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Aug 27, 2008 7:34 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...


so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left.. dunno
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Aug 27, 2008 7:37 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
rolling on the floor laughing do they have good insurance?laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 7:39 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
jlw45: do they have good insurance?



questions, questions laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 7:40 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..


How strange..... my dad died aged 53.....I'm now 54


5 to 10 years to me is not now so terminal..........dunnohappy place devil
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Aug 27, 2008 7:41 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..


Not if I just met her and we started dating (unless her first name was Paris). If we were established in a long and deep relationship, of course.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:41 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..



Yes, I would.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:42 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
I wouldn´t choose to date someone that was terminal, but if I fell in love with someone who was....

We don´t have any guarantees in life and the person we love could die tomorrow, auto accident, heart attack... so I think you have to make the most of it while you have it.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:46 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
StressFree: Not if I just met her and we started dating (unless her first name was Paris). If we were established in a long and deep relationship, of course.


rolling on the floor laughing paris is terminal but no tin the strict sense .. (that I know of) laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 7:47 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
SirenLydia: How strange..... my dad died aged 53.....I'm now 545 to 10 years to me is not now so terminal..........


when you get to be our age it doesn't seem so does it .. smile
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Aug 27, 2008 7:48 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
Sommerauer71: Yes, I would.




simple as that. wave
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Aug 27, 2008 7:49 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
jbibiza: I wouldn´t choose to date someone that was terminal, but if I fell in love with someone who was....

We don´t have any guarantees in life and the person we love could die tomorrow, auto accident, heart attack... so I think you have to make the most of it while you have it.


which isn't a bad everyday attitude. thumbs up
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Aug 27, 2008 7:50 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
BnaturAl: when you get to be our age it doesn't seem so does it ..


indeed, it's another one of those 'it's all relative' questions

peace devil
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Aug 27, 2008 7:51 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
If I was already in a relationship/dating someone and something happened to them that altered the way they live their life dramatically, I would do all I could to make them happy and have an enjoyable life between the two of us.

But to be completely honest I just could not step into a relationship knowing he was terminal but if I was already committed to the person, emotions and things are different.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:51 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..


Dates usually don't take so many time.
So why not.
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Aug 27, 2008 7:56 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
the older we get the less and less we think 5 to 10 years is a short time.

As most willagree the advances in medical technology is growing at an awesome rate.

So yeah, dating someone who has been diagnosed as 'terminal' is no great stretch for me... the issue of what they have been diagnosed with is.
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Aug 27, 2008 8:01 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
somechick: If I was already in a relationship/dating someone and something happened to them that altered the way they live their life dramatically, I would do all I could to make them happy and have an enjoyable life between the two of us.

But to be completely honest I just could not step into a relationship knowing he was terminal but if I was already committed to the person, emotions and things are different.


not really an easy question is it?

I'm not sure what I would do myself.
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Aug 27, 2008 8:02 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
fireliter: the older we get the less and less we think 5 to 10 years is a short time.

As most willagree the advances in medical technology is growing at an awesome rate.

So yeah, dating someone who has been diagnosed as 'terminal' is no great stretch for me... the issue of what they have been diagnosed with is.


so if there's a 'cure' youre good with it?
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Aug 27, 2008 8:03 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
Barnagie: Dates usually don't take so many time.
So why not.


confused youre right but I didn't mean it in a one nighter way laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 8:13 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl: not really an easy question is it?

I'm not sure what I would do myself.




No Bnatural it isn't. Even tho it's been a year since my late husband passed away of lung cancer & having to watch all the suffering he went through until the very end I just couldn't bring myself to take that chance of loosing someone else that I loved so very much as I loved him.
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Aug 27, 2008 8:16 AM CST Another ... Would You Date ...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
somechick: No Bnatural it isn't. Even tho it's been a year since my late husband passed away of lung cancer & having to watch all the suffering he went through until the very end I just couldn't bring myself to take that chance of loosing someone else that I loved so very much as I loved him.


it would be an even more relavant or perhaps personal issue for you ... wine didn't mean to remind you ; but I'll bet he appreciated every moment sad flower
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