Fantasies ( Archived) (16)

Nov 7, 2008 6:37 PM CST Fantasies
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
We all have them, to some degree or another.
If yours are very unusual, chances are you might never experience them. But, if they are a bit more mainstream, the odds are more in your favor.
Your fantasies....you don't need to share them, for they are yours alone. But have you LIVED them? Have you been able to experience the things that you only once imagined?

If not.....what's stopping you?

And, if you have, was once enough to satisfy the curiosity or intrigue, or did you want it again and again?
Did fulfillment of one fantasy bring on a new one, itching to be experienced? Or did you simply check off a box without creating a new one?

I ask this because of a conversation I had recently with a male friend of mine whose experiences with his own fantasies resulted in a different outcome than mine. So now I am curious to hear from both men and women on this topic.
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Nov 7, 2008 6:50 PM CST Fantasies
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Ahhhhh, ok then.
Guess it's just me, then.

devil
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Nov 7, 2008 6:52 PM CST Fantasies
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
jlb684: Sorry, Red, my reply wasn't meant for you, although it followed your entry. We were writing at the same time, apparently.






No problem. wink
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Nov 7, 2008 6:57 PM CST Fantasies
Kevint
KevintKevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK6 Threads 433 Posts
They can backfire,

I was asked in one relationship, about 3 years into it, to act out her fantasy, I tried but there was a degree of violence attached to it that I was not comfortable with so stopped, it caused some friction between us, for quite a while until we were able to discuss it and realise that sometimes fantasies need to stay as a fantasy


blushing
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Nov 7, 2008 7:00 PM CST Fantasies
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
I have fantasies the only thing holding them back is the restraining order rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 7, 2008 7:01 PM CST Fantasies
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Dknew: I have fantasies the only thing holding them back is the restraining order


laugh Yes, yours are probably better left as fantasies!
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Nov 7, 2008 7:09 PM CST Fantasies
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
Dknew: I have fantasies the only thing holding them back is the restraining order


Whew, thought I was the only one! rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 7, 2008 7:10 PM CST Fantasies
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
LACali: Whew, thought I was the only one!



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 7, 2008 7:10 PM CST Fantasies
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
Oh, I wasn't joking, were you?dunno rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 7, 2008 8:01 PM CST Fantasies
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
jlb684: If not.....what's stopping you?



Airfare to Greece.
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Nov 7, 2008 8:09 PM CST Fantasies
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
AAAHH yes my fantasy..........

Is to find a woman who isn't a liar a cheat, or user..laugh

Someone who doesn't want to play "20 (loaded" questions," each night after I get off work, someone who ,oh I don't know, maybe uummmm. doesn't try to change me, into what they think I should be, and doesn't change their attitude, every hour on the hour, or because the relationship status changed, they think that they need to act differently......And this person also has common sense, and speaks their mind while speaking from their heart also....

OOHHH. the fantasies, and how they linger......cheers
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Nov 7, 2008 8:14 PM CST Fantasies
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
What are fantasiesdunno
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Nov 7, 2008 8:17 PM CST Fantasies
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
billy joel~~''sometimes a fantasy''

I didn't want to do it but I got too lonely
I had to call you up in the middle of the night
I know it's awful hard to try to make love long distance
But I really needed stimulation
Though it was only my imagination

It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
But sometimes a fantasy
Is all you need

When am I gonna take control get a hold of my emotions
Why does it only seem to hit me in the middle of the night
You told me there's a number I can always dial for assistance
I don't want to deal with outside action
Only you can give me satisfaction

It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
But sometimes a fantasy
Is all you need

Sure it would be better if I had you here to hold me
Be better baby but believe me it's the next best thing
I'm sure there's many times you've wanted me to hear your secrets
Don't be afraid to say the words that move me
Anytime you want to tell them to me

It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
But sometimes a fantasy
Is all you need
It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thing
It's just a fantasy
It's not the real thingdancing
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Nov 7, 2008 8:20 PM CST Fantasies
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I am not so sure if I have fantasies (well, at least since Wonder Woman went off the air) as much as I have plans. Then again, the plans are perpetually stillborn, so perhaps they are indeed fantasies. Hell, I don't know...dunno
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Nov 7, 2008 10:51 PM CST Fantasies
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
--- Not really a fantasy- to share love energys and experience the pleasure of being/s -
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Nov 7, 2008 11:05 PM CST Fantasies
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
to walk along moonbeams and hop upon the stars as if they were stepping stones across a vast river of softened chocolate bars laugh
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