i want to know why? ( Archived) (58)

This is the main reason. Most of us have learned the hard way that men can't take it, if we start revealing too much you either run or get pissed, usually both. I'm just so sick of playing the game of wondering what I should or shouldn't say. When I can find the man that will just listen when I'm sad or pissed off, I'm his for life if he wants me.

It's a girl thing

Hi Bebe,

'Man View'.... I think that men and women make what should be a very simply and relatively easy thing, far too complicated.

I too feel the same way... should I reveal too much too soon? Yes your right,... It really doesn't need to be as difficult as this... yes we all build walls and bounderies around to simply protect ourselves.

but, how many ships have passed our shores?... purely down to the self preservation part of our psyche?

I really wonder of Canarias vibe turned you into this marijuana behaviour, really

i wonder IF and not OF

I usually don't care, if they're gonna run at the first sign of emotion who needs em anyways? Just sometimes when I'm with someone new who I hope things will work out with, I do think about how much it will take to run this one off. Seems I'm getting pretty good at it.

I know what you mean!.... how many more times can you put yourself up for this... I'm slowly starting to get dissallusioned,

I've now taken a mental step back... rather that seeking it...I'll let it come to me... gonna be a long and lonely wait me-thinks

but Hey-Ho, patience is a virtue

Hey- Ho, that's right ma man

yep,

It depends on what or who pissed off about, for me.

The trick is not come off accusatory. We can talk to our friends about that person being a jerk or a**hole, because they won't take it personal; but if you talk like that to the person, then you're asking for a battle not for understanding.


And I would think the reason most talk with friends is to come to some understanding, aside from needing to vent.

Accuse me of something and I'm outta there, you're not looking for understanding, you're looking for someone to take blame for how you feel. Name calling, labelling, blame statements and I am outta there, or going to fill my own boots, sorry. I don't want to be around someone who's only use for me is as a whipping post.

Effective communication is something entirely different.

Ma woman!!!!