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Aug 30, 2008 5:49 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
if so !...why ?

dunno

this thread is for people that want the opportunity to talk about THEIR interesting , unusual , or unsatisfory relationship with the people that we're talking about

AMONGST PEOPLE THAT WANT TO DO THE SAME !!!

head banger

so please don't bore us with how much you love your mother, children or family, millions of us can easily do that !!!!!!!!

if you've got nothing to say about the about YOUR interesting , unusual , or unsatisfory relationship with any of those people that we're talking about , then please go away and leave us alone !!!....instead of making out that you're better than me or everybody else that starts these types of threads because you think.....

1. you're more reserved and don't talk about these sort of things

2. you're nicer, kinder, more loving or lovable, or spiritually advanced than everybody else

3.or in anyway more intelligent or a better human being than

THOSE THAT OPEN UP AND ARE REALLY TALKING ON THESE THREADS

cheering

now i hate my mother and father in law as much as i want to love them for they did to me 18 years ago when i split up with their daughter who died from lupos 4 years ago, and who my son is trying to dragg back into my life because they're talking about how much they still love me ! and don't get me wrong i enjoyed their company more than my own parents
company, because they were open , honest , unresrved, extrovert people that you could relax and be your true self with, and always made you feel like you were somebody ( until you no longer fancied their daughter ) !

head banger

was that TRUE love ?

scold

i say "no...f*ck them " !

head banger

those people cost me three houses and a lot of money !

thumbs down

and by the way i'm very happy in my life


banana yay beer

and my eldeslst sister in america pisses me off and also my eldest brother who's a preacher in jamaica

conversing
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Aug 30, 2008 5:58 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Cherokeegrandma
CherokeegrandmaCherokeegrandmaValencia, Spain11 Threads 230 Posts
There are many people I do pitty, but.....why should I hate them....I leave that emotion to the ones who still need it.
teddybear
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Aug 30, 2008 6:34 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
Cherokeegrandma: There are many people I do pitty, but.....why should I hate them....I leave that emotion to the ones who still need it.


here we go again


sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep
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Aug 30, 2008 8:55 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
I hate everybody! Why???? They do not live up to my standards and I am, after all, "a classy guy"
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Aug 30, 2008 9:34 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
lovestrees
lovestreeslovestreesTacoma area, Washington USA21 Threads 512 Posts
Hi Gilly, how you doin'?

I have some family that treats me really badly. Saying and doing despicable things that concern me.

Was a big problem for most of my life. Had some anger issues as a result that nearly landed me in jail, on many occasions. With the anger came heart health problems among other bad things.

I finally just quit them, no long good byes, just quit.

Got help dealing with the anger, doing well now.

One of them, my father's brother, lives near me on the hill above my home. This fellow hates me so much that he rolls and throws rock and concrete debries over the edge, knowing that some of it hits my place.

There's been damages, even, finally summoned the Sheriff out last year, to talk with him. He still does it!!

I refuse to hate, oh I despise the a**hole, wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Hope he goes away sooner than later.

Just not a hater Gilly. I choose who I am.
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Aug 30, 2008 10:21 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
mynameisvivi
mynameisvivimynameisviviMexico City, Mexico63 Posts
You know it's just simple not possible to do so. You see I used "hate" my mother, in fact I haven't talk to her for years. (I was raised by my dad, and my mom was literally a bum. No exaggeration here.) So the only time I met her, when I run into her on the street as bums have the tendency to be out there a lot. But then couple of years ago when I was at home, my dad told me that my mom doesn't drink anymore and she has changed, and my own dad (who should hate my mom more than I did) begged me to meet her, because times are changing and she is my mom who gave birth to me. My dad was joined up by his wife as well, so I gave in.

So I did meet my mom and at the beginning, I was trying to pretend even to myself, that I just do that for my dad. I tried to do everything not to get involved emotionally. Now we actually talking regularly. I am not saying that we have a standard "mom-daughter" relationship, or that she is the most important person in my life. But there are certain ties you just can't cut, not even when you think that it's cut. The basic love it's there and it will be always there, no matter what happens. You can pretend to hate and so on, but it will never be more than just a pretend. Thinking back, even in my case, it wasn't like that I hated her, but I just pretended that she didn't exist, or that she is just an "acquaintance" that I have to deal with. Well just recently I even sent her money, and I don't usually send money to "acquaintances". :) Go figure.

