brokenspirit: What I don't understand is how people are able to turn love, off and on so easily. Granted I have only been married twice, first 36 years, second 2 years. But I loved these 2 guys and til' death us do part was it for me. Unfortunately the 2nd one was not in it for the long haul.
Usually it is because we are selfish beings. We seem to only care about what we want..
And I will counter any argument to that with the same word..
HJFinAZ: Usually it is because we are selfish beings. We seem to only care about what we want..
And I will counter any argument to that with the same word..
I guess in some way you are right. One or both parties must have a selfish streak somewhere or there would be less divorces, because both parties would continue to do everything they could to keep the relationship together.
HJFinAZ: Usually it is because we are selfish beings. We seem to only care about what we want..
And I will counter any argument to that with the same word..
Cause some people go into relationships thinking everything is going to be so hunky dory and then they find out they have to work at making things work.
We're also living in a ME ME generation where if the going gets alittle rough they bail out by getting a divorce.
I'm not saying one should stay in a marriage with abusive partners in anyway shape or form.
I have a sis-in-law who's been married 6 times and those marriages only lasted 3 months each. According to her it was always the other persons fault and that she didn't play any part whatsoever in the breakups.I overheard one of her ex-husbands tell her that she was way too controling.He wasn't lying cause I know for a fact what he told her was true.
somechick: Cause some people go into relationships thinking everything is going to be so hunky dory and then they find out they have to work at making things work.
We're also living in a ME ME generation where if the going gets alittle rough they bail out by getting a divorce.
I'm not saying one should stay in a marriage with abusive partners in anyway shape or form. I have a sis-in-law who's been married 6 times and those marriages only lasted 3 months each. According to her it was always the other persons fault and that she didn't play any part whatsoever in the breakups.I overheard one of her ex-husbands tell her that she was way too controling.He wasn't lying cause I know for a fact what he told her was true.
Read the forums on relationships, it is always "their" fault....
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Usually it is because we are selfish beings. We seem to only care about what we want..
And I will counter any argument to that with the same word..