does anybody hate their mother ? sister ? brother ? in laws ? son or daughter ? ( Archived) (49)

if so !...why ?



this thread is for people that want the opportunity to talk about THEIR interesting , unusual , or unsatisfory relationship with the people that we're talking about

AMONGST PEOPLE THAT WANT TO DO THE SAME !!!



so please don't bore us with how much you love your mother, children or family, millions of us can easily do that !!!!!!!!

if you've got nothing to say about the about YOUR interesting , unusual , or unsatisfory relationship with any of those people that we're talking about , then please go away and leave us alone !!!....instead of making out that you're better than me or everybody else that starts these types of threads because you think.....

1. you're more reserved and don't talk about these sort of things

2. you're nicer, kinder, more loving or lovable, or spiritually advanced than everybody else

3.or in anyway more intelligent or a better human being than

THOSE THAT OPEN UP AND ARE REALLY TALKING ON THESE THREADS



now i hate my mother and father in law as much as i want to love them for they did to me 18 years ago when i split up with their daughter who died from lupos 4 years ago, and who my son is trying to dragg back into my life because they're talking about how much they still love me ! and don't get me wrong i enjoyed their company more than my own parents
company, because they were open , honest , unresrved, extrovert people that you could relax and be your true self with, and always made you feel like you were somebody ( until you no longer fancied their daughter ) !



was that TRUE love ?



i say "no...f*ck them " !



those people cost me three houses and a lot of money !



and by the way i'm very happy in my life




and my eldeslst sister in america pisses me off and also my eldest brother who's a preacher in jamaica

There are many people I do pitty, but.....why should I hate them....I leave that emotion to the ones who still need it.

here we go again

I hate everybody! Why???? They do not live up to my standards and I am, after all, "a classy guy"

Hi Gilly, how you doin'?

I have some family that treats me really badly. Saying and doing despicable things that concern me.

Was a big problem for most of my life. Had some anger issues as a result that nearly landed me in jail, on many occasions. With the anger came heart health problems among other bad things.

I finally just quit them, no long good byes, just quit.

Got help dealing with the anger, doing well now.

One of them, my father's brother, lives near me on the hill above my home. This fellow hates me so much that he rolls and throws rock and concrete debries over the edge, knowing that some of it hits my place.

There's been damages, even, finally summoned the Sheriff out last year, to talk with him. He still does it!!

I refuse to hate, oh I despise the a**hole, wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Hope he goes away sooner than later.

Just not a hater Gilly. I choose who I am.

You know it's just simple not possible to do so. You see I used "hate" my mother, in fact I haven't talk to her for years. (I was raised by my dad, and my mom was literally a bum. No exaggeration here.) So the only time I met her, when I run into her on the street as bums have the tendency to be out there a lot. But then couple of years ago when I was at home, my dad told me that my mom doesn't drink anymore and she has changed, and my own dad (who should hate my mom more than I did) begged me to meet her, because times are changing and she is my mom who gave birth to me. My dad was joined up by his wife as well, so I gave in.

So I did meet my mom and at the beginning, I was trying to pretend even to myself, that I just do that for my dad. I tried to do everything not to get involved emotionally. Now we actually talking regularly. I am not saying that we have a standard "mom-daughter" relationship, or that she is the most important person in my life. But there are certain ties you just can't cut, not even when you think that it's cut. The basic love it's there and it will be always there, no matter what happens. You can pretend to hate and so on, but it will never be more than just a pretend. Thinking back, even in my case, it wasn't like that I hated her, but I just pretended that she didn't exist, or that she is just an "acquaintance" that I have to deal with. Well just recently I even sent her money, and I don't usually send money to "acquaintances". :) Go figure.

So you see, many times that hate, is just trying to avoid "hurt" and "disappointment", and the funny part is you can't get hurt or disappointed by somebody that you don't love the first place.

BEFORE WE GO ANY FURTHER CAN WE NOT SPEND HALF OUR TIME TALKING ABOUT WHAT WORDS TO USE TO DESCRIBE THE RELATIONSHIPS ...AND JUST TALK MORE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP PLEASE !!

hi lovetrees ! welcome to the thread man !



lots to talk about there ! be back soon after i come back from meeting my son who i banned from home for dropping out of college !

hi mynameisvivi !

welcome to the thread !

lots to talk about there ...be back soon after i've given my some some more money and college propectus