Why should I hate someone? There are so many negative things in the world, I don't want to create more by myself. Hating is not changing anything better, so I don't see a reason why I should do it and surround myself with bad emotions.
gillyloves69: BEFORE WE GO ANY FURTHER CAN WE NOT SPEND HALF OUR TIME TALKING ABOUT WHAT WORDS TO USE TO DESCRIBE THE RELATIONSHIPS ...AND JUST TALK MORE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP PLEASE !!
gillyloves69: my best friend is an alcoholic ! his wife his divorcing him, his new girlfreind for about 3 months was also and alcohlic but has just left him because he drinks too much, now that they've both left him he's drinking even more has become a complete bum, refuses to go into rehab or do anything about it ...but just vwants to spend a lot of time talking to me about the same things all the time !
what would you do about that ...when he's always been there for you ? BUT WON'T LISTEN TO ANYTHING THAT YOU SAY ?
Get him sober, at least once, then try to talk to him that way. While he is drunk, there is no point continuing talking to him, because you actually don't talk to your friend but to a bum. If still no good, tell him that you will be his friend as long as he wants help. But you can't beat a dead horse. Take his pick. For more, pm me.
How was ur night,Gilly?:) did you have the sweet dreams i wished you before going to sleep?
my aunt...she is from my mother's side and she gets along pretty well with my parents She is a doctor and apparently she is normal but there are moments when she thinks all her BS theories are the most important and impressive ones haha she doesn;t know how to listen...she just keeps talking like when u turn on the radio i never told her what i think of her..and that bothers me usually i feel pity for her but sometimes i just hate her for being soooo narrow-minded and not accepting other sides of the same truth...i won't enter into details ( don't want this to sound like a gossip or smth though i think it does haha)
what happend at ur auntie's funeral? how did ur uncle prove to be an a**hole?
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
Emanuellla: How was ur night,Gilly?:) did you have the sweet dreams i wished you before going to sleep?
my aunt...she is from my mother's side and she gets along pretty well with my parents She is a doctor and apparently she is normal but there are moments when she thinks all her BS theories are the most important and impressive ones haha she doesn;t know how to listen...she just keeps talking like when u turn on the radio i never told her what i think of her..and that bothers me usually i feel pity for her but sometimes i just hate her for being soooo narrow-minded and not accepting other sides of the same truth...i won't enter into details ( don't want this to sound like a gossip or smth though i think it does haha)what happend at ur auntie's funeral? how did ur uncle prove to be an a**hole?
hi eveybody ! hope to chat later after i've done my market shopping (for clothes in the pouring rain ) !
lots to talk about ..but did you love or hate going shopping with your parent or parents ? and why ?
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
mynameisvivi: Get him sober, at least once, then try to talk to him that way. While he is drunk, there is no point continuing talking to him, because you actually don't talk to your friend but to a bum. If still no good, tell him that you will be his friend as long as he wants help. But you can't beat a dead horse. Take his pick. For more, pm me.
his condition his getting worse !
his father is a retired doctor that thats almost given up on him
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me too, i love everyone
huh, yeah