do next after dinenr?" when they are the ones that asked me to go out with them in the first place, should have the date already planned out. Dont sit there in the middle of dinner and put me on the spot asking me what we should do next. My luck is I mention something and they dont want to do it anyway! I love to be romanced and this kind of date is not romantic at all.
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Not that $ has a lot to do w/dating, but the gal told me she wasn't sure she had enough gas to get home. Hell, I gave her a $20 to wrap it up early. (That was when gas was $2.00) 
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OShiva: Well it's all about saving energy.
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dirty teeth and hair
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Shanmariee: There are alot of things on here already that I would definately agree to. One thing I must add is when the guy doesnt have the date planned out enough. Those awkward moment of "so uh what would you like to do next after dinenr?" when they are the ones that asked me to go out with them in the first place, should have the date already planned out. Dont sit there in the middle of dinner and put me on the spot asking me what we should do next.
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May I respectfully disagree??...what is wrong with discussing together what the activity of the evening will be ahead of time?...sure, he may or may not have an idea of what to do on the evening beyond dinner, but your answer smacks a little of someone in a passive position wanting to be entertained...
Shanmariee: There are alot of things on here already that I would definately agree to. One thing I must add is when the guy doesnt have the date planned out enough. Those awkward moment of "so uh what would you like to do next after dinenr?" when they are the ones that asked me to go out with them in the first place, should have the date already planned out. Dont sit there in the middle of dinner and put me on the spot asking me what we should do next. My luck is I mention something and they dont want to do it anyway! I love to be romanced and this kind of date is not romantic at all.
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Lagoona22: May I respectfully disagree??...what is wrong with discussing together what the activity of the evening will be ahead of time?...sure, he may or may not have an idea of what to do on the evening beyond dinner, but your answer smacks a little of someone in a passive position wanting to be entertained...
I thought that's what men do for ladies when they ask them out?
Let's face it, women have to arrange a LOT of stuff already at work - can we at least feel like ladies proper on a date, and not have to think about all that? Just knowing that the man has taken care of everything?------ This thread is Archived ------
shipoker55: Do you know if the cattle from these cattle are Ameican bred?? Are they free grazing or force fed at feeding troughs? Now I don't want to seem picky, but how long has this beef been aged? Is it fresh cut?
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Do you know if they are Idaho potatoes?? If I order mashed will they be instant or freshly mashed? Do you use kosher salt?
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Do you know if they are Idaho potatoes?? If I order mashed will they be instant or freshly mashed? Do you use kosher salt?
I actually ask a few of those questions because they're important to me, never to impress.
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crystal_2010: what turns u guys/girls off in a person? (like dating wise)
When they phone at last minute, an say sumats come up!
oh yeh fishy smells!
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I always ask if the steak I'm about to get had Mad Cow disease. You just can't be too careful. I don't want to twitch and fall leaving the restaurant. 
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AudrysSis: I actually ask a few of those questions because they're important to me, never to impress.
I am not surprised!!
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Lagoona22: May I respectfully disagree??...what is wrong with discussing together what the activity of the evening will be ahead of time?...sure, he may or may not have an idea of what to do on the evening beyond dinner, but your answer smacks a little of someone in a passive position wanting to be entertained...
I guess it is because we are talking about a first date and the fact that they are the ones that asked me out in the first place. I mean there is nothing wrong with perhaps asking what one likes to do before that evening to get an idea of what to plan, but other then that, he or she (whoever asked the other one out) should have it all planned out. Otherwise for me, if a guy is too passive or undecided on things, it makes me question his self confidence in making his own decisions.
Low self esteem is a big turn off. If someone is not sure about their value within themselves how can they expect someone else to? Confidence, without being too self absorbed, rather a balance is very attractive to me, it is a must.
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This is where teamwork /compromising comes into view.
You can call me old fashioned but, I see nothing wrong with both parties discussing the details of the date together.
You can call me old fashioned but, I see nothing wrong with both parties discussing the details of the date together.
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Shanmariee: I guess it is because we are talking about a first date and the fact that they are the ones that asked me out in the first place. I mean there is nothing wrong with perhaps asking what one likes to do before that evening to get an idea of what to plan, but other then that, he or she (whoever asked the other one out) should have it all planned out. Otherwise for me, if a guy is too passive or undecided on things, it makes me question his self confidence in making his own decisions.
Low self esteem is a big turn off. If someone is not sure about their value within themselves how can they expect someone else to? Confidence, without being too self absorbed, rather a balance is very attractive to me, it is a must.
Low self esteem is a big turn off. If someone is not sure about their value within themselves how can they expect someone else to? Confidence, without being too self absorbed, rather a balance is very attractive to me, it is a must.
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physically:
body odour
bad breath
bad teeth
otherwise:
bad manners
arrogance
hypocracy
dumb ppl just piss me off.lol.
posers...fakers..wanna bes.
Hto agree with all of this.