naughtyeyesOPliverpool, Merseyside, England UK7 posts
never hated anyone as much as my dad, infact he dont even deserve the right to have the title of dad! he is a nobby in mine and my childrens life and nothin anyone can say or do will ever change the feelings i have for him. hope he rots in prison!!!!!
gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
naughtyeyes: never hated anyone as much as my dad, infact he dont even deserve the right to have the title of dad! he is a nobby in mine and my childrens life and nothin anyone can say or do will ever change the feelings i have for him. hope he rots in prison!!!!!
hi naughtyeyes !
why don't you like him ? and whats he doing in prison then ?
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Mothers should never motivate hate feelings on their children, not even to a dad that fails. Not good for the kid, it actually only fulfils the mother's ego!
Why not try to keep the fight between the parents? Why not making the kids reliase later how super mother they are because they (the kids) will sooner or later realise they've been raising ONLY by their mother. That will generate a profound admiration, greater than when you make them see that the father is failing. It's like a growing descovery each day. More romantic towards mommy and...well, that makes everything beautiful in the child's eyes. Hating since they are kids, and mother's just be happy because they feel the kids are on their side? Nah
cristina: Mothers should never motivate hate feelings on their children, not even to a dad that fails. Not good for the kid, it actually only fulfils the mother's ego!
Why not try to keep the fight between the parents? Why not making the kids reliase later how super mother they are because they (the kids) will sooner or later realise they've been raising ONLY by their mother. That will generate a profound admiration, greater than when you make them see that the father is failing. It's like a growing descovery each day. More romantic towards mommy and...well, that makes everything beautiful in the child's eyes. Hating since they are kids, and mother's just be happy because they feel the kids are on their side? Nah
Who said I instilled this in her? As she got older & she was able to make her own perceptions, she decided she didn't want him in her or her childrens' lives. And she calls him by his first name as well.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
sweetowen: Who said I instilled this in her? As she got older & she was able to make her own perceptions, she decided she didn't want him in her or her childrens' lives. And she calls him by his first name as well.
who said i said you did?
it's just a behaviour that it's common, then i thought i should post what i think of it
it's just a behaviour that it's common, then i thought i should post what i think of it
OK. I'm not saying I'm totally innocent. It's just very difficult to see your child suffer because the person she's supposed to count on & look up to lets her down again & again.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
I don't know...maybe we choose the wrong guys to be our kids father? Have you thought about that? That some guys are just not meant to be daddies and we should disturb them?
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