do u hate your dad ( Archived) (35)

Aug 29, 2008 11:10 AM CST do u hate your dad
naughtyeyes
naughtyeyesnaughtyeyesliverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 7 Posts
never hated anyone as much as my dad, infact he dont even deserve the right to have the title of dad! he is a nobby in mine and my childrens life and nothin anyone can say or do will ever change the feelings i have for him. hope he rots in prison!!!!!
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Aug 29, 2008 11:11 AM CST do u hate your dad
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
blues

I really love him.
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Aug 29, 2008 11:12 AM CST do u hate your dad
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
well here is an original thread!!
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Aug 29, 2008 11:14 AM CST do u hate your dad
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
shipoker58: well here is an original thread!!


agree, it was here yesterday
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Aug 29, 2008 11:18 AM CST do u hate your dad
2catchastar
2catchastar2catchastarCorning, New York USA10 Threads 830 Posts
I loved my dad and wish he was still around! But what I would like to know was Gilly's thread Doy you hate your father not enough?
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Aug 29, 2008 12:15 PM CST do u hate your dad
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
naughtyeyes: never hated anyone as much as my dad, infact he dont even deserve the right to have the title of dad! he is a nobby in mine and my childrens life and nothin anyone can say or do will ever change the feelings i have for him. hope he rots in prison!!!!!


wave

hi naughtyeyes !

why don't you like him ? and whats he doing in prison then ?

conversing

bet you hate him because he left your mother


head banger
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Sep 6, 2008 3:56 PM CST do u hate your dad
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
gillyloves69: hi naughtyeyes !

why don't you like him ? and whats he doing in prison then ?



bet you hate him because he left your mother


Gilly will get to the bottom of this.

I'll get the couch ready.

Lay down dear. Tell us all about it.


typing detective


For the record.I love my dad.
Sometimes we disagree though.
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Sep 6, 2008 3:59 PM CST do u hate your dad
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
No No NO...Hate is a strong word...

Maybe he has done wrong..but with that attitude it isnt good
for you or ur children...

I hope you dont talk ill about him infront of them...

That would be not fair/good

I hope you can figure a way of getting the bitterness out of ur heart..

Any pain you gone through i am sorry...

Maybe some proffessional help will see you through ur pain

All the best..You will be in my prayershug
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Sep 6, 2008 4:12 PM CST do u hate your dad
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
I don't even dislike him.
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Sep 10, 2008 1:22 PM CST do u hate your dad
blackorchids4u
blackorchids4ublackorchids4uwyandotte, Michigan USA4 Threads 310 Posts
My dad torchred usvery mad but hes dead now last julydevil grin
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Sep 10, 2008 1:24 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Good for you blackorchidsbouquet
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Sep 10, 2008 1:35 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Mothers should never motivate hate feelings on their children, not even to a dad that fails. Not good for the kid, it actually only fulfils the mother's ego!

Why not try to keep the fight between the parents? Why not making the kids reliase later how super mother they are because they (the kids) will sooner or later realise they've been raising ONLY by their mother. That will generate a profound admiration, greater than when you make them see that the father is failing. It's like a growing descovery each day. More romantic towards mommy and...well, that makes everything beautiful in the child's eyes.
Hating since they are kids, and mother's just be happy because they feel the kids are on their side? Nahscold
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Sep 10, 2008 1:37 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
hatred feelings

they've been RAISED and not raising only by their motherhandshake
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Sep 10, 2008 1:39 PM CST do u hate your dad
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
cristina: Mothers should never motivate hate feelings on their children, not even to a dad that fails. Not good for the kid, it actually only fulfils the mother's ego!

Why not try to keep the fight between the parents? Why not making the kids reliase later how super mother they are because they (the kids) will sooner or later realise they've been raising ONLY by their mother. That will generate a profound admiration, greater than when you make them see that the father is failing. It's like a growing descovery each day. More romantic towards mommy and...well, that makes everything beautiful in the child's eyes.
Hating since they are kids, and mother's just be happy because they feel the kids are on their side? Nah


Who said I instilled this in her? As she got older & she was able to make her own perceptions, she decided she didn't want him in her or her childrens' lives. And she calls him by his first name as well.
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Sep 10, 2008 1:39 PM CST do u hate your dad
blackorchids4u
blackorchids4ublackorchids4uwyandotte, Michigan USA4 Threads 310 Posts
my XXXXXX had goten sick after she trid to Kill your sons and all she got was a year in rehabfrustrated very mad so mucch for the sisemfrustrated
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Sep 10, 2008 1:43 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
sweetowen: Who said I instilled this in her? As she got older & she was able to make her own perceptions, she decided she didn't want him in her or her childrens' lives. And she calls him by his first name as well.


who said i said you did?laugh

it's just a behaviour that it's common, then i thought i should post what i think of it
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Sep 10, 2008 1:49 PM CST do u hate your dad
blackorchids4u
blackorchids4ublackorchids4uwyandotte, Michigan USA4 Threads 310 Posts
Her illness was stroakes in the frunt part of her brain that made her scisophrenick?
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Sep 10, 2008 1:49 PM CST do u hate your dad
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
cristina: who said i said you did?

it's just a behaviour that it's common, then i thought i should post what i think of it


OK. I'm not saying I'm totally innocent. It's just very difficult to see your child suffer because the person she's supposed to count on & look up to lets her down again & again.
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Sep 10, 2008 1:55 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
I don't know...maybe we choose the wrong guys to be our kids father? Have you thought about that? That some guys are just not meant to be daddies and we should disturb them?conversing
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Sep 10, 2008 1:56 PM CST do u hate your dad
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
we should NOT disturb them. Sorry
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