How Honest Are you? ( Archived) (130)

Aug 21, 2008 2:01 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
It's gotta be good!
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Aug 21, 2008 2:04 AM CST How Honest Are you?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
I'm so honest that I caught myself taking change out of my right pocket and putting it in my left pocket and I made myself put it back.

innocent
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Aug 21, 2008 2:04 AM CST How Honest Are you?
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA30 Threads 601 Posts
Lionhearted1967: That is exactly what I am saying!.. That is the way it is.. If it is real it falls into place and your "both" hellbound to make it work.Great post!


Thanks Lene!hug

I guess we all have our own truth. I love my beach but I love the farm too.

I totally see Serenity's point too and have been there....but the closet space doesn't mean as much as it once did.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:05 AM CST How Honest Are you?
its like this why beat around the bush about it.Its those bushes that get you in the most trouble.Next its a clean pair of underwear to can I take a shower here to joint accounts.I just grab the bull by the horns cause thats just me.tongue
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Aug 21, 2008 2:10 AM CST How Honest Are you?
I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girlwow wine for you.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:13 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.



Yup...Experience may tell you to keep it to yourself or it may compell you to be straightforward when you really feel the other person or yourself needs to think about.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:17 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I am honest with myself, therefore I find it easier to be honest with others.

But, in this game, there are times when I will be honest, with one liners, such as 'Go away I am not interested' and then the ones where I say 'Yes' and not really be interested in responding very much to emails simply because I think that if I sound uninterested then they will go away.

There is a difference between being honest and causing chaos and withholding information for protection.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:22 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Sommerauer71: I am honest with myself, therefore I find it easier to be honest with others.

But, in this game, there are times when I will be honest, with one liners, such as 'Go away I am not interested' and then the ones where I say 'Yes' and not really be interested in responding very much to emails simply because I think that if I sound uninterested then they will go away.

There is a difference between being honest and causing chaos and withholding information for protection.


silence can speak volumes.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:25 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Lionhearted1967: silence can speak volumes.


It can.

I used to remain silent when my ex partner would scream and shout at me, just wait until he got it out of his system.

Then he would say, 'Are you not going to say anything'

I would say, nope, not a word.

Then I would calmy walk away until he had calmed down.

Then he would accuse me of lying, because I was not saying anything.

I would say simply, I cannot hear you when you are shouting at me.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:27 AM CST How Honest Are you?
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA30 Threads 601 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: I'm so honest that I caught myself taking change out of my right pocket and putting it in my left pocket and I made myself put it back.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

and I'm a scizophrenic narcisist (and horrible speller) with a propensity for "bad boys".

Once after yankin my chain, I didn't call myself back for a week........and even THEN I was drunk.
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Aug 21, 2008 2:39 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Sommerauer71: It can.

I used to remain silent when my ex partner would scream and shout at me, just wait until he got it out of his system.

Then he would say, 'Are you not going to say anything'

I would say, nope, not a word.

Then I would calmy walk away until he had calmed down.

Then he would accuse me of lying, because I was not saying anything.

I would say simply, I cannot hear you when you are shouting at me.




No trust..no good
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Aug 21, 2008 2:39 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
tunnelwary: and I'm a scizophrenic narcisist (and horrible speller) with a propensity for "bad boys".

Once after yankin my chain, I didn't call myself back for a week........and even THEN I was drunk.



boys?
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Aug 21, 2008 2:46 AM CST How Honest Are you?
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA30 Threads 601 Posts
Lionhearted1967: boys?


"Narcissist"
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Aug 21, 2008 3:04 AM CST How Honest Are you?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
tunnelwary: "Narcissist"


"One track mind"
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Aug 21, 2008 7:11 AM CST How Honest Are you?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I am very honest whether the truth hurts others

My fiance is the same , wouldnt have it any other way

HONESTY IS THE BEST MEDICINE
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Aug 21, 2008 7:24 AM CST How Honest Are you?
nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.
back at you my friend I have been workin too much,went in debt and no suga dads to be found.wine yay
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Aug 21, 2008 7:27 AM CST How Honest Are you?
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
I am very ,very honest.....do you believe me??? I don't think so wink laugh

That is a good question to ask my friends and family ..hug kiss
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Aug 21, 2008 9:19 AM CST How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
lola36: I am very ,very honest.....do you believe me??? I don't think so

That is a good question to ask my friends and family ..


I do....... Why ask others?

When we lie, "WE" have to live with it..wink
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Aug 21, 2008 9:22 AM CST How Honest Are you?
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
HJFinAZ: I do....... Why ask others?

When we lie, "WE" have to live with it..



Ohhh no..you don't...moping wink hug
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Aug 21, 2008 9:22 AM CST How Honest Are you?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?



I too wonder myself if when i moved into my place if that wasn't one of the subconscious reasons I decided to take it.
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