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Oct 27, 2008 7:54 AM CST ReSpEcT!
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
Everyone asks for it... everyone wants it... but, after all... WHAT IS RESPECT?
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Oct 27, 2008 7:54 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
lavender84: Everyone asks for it... everyone wants it... but, after all... WHAT IS RESPECT?


I think it's something you earn (?)
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Oct 27, 2008 8:00 AM CST ReSpEcT!
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
In language

Human languages typically portray grammatical distinctions to the listener between honorific and colloquial language. These distinctions may be grammatically encoded by a regular system of verb and noun affixes. In Japan for example, language is used to show respect between children and parents or between husband and wife

In body language

Human cultures have varied ways of showing respect by bodily actions. In many European cultures, people shake hands. In others, such as in Japan people bow at the waist when meeting. Frequently, gender is a factor in how respect is displayed in bodily behavior. For example, women in many Western cultures traditionally curtsy, whereas men bow.

Military

As a sign of respect in almost any form of the military is a salute. A salute is used by enlistees to show respect to officers (and vice-versa; to not return a salute to a subordinate is considered offensive) and by officers to those of higher rank. The 21-gun salute is done within the military for funerals of military members and for high-ranking civilians such as the President.

In organized crime

Some organized crime syndicates, both real and fictional, revolve heavily around the theory of respect. Hired men and those lower in the rank of the family are obligated to show "respect" to the mafioso.

Crimes of revenge


There are many cases in which perceived disrespect has led to murder and other violence.
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Oct 27, 2008 8:03 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Kevint
KevintKevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK6 Threads 433 Posts
Respect is being able to show consideration for someone, to listen and have the ability to recognise that someone may be able to pass on the benefit of their experience, without prejudging them, be they a child or a learned scholar.

To earn respect is more that just telling someone what to do.
Its being able to demonstrate that you can also carry out that request. The sign of a true leader




JMO
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Oct 27, 2008 8:11 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Dusty45: I think it's something you earn (?)



What like a paycheck?

Respect is something that I have been raised with, it was intilled in me at an early age...

It is there, I display, it, not all would agree, but it is there, always, it dribbles away with some people, sometimes, with others it increases.

But it is always there.

I do not believe that it should be earned. The only thing I earn is my salary....


And a stiff drink at the end of hard day.
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Oct 27, 2008 8:17 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
Sommerauer71 :

I was kidding.
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Oct 27, 2008 8:19 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Dusty45: Sommerauer71 :

I was kidding.



Oh god...

I have been busy and I thought I was seeing things...

Thank god for that...

hug
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Oct 27, 2008 8:20 AM CST ReSpEcT!
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
Respect can be as well when u are able to accept a person as she-he is...
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Oct 27, 2008 8:21 AM CST ReSpEcT!
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
Sommerauer71: Oh god...

I have been busy and I thought I was seeing things...

Thank god for that...


Namaste' hug
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Oct 27, 2008 8:22 AM CST ReSpEcT!
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
Respect is taking into account of anothers beliefs,,,,,that is a general statement but encompasses all, morals, ethics, decisions, etc.
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Oct 27, 2008 8:22 AM CST ReSpEcT!
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
lavender84: Respect can be as well when u are able to accept a person as she-he is...


hug

sounds like your getting a bit of grief...... are you okay?
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Oct 27, 2008 8:23 AM CST ReSpEcT!
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
irishlass45: Respect is taking into account of anothers beliefs,,,,,that is a general statement but encompasses all, morals, ethics, decisions, etc.


thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2008 8:37 AM CST ReSpEcT!
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
stooie1971
wave
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Oct 27, 2008 8:40 AM CST ReSpEcT!
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
irishlass45: stooie1971


wave Hey You wave
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Oct 27, 2008 10:32 AM CST ReSpEcT!
pahotman
pahotmanpahotmanMonroeville, Pennsylvania USA43 Posts
Just a lil' bit....Just a lil' bit!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T banana Couldn't resist. Respect is earned.
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Oct 27, 2008 10:40 AM CST ReSpEcT!
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Sommerauer71: What like a paycheck?

Respect is something that I have been raised with, it was intilled in me at an early age...

It is there, I display, it, not all would agree, but it is there, always, it dribbles away with some people, sometimes, with others it increases.

But it is always there.

I do not believe that it should be earned. The only thing I earn is my salary....And a stiff drink at the end of hard day.
I think there are different kinds of respect i too was bought up to respect others as individuals, my elders, different viewpoints, cultures, religions etc. But throughout my career i think i had to earn the respect of my staff and colleagues through my ability, skills and knowledge.
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Oct 27, 2008 10:58 AM CST ReSpEcT!
See yourself positive



Respect is...

Respect is...listening with out interrupting

Respect is...taking your partner's feelings into consideration

Respect is...keeping an open mind

Respect is...agreeing to disagree

Respect is...trying to understand your partner's viewpoint

Respect is...loving yourself

Respect is...trust and honesty

Respect is...giving each other space

Respect is...nonviolence

Respect is...direct communication

Respect is...building a person up instead of tearing them down

Respect is...friendship

Respect is…not pressuring the other person
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