BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
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BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
How strange..... my dad died aged 53.....I'm now 54
5 to 10 years to me is not now so terminal..........
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
Not if I just met her and we started dating (unless her first name was Paris). If we were established in a long and deep relationship, of course.
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
I wouldn´t choose to date someone that was terminal, but if I fell in love with someone who was....
We don´t have any guarantees in life and the person we love could die tomorrow, auto accident, heart attack... so I think you have to make the most of it while you have it.
StressFree: Not if I just met her and we started dating (unless her first name was Paris). If we were established in a long and deep relationship, of course.
paris is terminal but no tin the strict sense .. (that I know of)
jbibiza: I wouldn´t choose to date someone that was terminal, but if I fell in love with someone who was....
We don´t have any guarantees in life and the person we love could die tomorrow, auto accident, heart attack... so I think you have to make the most of it while you have it.
If I was already in a relationship/dating someone and something happened to them that altered the way they live their life dramatically, I would do all I could to make them happy and have an enjoyable life between the two of us.
But to be completely honest I just could not step into a relationship knowing he was terminal but if I was already committed to the person, emotions and things are different.
BnaturAl: We have had a lot of the 'would you date' threads, whellchairs, paraplegics, nasal obstructions, older/younger...so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..
Dates usually don't take so many time. So why not.
somechick: If I was already in a relationship/dating someone and something happened to them that altered the way they live their life dramatically, I would do all I could to make them happy and have an enjoyable life between the two of us.
But to be completely honest I just could not step into a relationship knowing he was terminal but if I was already committed to the person, emotions and things are different.
No Bnatural it isn't. Even tho it's been a year since my late husband passed away of lung cancer & having to watch all the suffering he went through until the very end I just couldn't bring myself to take that chance of loosing someone else that I loved so very much as I loved him.
somechick: No Bnatural it isn't. Even tho it's been a year since my late husband passed away of lung cancer & having to watch all the suffering he went through until the very end I just couldn't bring myself to take that chance of loosing someone else that I loved so very much as I loved him.
it would be an even more relavant or perhaps personal issue for you ... didn't mean to remind you ; but I'll bet he appreciated every moment
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so ... would you date someone who was terminal, for discussion's sake .. say 5 to 10 years left..