So you see, many times that hate, is just trying to avoid "hurt" and "disappointment", and the funny part is you can't get hurt or disappointed by somebody that you don't love the first place.




gillyloves69: if so !...why ?



this thread is for people that want the opportunity to talk about THEIR interesting , unusual , or unsatisfory relationship with the people that we're talking about

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Aug 30, 2008 10:44 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
BEFORE WE GO ANY FURTHER CAN WE NOT SPEND HALF OUR TIME TALKING ABOUT WHAT WORDS TO USE TO DESCRIBE THE RELATIONSHIPS ...AND JUST TALK MORE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP PLEASE !!


head banger head banger head banger
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Aug 30, 2008 10:47 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
lovestrees: Hi Gilly, how you doin'?

I have some family that treats me really badly. Saying and doing despicable things that concern me.

Was a big problem for most of my life. Had some anger issues as a result that nearly landed me in jail, on many occasions. With the anger came heart health problems among other bad things.

I finally just quit them, no long good byes, just quit.

Got help dealing with the anger, doing well now.

One of them, my father's brother, lives near me on the hill above my home. This fellow hates me so much that he rolls and throws rock and concrete debries over the edge, knowing that some of it hits my place.

There's been damages, even, finally summoned the Sheriff out last year, to talk with him. He still does it!!

I refuse to hate, oh I despise the a**hole, wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Hope he goes away sooner than later.

Just not a hater Gilly. I choose who I am.


wave

hi lovetrees ! welcome to the thread man !

hug

lots to talk about there ! be back soon after i come back from meeting my son who i banned from home for dropping out of college !


conversing
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Aug 30, 2008 10:51 AM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
mynameisvivi: You know it's just simple not possible to do so. You see I used "hate" my mother, in fact I haven't talk to her for years. (I was raised by my dad, and my mom was literally a bum. No exaggeration here.) So the only time I met her, when I run into her on the street as bums have the tendency to be out there a lot. But then couple of years ago when I was at home, my dad told me that my mom doesn't drink anymore and she has changed, and my own dad (who should hate my mom more than I did) begged me to meet her, because times are changing and she is my mom who gave birth to me. My dad was joined up by his wife as well, so I gave in.

So I did meet my mom and at the beginning, I was trying to pretend even to myself, that I just do that for my dad. I tried to do everything not to get involved emotionally. Now we actually talking regularly. I am not saying that we have a standard "mom-daughter" relationship, or that she is the most important person in my life. But there are certain ties you just can't cut, not even when you think that it's cut. The basic love it's there and it will be always there, no matter what happens. You can pretend to hate and so on, but it will never be more than just a pretend. Thinking back, even in my case, it wasn't like that I hated her, but I just pretended that she didn't exist, or that she is just an "acquaintance" that I have to deal with. Well just recently I even sent her money, and I don't usually send money to "acquaintances". :) Go figure.

So you see, many times that hate, is just trying to avoid "hurt" and "disappointment", and the funny part is you can't get hurt or disappointed by somebody that you don't love the first place.



wave

hi mynameisvivi !

welcome to the thread !

lots to talk about there ...be back soon after i've given my some some more money and college propectus

yay
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Aug 30, 2008 1:59 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
lovestrees: Hi Gilly, how you doin'?

I have some family that treats me really badly. Saying and doing despicable things that concern me.

Was a big problem for most of my life. Had some anger issues as a result that nearly landed me in jail, on many occasions. With the anger came heart health problems among other bad things.

I finally just quit them, no long good byes, just quit.

Got help dealing with the anger, doing well now.

One of them, my father's brother, lives near me on the hill above my home. This fellow hates me so much that he rolls and throws rock and concrete debries over the edge, knowing that some of it hits my place.

There's been damages, even, finally summoned the Sheriff out last year, to talk with him. He still does it!!

I refuse to hate, oh I despise the a**hole, wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Hope he goes away sooner than later.

Just not a hater Gilly. I choose who I am.



wave

hi lovetrees i'm back now ! ...so why does'nt he like you then ?


conversing
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Aug 30, 2008 2:06 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,915 Threads 12 Polls 10,261 Posts
gillyloves69: hi mynameisvivi !

welcome to the thread !

lots to talk about there ...be back soon after i've given my some some more money and college propectus



wave

my best friend is an alcoholic ! his wife his divorcing him, his new girlfreind for about 3 months was also and alcohlic but has just left him because he drinks too much, now that they've both left him he's drinking even more has become a complete bum, refuses to go into rehab or do anything about it ...but just vwants to spend a lot of time talking to me about the same things all the time !


conversing

what would you do about that ...when he's always been there for you ?
BUT WON'T LISTEN TO ANYTHING THAT YOU SAY ?


frustrated
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Aug 30, 2008 2:07 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK270 Threads 9 Polls 18,384 Posts
There was a knock at the door, I new it was the mother in law because all the mice were throwing themselves on the traps.


