How Honest Are you? ( Archived) (130)

Aug 21, 2008 9:46 PM CST How Honest Are you?
iamsimply
iamsimplyiamsimplyHolland Landing, Ontario Canada15 Threads 6 Polls 166 Posts
When you bring another person into your life, no matter if it's a child, your best friend, an aging parent or a new spouse you have to make room!
You may have to give up some of the things you do to make time for them like visiting people you love or playing some sports! Make space in your home and sell or throw out some of your stuff! You may have to get rid of a pet or tenants. You may have to change your work hours do you can spend time together! You have to change habits like cleaning up or walking around in your underwear or smoking joints indoors. You may have to curtail your friends and family from just dropping in unannounced. You may have to put out a little more cash each month for entertainment or food and you might start gaining weight! You may have to also bring in their children or parents!
You have to figure out if it's a sacrifice or a pleasure to do for the sake of a loving relationship.
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Aug 21, 2008 9:51 PM CST How Honest Are you?
DICEMAN1
DICEMAN1DICEMAN1nowhere, Florida USA1 Threads 155 Posts
honesty.....people say is the best policy is it really...how can you be honest without sounding rude....what about the other saying...if you don't have something nice to say to someone don't say it at all
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Aug 21, 2008 9:53 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
HJFinAZ: We have no control over what another does, the only thing we can change is "ourselves"

If "WE" get hurt in a relationship, the "hurt", the "feelings" are ours and we must own them.

Personally, when I "hurt", I ask myself, "what role did YOU play"...


very very true indeed, yet I can honestly say, without stating a lie, that EVERYONE of us has been hurt in love. Question though is, did we learn from it? as you ask yourself, what role did you play in it? maybe we should all be asking ourselves such a question. good post.
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Aug 21, 2008 9:56 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mrsmiles4444: very very true indeed, yet I can honestly say, without stating a lie, that EVERYONE of us has been hurt in love. Question though is, did we learn from it? as you ask yourself, what role did you play in it? maybe we should all be asking ourselves such a question. good post.


I "always" ask it, most seldom reply. Or, it is a SGT. Shultz reply "I KNOW NOTHING"....doh


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:01 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
HJFinAZ: I "always" ask it, most seldom reply. Or, it is a SGT. Shultz reply "I KNOW NOTHING"....


when my relationships fail, whether I get hurt or not, I yell. " move em out! " NEXT! rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:03 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mrsmiles4444: when my relationships fail, whether I get hurt or not, I yell. " move em out! " NEXT!


Just like an amusement park.. Enjoy the ride until it ends, then get off and get in line for the next ride.. SImple!!grin
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Aug 21, 2008 10:03 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mrsmiles4444: when my relationships fail, whether I get hurt or not, I yell. " move em out! " NEXT!
I play the song Another One Bites the Dust!!! I don't know why but it worksrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:07 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
mylifewithu: I play the song Another One Bites the Dust!!! I don't know why but it works


same concept. least yours you can dance to.............banana rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:08 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
HJFinAZ: Just like an amusement park.. Enjoy the ride until it ends, then get off and get in line for the next ride.. SImple!!


and that's the story of Life, in a nutshell. rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:09 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: Stop giving a crap what others say/think.... BTW, I do believe it was a compliment to you and if you look like a model, wear the badge with pride..



Thank You Pat.hug
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Aug 21, 2008 10:10 PM CST How Honest Are you?
woody636: Hi kiddo! Don't worry about what other people think. Personally, I thought your new pic was great!



Thank You woody you're a sweetie.hug
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Aug 21, 2008 10:15 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: Thank You Pat.


You are a beautiful young lady, with nothing to hide. Wear it proudly..hug
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Aug 21, 2008 10:16 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mrsmiles4444: and that's the story of Life, in a nutshell.


"TO ME", it appears so many forget that happiness comes from within and that life is to be lived..dunno

But, what do I know? I am old and senile..grin
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Aug 21, 2008 10:19 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: You are a beautiful young lady, with nothing to hide. Wear it proudly..



And your're a heck of a man.hug
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Aug 21, 2008 10:21 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: And your're a heck of a man.


Not the man I want to be, but thank God I am not the man I used to be..devil


grin
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Aug 21, 2008 10:21 PM CST How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
HJFinAZ: "TO ME", it appears so many forget that happiness comes from within and that life is to be lived..

But, what do I know? I am old and senile..


I'm not too far behind. Now where did I leave that remote? dam! I need my reading glasses.......... is today Monday? or is it Friday?rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 21, 2008 10:22 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: Not the man I want to be, but thank God I am not the man I used to be..



I wouldn't want you any other way then you are.teddybear
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Aug 21, 2008 10:24 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: I wouldn't want you any other way then you are.


Always, always, be very careful (and very specific) about for what you ask.. You just may get it..wink
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Aug 21, 2008 10:26 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: Always, always, be very careful (and very specific) about for what you ask.. You just may get it..


I just think you're a very nice man. I just them as I see them.wink
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Aug 21, 2008 11:40 PM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: I just think you're a very nice man. I just them as I see them.


There you go, "thinking" again....rolling on the floor laughing Ask Cristyne (Serenity) she will tell you what I am really like..jaw drop







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