What do you expect (116)

Aug 1, 2008 3:44 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
On a first date hmmm

Im interesting in knowing what people expect on a first date, as far as location, the person themselves.

What grabs you makes you think, I'll go out with guy/girl again. Or what makes you say No fekin way I'm ever seeing this person again.

One of mine is they have to make me laugh, have a personality so too speak.


wine
Aug 1, 2008 3:45 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
that would be interested roll eyes
Aug 1, 2008 3:49 AM CST What do you expect
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
sxc666: On a first date

Im interesting in knowing what people expect on a first date, as far as location, the person themselves.

What grabs you makes you think, I'll go out with guy/girl again. Or what makes you say No fekin way I'm ever seeing this person again.

One of mine is they have to make me laugh, have a personality so too speak.


--- I would have to feel comfortable in their presence - and being themselves is a good start
Aug 1, 2008 3:52 AM CST What do you expect
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
They have to make me feel at ease ,gotta be relaxed,, They have to have confidence I hate seeing a man quiver in fright lol, make me laugh no laugh no second date , no second date , no happy endings .....
No happy endings ....big farkin mistake lol

Kizzylips
Aug 1, 2008 3:54 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kizzy27: They have to make me feel at ease ,gotta be relaxed,, They have to have confidence I hate seeing a man quiver in fright lol, make me laugh no laugh no second date , no second date , no happy endings .....
No happy endings ....big farkin mistake lol

Kizzy
Yeah cheers to that Kizzy wine

Still lining up that slow dance, too make sure of the packagewink
Aug 1, 2008 4:02 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
hmmm And does what a date wears influence your judgement?
Aug 1, 2008 4:02 AM CST What do you expect
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
sxc666: Yeah cheers to that Kizzy

Still lining up that slow dance, too make sure of the package



I stil reckon someone should invent a package scanner you know a bit like a radiation scan , it pips if ya got a limp biscuit!!!!

be handy , keep it in ya purse , scan da levis...

mmm make a million!
Aug 1, 2008 4:03 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kizzy27: I stil reckon someone should invent a package scanner you know a bit like a radiation scan , it pips if ya got a limp biscuit!!!!

be handy , keep it in ya purse , scan da levis...

mmm make a million!
idea a slong scanner. Brilliant
Aug 1, 2008 4:12 AM CST What do you expect
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
For me defiantly must be able to hold a intelligent convo, be comfortable and confidant of who they are, and most of all be able to laugh at themselves..
Aug 1, 2008 4:25 AM CST What do you expect
Lou29
Lou29Lou29Floating in the Riverina, New South Wales Australia41 Threads 767 Posts
Must make me laugh, be themself, Confident, nice... among other things I guess.


First date location? Totally depend on the person and what they are into. No use going to the movies with someone who is fidgety and doesn't like movies.

Mind you, what the fek would I know?? Only ever been on ONE DATE in my life..

laugh
Aug 1, 2008 5:17 AM CST What do you expect
kismat
kismatkismatWhangarei, Northland New Zealand11 Threads 1,869 Posts
DON'T DATE...........cool
Aug 1, 2008 6:08 AM CST What do you expect
BRAD76
BRAD76BRAD76MELBOURNE- NORTHERN SUBURBS, Victoria Australia22 Posts
location for a first date/meet.. a licensed billiard place, you can have a few drinks....its not too loud and you can get comfortable and talk with out it being too up close and d&m...

what grabs me is if im instantly attracted too and comfortable with her, even more so when the feeling is obviously mutual.. that they dont put on this big personality that really isnt them..

definately having a laugh and all that, if your going to be boring you may aswell stay home. hang on, im home now. whats that mean....

confused
Aug 1, 2008 6:15 AM CST What do you expect
Ruahine
RuahineRuahineTaupo, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand2 Threads 152 Posts
sxc666: On a first date

Im interesting in knowing what people expect on a first date, as far as location, the person themselves.

What grabs you makes you think, I'll go out with guy/girl again. Or what makes you say No fekin way I'm ever seeing this person again.

One of mine is they have to make me laugh, have a personality so too speak.


I've only been on one date
But I must admit taking notes helps..
We chatted for awhile before we went on a date so I was lucky enough to know a few of her likes and dislikes..
It was the kiss on the first date that made me think I'd like to see her again..
Aug 1, 2008 6:20 AM CST What do you expect
BRAD76
BRAD76BRAD76MELBOURNE- NORTHERN SUBURBS, Victoria Australia22 Posts
sxc666: And does what a date wears influence your judgement?


first impressions,totally.... me and the boys have a saying, "a dress means yes"...it actually applies to mini skirts/cfm boots and similar but you get the idea....

but thats in general, its more to do with the way the interact with you that influences your judgement..well thats what ive found anyway...
Aug 1, 2008 8:03 AM CST What do you expect
belle72
belle72belle72Brisbane, Queensland Australia14 Threads 411 Posts
confused Hmmm will let you know when i go on a date. not been on one. that sucks a...!!frustrated dunno
Aug 1, 2008 8:57 AM CST What do you expect
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
For a first date I would go out for a drink... relaxes the mood.. and yes, you usually know in the first 5 minutes if you are interested in someone.

I would want to see someone again if they made me laugh and most important... if I felt a spark between us.

I think first impression is important... so yes... dress nicely.
If he turned up in tracky daks.... that would be it for me.... cya later!!!
Aug 1, 2008 10:41 PM CST What do you expect
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Ok Im not really getting this ....Some on here are saying they havent been dating? Why not???
Maybe im doing things a lil different , but the way I see it if you get or make contact, chat,arrange to meet,is that not a date?
Ive had more dates than i did in my 20s since joining this site so whats the problem???
I mean no they all havnt been fantastic dates , but most have been enjoyable .
Are you girls waiting for the online fireworks before accepting a date?
I dont think the chat n email foreva thing is a very good strategy...
My Philosophy is untill you meet youll not know ,from experiance you can have the connection online /phone etc but untill you actually have the face to face well its just not worth gettin excited about . So go for it girls , if your chattin just say ok well lets meet !!!
Youve nothing to lose & possibly a lot to gain .
JMO
Kizzylips
Aug 1, 2008 10:44 PM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kizzy27: Ok Im not really getting this ....Some on here are saying they havent been dating? Why not???
Maybe im doing things a lil different , but the way I see it if you get or make contact, chat,arrange to meet,is that not a date?
Ive had more dates than i did in my 20s since joining this site so whats the problem???
I mean no they all havnt been fantastic dates , but most have been enjoyable .
Are you girls waiting for the online fireworks before accepting a date?
I dont think the chat n email foreva thing is a very good strategy...
My Philosophy is untill you meet youll not know ,from experiance you can have the connection online /phone etc but untill you actually have the face to face well its just not worth gettin excited about . So go for it girls , if your chattin just say ok well lets meet !!!
Youve nothing to lose & possibly a lot to gain .
JMO
Kizzy
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Aug 2, 2008 1:23 AM CST What do you expect
greenzknight
greenzknightgreenzknightHonolulu, USA2 Threads 131 Posts
bouquet can i come in
Aug 2, 2008 2:04 AM CST What do you expect
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
greenzknight: can i come in
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