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Sep 9, 2008 8:33 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
bluepoint
bluepointbluepointzurich, Zurich Switzerland28 Threads 81 Posts
WHO SAY WE MUST TO LOVE SOME ONE!?IF LOVE STOP,CHAOS!START HEADGAMES.WHY SHE/HE DONT LOVE ME ANY MORE..?LOVE IS THE BLOSSOM OF HEALTY TREE.WHY SOME PEOPLE CALL DEAD LOVE TO COME BACK?thanks
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Sep 9, 2008 8:38 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
bluepoint: WHO SAY WE MUST TO LOVE SOME ONE!?IF LOVE STOP,CHAOS!START HEADGAMES.WHY SHE/HE DONT LOVE ME ANY MORE..?LOVE IS THE BLOSSOM OF HEALTY TREE.WHY SOME PEOPLE CALL DEAD LOVE TO COME BACK?


Only those who won't let go...I don't know why people don't realize you can't make someone love you and why they want someone to stay out of a sense of obligation rather than love...you not only cheat the person you're trying to hold onto out of real love....but you also cheat yourself!!!!!


wine
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Sep 9, 2008 8:44 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
bluepoint: WHO SAY WE MUST TO LOVE SOME ONE!?IF LOVE STOP,CHAOS!START HEADGAMES.WHY SHE/HE DONT LOVE ME ANY MORE..?LOVE IS THE BLOSSOM OF HEALTY TREE.WHY SOME PEOPLE CALL DEAD LOVE TO COME BACK?


well, if the love "stops" you send him 20 photos and tell him: here honey, pick out your own pic and send rest back to me, as I can't remember what you look likerolling on the floor laughing


wave
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Sep 9, 2008 8:49 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
airliner: well, if the love "stops" you send him 20 photos and tell him: here honey, pick out your own pic and send rest back to me, as I can't remember what you look like



You are soooooo bad...scold laugh laugh laugh
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Sep 9, 2008 8:50 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Only those who won't let go...I don't know why people don't realize you can't make someone love you and why they want someone to stay out of a sense of obligation rather than love...you not only cheat the person you're trying to hold onto out of real love....but you also cheat yourself!!!!!
thumbs up thumbs up wine
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Sep 9, 2008 8:54 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
jbibiza: You are soooooo bad...



nope....that was her idea ( I swear ) laugh
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Sep 9, 2008 8:58 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez: Only those who won't let go...I don't know why people don't realize you can't make someone love you and why they want someone to stay out of a sense of obligation rather than love...you not only cheat the person you're trying to hold onto out of real love....but you also cheat yourself!!!!!
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up cheers cheers
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Sep 9, 2008 9:10 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
As that old sayig goes, " Sometimes we must let go of someone we love, so our heart can mend and learn to love again."
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Sep 9, 2008 9:20 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I am beginning to think that very few are trully capable of being it....by Jesus' standard we fall way short of love.....it's more theatrical and obscene and sooo misinterpreted and easily betrayed....help us God.
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Sep 9, 2008 9:23 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
constanza: I am beginning to think that very few are trully capable of being it....by Jesus' standard we fall way short of love.....it's more theatrical and obscene and sooo misinterpreted and easily betrayed....help us God.



Who can live up to the perfect standard of a god though???...That's unrealistic in my mind because we're human...and far from perfect...nor will we ever be perfect...so there is no way I would ever expect anyone to live up to those standards of love...as far as I am concerned it's unattainable....wine
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Sep 9, 2008 9:30 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Who can live up to the perfect standard of a god though???...That's unrealistic in my mind because we're human...and far from perfect...nor will we ever be perfect...so there is no way I would ever expect anyone to live up to those standards of love...as far as I am concerned it's unattainable....


