People with severe illness/disability have to struggle against their state of health AND the judgmental environment. And if they nevertheless keep their mood up, don’t surrender, are looking for a date, for a partner, for some joy, that signifies that they have a lot of courage.
And I find brave men attractive.
Now, there are people who left their partner/spouse, or their child, because the partner/spouse (child) became ill/disable.
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
hmmmmmmm interesting I would say yes.I think that if you know you only have a limited time that you would want to make the very best of it and for some reason if I knew how long I had to live I would just be sooooooooo wild and crazy foot loose and fancy free makes me wonder also why not start now I do have a limited time
Tulefel: People with severe illness/disability have to struggle against their state of health AND the judgmental environment. And if they nevertheless keep their mood up, don’t surrender, are looking for a date, for a partner, for some joy, that signifies that they have a lot of courage.
And I find brave men attractive.
Now, there are people who left their partner/spouse, or their child, because the partner/spouse (child) became ill/disable.
Would you date these people?
Its still pretty much the same thing I think, there are some people who detach emotionally in a more immediate way to keep the 'feelings' away, while others see it entirely different and a way to experience life.
Actually emotional detachment is quite common in most relationships. I did it when I first learned my father was terminal, until I realized what I was doing. Had I not realised it I would have missedsome of the greatest moments of my life with him. But there are people who for whatever reason dont, wont or cant see it.
I think the CS designation should stand for Couch Symposium. It seems CS has more than it's share of shrinks. There must be more degrees here than anywhere in one place
shipoker58: I think the CS designation should stand for Couch Symposium. It seems CS has more than it's share of shrinks. There must be more degrees here than anywhere in one place
ya , this place shouldn't be for shrinks, it should be a Cynical Symposium..
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