cherokeemoon2: .I would never get over helping someone to kill themselves.
In Holland you have to kill your self , a drink is prepared you drink it fallowed by another one 20 min’s later the pass out before your respiratory system fails , (it’s a lot more humane than lethal injection )
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
cherokeemoon2: well I have way to much compassion to do such a thing.I would never get over helping someone to kill themselves.
you'd need some training
did you suggest i should wait until i get old to understand or to feel how it could be? Put yourself in a painful situation...very painful...invalid, something like Jampet described...
cherokeemoon2: well I have way to much compassion to do such a thing.I would never get over helping someone to kill themselves.
hmmmmm!! compassion- how compassionate is it to watch someone choke on their own saliva- be unable to do the simplest task( think about it- i'm not talking eating here), watch them writhe in pain as they beg to be let go??
cherokeemoon2: No killing another human being is still murder nomatter how u do it.Wait untill ur elderly and ask ur self that question.
ask the 30 year old recently married person i look after, that can't wipe the drool from her own mouth,( i won't specify other functions for the feint hearted) if she's waiting to be elderly??
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
In Holland you have to kill your self , a drink is prepared you drink it fallowed by another one 20 min’s later the pass out before your respiratory system fails , (it’s a lot more humane than lethal injection )[/quote
Not always you can kill yourself...
Killing "yourself" has an extend meaning which ends up being the same where Euthanasia is leagl: your consent.
Anyway, there is a long process before that...
There had been a documentary about French Swiss going on in Europe 2 years ago or so, have you seen it? Can remember any details about the production...
cherokeemoon2: well I have way to much compassion to do such a thing.I would never get over helping someone to kill themselves.
I had to face this decision twice this year. In one case, the suffering was ABOUT to become so obviously severe that I found myself begging the doctor to just please hurry. It's a source of comfort to me that I at least spared her the worst.
did you suggest i should wait until i get old to understand or to feel how it could be? Put yourself in a painful situation...very painful...invalid, something like Jampet described...
NO I am not suggesting anything if I had meant that I would have said it.But I am a firm believer that u cannot fully know about another persons situation unless u have walked in their shoesI do not intend to get in a argument about this.SO
jampet: ask the 30 year old recently married person i look after, that can't wipe the drool from her own mouth,( i won't specify other functions for the feint hearted) if she's waiting to be elderly??
there was a comment made- in a national paper recently- by a journalist whose lover had recently died- that said 'hospice nurses....licence to kill!' man, that made my blood boil- i work hand in hand with the hospice nurses- we share care in the weekday, then we take over on the weekends- they are the most caring compassionate, knowledgeable people I have ever met, and NEVER, EVER, have I seen them use any more drugs than is medically necessary to ease suffering- not hasten a death!
that is not what we do- we make the last few minutes, hours, days, as comfortable and bearable as possible- to allow them to enjoy their time with their families, and die with a scrap of dignity!
if you have not been in that situation personally.please do not judge
cherokeemoon2: NO I am not suggesting anything if I had meant that I would have said it.But I am a firm believer that u cannot fully know about another persons situation unless u have walked in their shoesI do not intend to get in a argument about this.SO
Just for clarification - I'm not arguing with you either. I didn't know how I would feel when put to the test... but I do now...
cherokeemoon2: Tk u I didnt think u were.But Ive been here long enough to know where this is headed.I am sorry u were put to the test,its not a fun place to be.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
jampet: there was a comment made- in a national paper recently- by a journalist whose lover had recently died- that said 'hospice nurses....licence to kill!' man, that made my blood boil- i work hand in hand with the hospice nurses- we share care in the weekday, then we take over on the weekends- they are the most caring compassionate, knowledgeable people I have ever met, and NEVER, EVER, have I seen them use any more drugs than is medically necessary to ease suffering- not hasten a death!
that is not what we do- we make the last few minutes, hours, days, as comfortable and bearable as possible- to allow them to enjoy their time with their families, and die with a scrap of dignity!
if you have not been in that situation personally.please do not judge
I helped my mom die with dignity...
No, it was not euthanasia...
Sometimes, people that love the ill prefer they die...
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