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Nov 10, 2008 6:46 AM CST if you could bring..
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
It would be my mama, she was one awesome ladyapplause
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Nov 10, 2008 6:52 AM CST if you could bring..
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
No one, If their only going to be back a short time why do it. The hurt of loss was bad enough the 1st time.
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Nov 10, 2008 6:54 AM CST if you could bring..
RadioheadFan123: I am sorry if this is depressing to some. I figured it would. What about if you could have a few hours with them? What if they were just a specter or apparition?



There are no what ifs in life cause I know it's never ever going to happen. I just couldn't take the heartbreak anyhow. Once was enough.
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Nov 10, 2008 6:58 AM CST if you could bring..
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
cdj1213: My child , mother and father.



hug comfort
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Nov 10, 2008 6:59 AM CST if you could bring..
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
Dknew: No one, If their only going to be back a short time why do it. The hurt of loss was bad enough the 1st time.



But what if you could say the things you didn't get to say the first time? maybe you are right and the pain wouldn't be worth it but then again maybe it would be. Would have to think on it.
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Nov 10, 2008 6:59 AM CST if you could bring..
I would prefer to let them rest where they are.sad flower
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Nov 10, 2008 7:04 AM CST if you could bring..
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
nomindgames: I would prefer to let them rest where they are.



I used to have dreams of my mama comming back over and over and they were very vivid, one night she came to me floating, I was so happy, until I smelled something, it was a stench I will never ever forget. She told me that she was there like I wanted, I told her I didn't think it was supposed to be this way and she said to me "but you wanted this" and I said "yes I do but not like this" and I woke up from the dream, the last one as a nightmare I had and smelled that very same smell that I had smelled in my dream, odd, it did not go away all day. Now I just know she is here with me. I do so miss her though 46 is a young age to die,, and 23 is a young age to lose her.
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Nov 10, 2008 7:08 AM CST if you could bring..
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
Its not going to happen, so why talk about a short time, or a few hours, or even weeks?It takes time for them to leave after they die, but now they are gone, I will see them again some day, and I can wait until that happens, when we are together again for always

hug
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Nov 10, 2008 9:15 AM CST if you could bring..
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Since my mother's entire family is gone, I'd love to bring them ALL back. But since it can only be one person, I'd have to say my mother, herself. I miss her more & more every day.
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Nov 10, 2008 9:32 AM CST if you could bring..
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
AGoodManIsMe: My Sister Rachel who was killed in a car crash in July of this year at the age of 33. I love you Rachel and see ya when I get Home


hug I'm sorry for your loss. hug bouquet
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Nov 10, 2008 9:33 AM CST if you could bring..
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
irishlass45: It would be my mama, she was one awesome lady


Mine was too. hug thumbs up
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Nov 10, 2008 9:35 AM CST if you could bring..
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
somechick: There are no what ifs in life cause I know it's never ever going to happen. I just couldn't take the heartbreak anyhow. Once was enough.


I agree. I was thinking that it would be my husband, just to feel his arms around me one more time...but, as you said, I realized the loss would be just as hard to go through again. It would never be enough, and it would re-open the wound that has finally healed.
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Nov 10, 2008 9:45 AM CST if you could bring..
OrvaasDrem111
OrvaasDrem111OrvaasDrem111Balmora, Iowa USA12 Posts
Saint Nerevarr
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