After having it brought to my attention that women rarely compliment men... I make it a point when I see something I like about a guy to give him a compliment... no agenda, just a compliment for the sake of it.
The look of surprise and pleasure in their face is fantastic!
jbibiza: After having it brought to my attention that women rarely compliment men... I make it a point when I see something I like about a guy to give him a compliment... no agenda, just a compliment for the sake of it.
The look of surprise and pleasure in their face is fantastic!
Absolutely, I fully concur with that.
I once told my ex he was beautiful, had lovely skin, and he went all bashful and could not handle it.
Sommerauer71: Absolutely, I fully concur with that.
I once told my ex he was beautiful, had lovely skin, and he went all bashful and could not handle it.
I told a guy at a party that he had a beautiful smile... shortly after he came over and sat next to me.... I had to explain that it wasn´t a pickup line... he really did have a beautiful smile and I just wanted him to know it.
jbibiza: I told a guy at a party that he had a beautiful smile... shortly after he came over and sat next to me.... I had to explain that it wasn´t a pickup line... he really did have a beautiful smile and I just wanted him to know it.
Men want to be adored, loved, cherished, same as us.
I agree, it is ok to tell a person that they have great qualities, but so many people think they are trying to be picked up.
ermm I told this guy he has cute crows feet .. i dont think he was flattered but i did mean it.
then .. once i told my friend he was so much smarter and better than me .. ermmok it he went back to why i should have listened to all his ideas in the first place.
I told my little brother his pendant was pretty .. well .. he gifted it to me for one evening ( for keep sake ) annddd took it back.
:dunno
But i must admit its impossible to not argue and drive a couple of my guy friends nuts asking questions ( even online ) and just generally muttering away .. I admire them for their sweetness and patience.
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That makes me feel better.