I saw six men kicking and punching the mother inlaw, My neighbour said 'Are you going to help' I said no six Should be enough!!

I saw the mother inlaw Walking down the path so i jumped from behind the garage and shouted BOO! She said you nearly frightened me to death, so i shouted BOO! BOO! BOO!



My mother inlaw said 'one day i will dance on your grave' i said i hope you do, i will be buried at sea.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 30, 2008 2:09 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA85 Threads 3 Polls 6,177 Posts
I don't hate anybody, I have a brother-in-law that I don't like much.
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Aug 30, 2008 2:11 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland45 Threads 17 Polls 18,473 Posts
Enough of the HATE threads already!!

scold
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Aug 30, 2008 2:12 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Emanuellla
EmanuelllaEmanuelllaeastern europe, Moldova27 Threads 1,826 Posts
there are moments when i hate my aunt sooo much (i know aunt is not on the list but i really hate herlaugh )!!! she is such a b*tch! she thinks she knows the solutions to all problems and she's always looking at me as if i totally lack experience in life mattersuh oh geez...what have i done to have such an aunt?doh doh doh
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Aug 30, 2008 2:13 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain4 Threads 1 Polls 4,094 Posts
Fallingman: Enough of the HATE threads already!!


agree !!

mumbling
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Aug 30, 2008 2:20 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
At least this hate thrad is not about other members on site.Okay Gilly the short version.My mother abused me in all ways yes even sexually when I was under 7.She bame me for her new marriages ending.She married me off at 16 to my boyfriend to get rid of me.As an adult she constantly verbally abused me.I divorced myself from her at 30 while in therapy because of chidhood.There is that what you wanted?Anyway I hated her all my life.She died a few yeaes ago and as I recommited my life to Christ,I forgave her and no hate just indifference in the end.Hate can eat you up,cause ulcers,anxiety,etc.You hut yourself when you hate.
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Aug 30, 2008 2:23 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Emanuellla
EmanuelllaEmanuelllaeastern europe, Moldova27 Threads 1,826 Posts
nomindgames: At least this hate thrad is not about other members on site.Okay Gilly the short version.My mother abused me in all ways yes even sexually when I was under 7.She bame me for her new marriages ending.She married me off at 16 to my boyfriend to get rid of me.As an adult she constantly verbally abused me.I divorced myself from her at 30 while in therapy because of chidhood.There is that what you wanted?Anyway I hated her all my life.She died a few yeaes ago and as I recommited my life to Christ,I forgave her and no hate just indifference in the end.Hate can eat you up,cause ulcers,anxiety,etc.You hut yourself when you hate.



oh, geez....i am so glad your nightmare is overcomfort hug hug hug

u are right...there is no use hating others coz it eats all ur energy inside...but still, there are ppl (like my aunt for eg) that i cannot tolerate haha
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Aug 30, 2008 2:25 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK144 Threads 13 Polls 22,386 Posts
lovestrees:

I refuse to hate, oh I despise the a**hole


Helloo lovely M ..

I agree.. hate is a waste of time and brain power.. It takes FAR more to forgive.. and forget.. than it does to continue you hate anyone.

Why don't you take a few deep breaths.. then calmly and serenely go up to his house..

kick seven bails of sh*t out of him devil

Then he may get the message. angel


hahaha.. no seriously.. have you thought of just going up and saying something?

hug
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Aug 30, 2008 2:26 PM CST does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK144 Threads 13 Polls 22,386 Posts
Claayer: Helloo lovely M ..

I agree.. hate is a waste of time and brain power.. It takes FAR more to forgive.. and forget.. than it does to continue you hate anyone.

Why don't you take a few deep breaths.. then calmly and serenely go up to his house..

kick seven bails of sh*t out of him

Then he may get the message. hahaha.. no seriously.. have you thought of just going up and saying something?


hahaah!!

I MEAN!.. it takes far more to HATE..

than it does to forgive and forget.. doh laugh laugh
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