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Jul 29, 2008 10:16 PM CST what do you think?
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 259 Posts
just wondering what some others think as to why some do not post a picture. When they email you or send you a flower they say that they will send one to your email if you want.
Are they hiding from someone? maybe
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Jul 29, 2008 10:18 PM CST what do you think?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
This has been done a zillion times. No piccie no talkie in my opinion.wine
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Jul 29, 2008 10:21 PM CST what do you think?
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 259 Posts
sxc666: This has been done a zillion times. No piccie no talkie in my opinion.


I agree
why do you think that they are willing to send you pics to your email but not here?
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Jul 29, 2008 10:22 PM CST what do you think?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
I say " tough luck" ...if you can email it, you can post it!dunno
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Jul 29, 2008 10:22 PM CST what do you think?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
lotsofluv: I agree
why do you think that they are willing to send you pics to your email but not here?
Many reasons , mostly privacyyawn
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Jul 29, 2008 10:22 PM CST what do you think?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
lotsofluv: just wondering what some others think as to why some do not post a picture. When they email you or send you a flower they say that they will send one to your email if you want.
Are they hiding from someone? maybe
That's what I usually think. Some I've gotten to know on the forums and decided they're ok, but when I get an email from someone with no pic that I've never talked to I am immediately suspicious. And I'm not going to give them my email to send a pic, they can be scammers or who knows what kind of freak.

Some people get mad cause others won't talk to them without a pic, but I don't care. If you won't show your face, I can't be bothered. It'd be like talking to someone with a bag over their head. If ya ain't got nothing to hide, don't hide.

You're way too yound and cute not to get the attention of every creep on here luv. Just be particular about who you talk to, and ignore the ones you don't want to. That's what we've got a block button for.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:24 PM CST what do you think?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
lotsofluv: I agree
why do you think that they are willing to send you pics to your email but not here?
I know a couple of ambulance officers and teachers on here and thats why they don't post a pic here but will send one privatley I can understand that. But people who flat our refuse to send a pic are just dodgie to me and get the big Pisssssss offf.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:24 PM CST what do you think?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
alabamabebe: You're way too yound young and cute not to get the attention of every creep on here luv. Just be particular about who you talk to, and ignore the ones you don't want to. That's what we've got a block button for.


I can spell, I just can't type! doh grin
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Jul 29, 2008 10:25 PM CST what do you think?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I've talked to people who didn't have a pic up and one turned out to be a very good friend. wine Didn't have a clue what they looked like for well over half a year. Didn't matter.
Not everyone is hiding something. roll eyes
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Jul 29, 2008 10:25 PM CST what do you think?
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 259 Posts
glad to know that I was not the only one to think this way
thanks hug
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Jul 29, 2008 10:27 PM CST what do you think?
Maybe that person is self-concious of posting a pic of themselves for fear that they may not be pretty enough or handsome enough. I don't know.

I've recieved several emails and flowers from people who don't post a pic and I still respond back to them just as long as they're not being a pest of themselves.

If they are hiding from someone that's just their cross to bare not mine.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:27 PM CST what do you think?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kidatheart: I've talked to people who didn't have a pic up and one turned out to be a very good friend. Didn't have a clue what they looked like for well over half a year. Didn't matter.
Not everyone is hiding something.
thumbs up
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Jul 29, 2008 10:29 PM CST what do you think?
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 259 Posts
now I am getting confussed confused
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Jul 29, 2008 10:31 PM CST what do you think?
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 259 Posts
somechick: Maybe that person is self-concious of posting a pic of themselves for fear that they may not be pretty enough or handsome enough. I don't know.

I've recieved several emails and flowers from people who don't post a pic and I still respond back to them just as long as they're not being a pest of themselves.

If they are hiding from someone that's just their cross to bare not mine.

maybe true but they say they want to send you a pic to your email
seems odd to me
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Jul 29, 2008 10:36 PM CST what do you think?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lotsofluv: maybe true but they say they want to send you a pic to your email
seems odd to me



Simple, it's not on public display.
Some do have work reasons, or possibly hiding from an ex., shy. Could be any number of reasonable explanations.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:38 PM CST what do you think?
Alot of things someone does sometimes seem odd to me too.

They may have something to hide I don't know.

I don't really have any answers for you just my honest opinion.

lotsofluv: maybe true but they say they want to send you a pic to your email
seems odd to me
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Jul 29, 2008 10:38 PM CST what do you think?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
kidatheart: I've talked to people who didn't have a pic up and one turned out to be a very good friend. Didn't have a clue what they looked like for well over half a year. Didn't matter.
Not everyone is hiding something.
Didn't say I wouldn't answer them. I'll talk to anyone. And especially if I've gotten to know them already here. But if all they want is my email addy right off the bat, well, I'm a little more cautious than that.

If their only reason is that they're self-conscious about what they look like, they need to work on that. I really don't care what anyone looks like, as long as they don't. People with a complex about their looks need to grow up in my book.

I've seen some people on here who have pics and then pull them, and they looked fine to me. I don't understand why they're ashamed of their looks/ It's just a part of who you are, but people shouldn't be ashamed of themselves.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:39 PM CST what do you think?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
lotsofluv: maybe true but they say they want to send you a pic to your email
seems odd to me
dunno why if you get a pic at the end of the day what the difference there are all types of reasons people wont post a pic. It's when they refuse to give you one at all I would be concerned, not concerned about where they send it.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:40 PM CST what do you think?
Also if you don't feel comfortable dealing with that person then don't.


somechick: Alot of things someone does sometimes seem odd to me too.

They may have something to hide I don't know.

I don't really have any answers for you just my honest opinion.
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Jul 29, 2008 10:41 PM CST what do you think?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I wouldn't give me private email out but my yahoo account I dont have a problem with any trouble and its as easy as block, not that Ive come across any trouble yet.
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