He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know? ( Archived) (103)

Aug 12, 2008 6:22 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Hi all wave

A lot has been said, written about, talked about, the age old topic. I have also read the very deep and meaningful book "He's just not that into you". However, this is the modern age of the internet, online discussions, etc. Right? So. How do you know? How do you know whether he/she is "into you" ? dunno
(no, not THAT kind of into you!!!scold rolling on the floor laughing ).

Would love to know your opinion and what has happened online with you conversing grin

He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not...........bouquet doh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:27 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
venere08: Hi all

A lot has been said, written about, talked about, the age old topic. I have also read the very deep and meaningful book "He's just not that into you". However, this is the modern age of the internet, online discussions, etc. Right? So. How do you know? How do you know whether he/she is "into you" ?
(no, not THAT kind of into you!!! ).

Would love to know your opinion and what has happened online with you

He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not...........
Boy oh boy, would I love some input on this one. I'm losing my mind if you know what I mean.
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Aug 12, 2008 6:31 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Hellooo..

well I suppose it depends how far into the 'relationship' you are..


Near the start.. he/she contacting you often.. is a pretty good sign..


If you are the one ALWAYS initiating the contact... thats NOT a good sign.



Helool Venere & Bob wave wave
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Aug 12, 2008 6:33 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Personally.. having learned a few things..

(At last!!)...

I would back riiiight off... and see what THEY do.

If they come back for you.. come back to see WHY you haven't been in touch..
that's a good sign.

If they don't .... stuff'em... and move on.
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Aug 12, 2008 6:35 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Claayer: Hellooo..

well I suppose it depends how far into the 'relationship' you are.. Near the start.. he/she contacting you often.. is a pretty good sign.. If you are the one ALWAYS initiating the contact... thats NOT a good sign.
Helool Venere & Bob


Hi Claayer, hi Bob wave

Yes, agreed, Claayer, if only one ever does the initiating, NOT a good sign!laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:37 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Claayer: Personally.. having learned a few things..

(At last!!)...

I would back riiiight off... and see what THEY do.

If they come back for you.. come back to see WHY you haven't been in touch..
that's a good sign.

If they don't .... stuff'em... and move on.


Now I can just see everyone backing off. CS goes completely silent!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2008 6:41 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
venere08: Now I can just see everyone backing off. CS goes completely silent!!!


hahaha.. you have email btw.. laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:42 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Claayer: Personally.. having learned a few things..

(At last!!)...

I would back riiiight off... and see what THEY do.

If they come back for you.. come back to see WHY you haven't been in touch..
that's a good sign.

If they don't .... stuff'em... and move on.
So writing an insanly long and rambling romantic letter is right out.
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Aug 12, 2008 6:44 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
bob1959: So writing an insanly long and rambling romantic letter is right out.


To soon?

YES!...

Some way in.. When you both start to see you seem to feel the same way.. then yep thumbs up

But do that too soon.. and they will (probably) run like the wind..



See.. I AM learning.. laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:44 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
bob1959: So writing an insanly long and rambling romantic letter is right out.
BTW she scarsly aware of my existance.
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Aug 12, 2008 6:45 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
bob1959: BTW she scarsly aware of my existance.


hahah.. then for now.. a definite nooo. laugh

Got to get her to notice you first.

Try running naked around her garden.. professor




laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:46 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Claayer: To soon?

YES!...

Some way in.. When you both start to see you seem to feel the same way.. then yep

But do that too soon.. and they will (probably) run like the wind..
See.. I AM learning..
Fear not BTW, it's not you.rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2008 6:46 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
bob1959: Fear not BTW, it's not you.


hahaha laugh I wasn't 'Fearing'
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Aug 12, 2008 6:47 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Claayer: hahah.. then for now.. a definite nooo.

Got to get her to notice you first.

Try running naked around her garden..
Have you SEEN my pic? That's not going to help.rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2008 6:47 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
bob1959: Have you SEEN my pic? That's not going to help.


Yeah.. maybe lose the fish and the beard.. wink



laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:48 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
I'll shave mine if you shave yours.. thumbs up

laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 6:48 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Claayer: hahaha I wasn't 'Fearing'
Not sure how to take that?laugh moping
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Aug 12, 2008 6:49 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
bob1959: Not sure how to take that?


hahah I meant I wasn't scared it was me. thumbs up
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Aug 12, 2008 6:52 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Claayer: hahah I meant I wasn't scared it was me.
Fish is gone-beard stays-part of the package.been there a long time. You can keep yours too.rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2008 6:53 AM CST He/she is into you (Online)-OR NOTHow do you know?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Fish is gone-beard stays-part of the package.been there a long time. You can keep yours too.[/quote oh god, I hope this thread is buried by tonight!!!!!!!!!1
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