Lionhearted1967: That is exactly what I am saying!.. That is the way it is.. If it is real it falls into place and your "both" hellbound to make it work.Great post!
Thanks Lene!
I guess we all have our own truth. I love my beach but I love the farm too.
I totally see Serenity's point too and have been there....but the closet space doesn't mean as much as it once did.
its like this why beat around the bush about it.Its those bushes that get you in the most trouble.Next its a clean pair of underwear to can I take a shower here to joint accounts.I just grab the bull by the horns cause thats just me.
I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.
nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.
Yup...Experience may tell you to keep it to yourself or it may compell you to be straightforward when you really feel the other person or yourself needs to think about.
I am honest with myself, therefore I find it easier to be honest with others.
But, in this game, there are times when I will be honest, with one liners, such as 'Go away I am not interested' and then the ones where I say 'Yes' and not really be interested in responding very much to emails simply because I think that if I sound uninterested then they will go away.
There is a difference between being honest and causing chaos and withholding information for protection.
Sommerauer71: I am honest with myself, therefore I find it easier to be honest with others.
But, in this game, there are times when I will be honest, with one liners, such as 'Go away I am not interested' and then the ones where I say 'Yes' and not really be interested in responding very much to emails simply because I think that if I sound uninterested then they will go away.
There is a difference between being honest and causing chaos and withholding information for protection.
nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.
back at you my friend I have been workin too much,went in debt and no suga dads to be found.
Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!
"To thine own self be true"
In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.
I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.
Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.
Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?
I too wonder myself if when i moved into my place if that wasn't one of the subconscious reasons I decided to take it.
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