Very true HJ We must also learn to like ourselves. Sometimes I get stuck in a rut on the liking myself. But that is when I throw on some Vivaldi or Native American music and contemplate on who I am and what are my good qualities compared to the not so good. After about 30 minutes of this I find I am not such a bad person after all. Not perfect, by any means, but then no one is perfect except our creator.
That was the problem Ship. He truly wanted the answers and he would become very aroused by me telling him what he wanted to know, until I finally quit saying those things and would just lay there.
Ship, you know I think you are a terrific guy and we do not always agree, which is great. But let me ask you this, If she did with you in the bedroom, what he did with me, to get herself turned on, would you honestly give her that type of info?
Thank you Dru, That is exactly how I feel, but guess at the time I was still in the old school of you have to keep your man happy if you want him to not stray. So many unpleasant things happened the 2 years I was with this man, I won't mention most of them. But as I have stated, my trust has taken a beating. Will take things much slower when I meet the man I am waiting for.
Well hun I wish I could help you there, but I am going to try to get in a couple more hours before I really get my day started. Has been very nice meeting you Robert and having this chat. You have a flower.
I have one very dear friend from pof and i'm with a few others, but the forums are much better here and I have friends from when I was here a couple of years ago.
Just here, POF, E-BAY, YOUTUBE and then just think of something that might interest me and go check it out. I also let my sis use my computer at the moment as hers crashed. She and many other family members play one game mainly but right now can't remember the name. Has something to do with farming and different capes I think.
RE: Today's thought:
Very true HJ We must also learn to like ourselves. Sometimes I getstuck in a rut on the liking myself. But that is when I throw on some
Vivaldi or Native American music and contemplate on who I am and
what are my good qualities compared to the not so good. After about
30 minutes of this I find I am not such a bad person after all. Not
perfect, by any means, but then no one is perfect except our
creator.