You are so right Hugs-n-Kissez, There are ups and downs in all relationships and you either work through them or do not go into the relationship. There was only one Perfect. He only asks of us to be honest and work at making the relationship work. Unfortunately my last one was only 2 years. My first lasted 36 years and he passed 5 years ago.
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Sep 9, 2008 9:33 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
paddy1
paddy1paddy1limerick, Limerick Ireland38 Threads 982 Posts
brokenspirit: You are so right Hugs-n-Kissez, There are ups and downs in all relationships and you either work through them or do not go into the relationship. There was only one Perfect. He only asks of us to be honest and work at making the relationship work.


amen too that thumbs up


hug
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Sep 9, 2008 9:34 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Who can live up to the perfect standard of a god though???...That's unrealistic in my mind because we're human...and far from perfect...nor will we ever be perfect...so there is no way I would ever expect anyone to live up to those standards of love...as far as I am concerned it's unattainable....


It seems unattainable because we are polluted and corruptible, and because sin keeps on perpetuating itself like a bad plague, but we all know right from wrong, Godly from ungodly....are we so weak as to just keep on living a mediocre ungodly life or do we have the strength to strive and exercise our will towards godliness ?
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Sep 9, 2008 9:34 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
brokenspirit: You are so right Hugs-n-Kissez, There are ups and downs in all relationships and you either work through them or do not go into the relationship. There was only one Perfect. He only asks of us to be honest and work at making the relationship work. Unfortunately my last one was only 2 years. My first lasted 36 years and he passed 5 years ago.




AWWWWWEEEEEEE...Sorry to hear that...and yes I agree...if you really love someone you should be prepared to go the distance...through ups and downs..thick and thin....but only if the relationship is healthy and based on mutual love...wave hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 9, 2008 9:39 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
paddy1: amen too that


Thank You paddy1
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Sep 9, 2008 9:40 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
constanza: Who can live up to the perfect standard of a god though???...That's unrealistic in my mind because we're human...and far from perfect...nor will we ever be perfect...so there is no way I would ever expect anyone to live up to those standards of love...as far as I am concerned it's unattainable....It seems unattainable because we are polluted and corruptible, and because sin keeps on perpetuating itself like a bad plague, but we all know right from wrong, Godly from ungodly....are we so weak as to just keep on living a mediocre ungodly life or do we have the strength to strive and exercise our will towards godliness ?



Well that's only for people who subscribe to that concept...but there are those who don't...and we can and never will reach perfection only god can be perfect...we may know right from wrong yes...but that doesn't mean if we make a mistake that we are unworthy of love and I think if we have that expectation from potential partners...unless we can say we have reached perfection ourselves...we shouldn't expect perfection from anyone else either....wine
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Sep 9, 2008 9:43 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well that's only for people who subscribe to that concept...but there are those who don't...and we can and never will reach perfection only god can be perfect...we may know right from wrong yes...but that doesn't mean if we make a mistake that we are unworthy of love and I think if we have that expectation from potential partners...unless we can say we have reached perfection ourselves...we shouldn't expect perfection from anyone else either....




Hey wait a minute......does that mean we are all a bunch of mediocre hypocrites at point or another? You have spoken great words of wisdom there.wine
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Sep 9, 2008 9:43 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
paddy1
paddy1paddy1limerick, Limerick Ireland38 Threads 982 Posts
brokenspirit: Thank You paddy1


ur welcome

paddy will do wink

teddybear
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Sep 9, 2008 9:48 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
constanza:
Hey wait a minute......does that mean we are all a bunch of mediocre hypocrites at point or another? You have spoken great words of wisdom there.



Well I guess you're only a hypocrite if you subscribe to that concept and expect it from your partner but aren't willing to travel the road to perfection yourself....and as far as mediocre...nope I think we're all exciting unique individuals in our own way...who are all merely human!!!!!!!




wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 9, 2008 10:34 PM CST LOVE IS NOT DUTY
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
constanza: Who can live up to the perfect standard of a god though???...That's unrealistic in my mind because we're human...and far from perfect...nor will we ever be perfect...so there is no way I would ever expect anyone to live up to those standards of love...as far as I am concerned it's unattainable....It seems unattainable because we are polluted and corruptible, and because sin keeps on perpetuating itself like a bad plague, but we all know right from wrong, Godly from ungodly....are we so weak as to just keep on living a mediocre ungodly life or do we have the strength to strive and exercise our will towards godliness ?



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