RadioheadFan123: I am sorry if this is depressing to some. I figured it would. What about if you could have a few hours with them? What if they were just a specter or apparition?
There are no what ifs in life cause I know it's never ever going to happen. I just couldn't take the heartbreak anyhow. Once was enough.
Dknew: No one, If their only going to be back a short time why do it. The hurt of loss was bad enough the 1st time.
But what if you could say the things you didn't get to say the first time? maybe you are right and the pain wouldn't be worth it but then again maybe it would be. Would have to think on it.
nomindgames: I would prefer to let them rest where they are.
I used to have dreams of my mama comming back over and over and they were very vivid, one night she came to me floating, I was so happy, until I smelled something, it was a stench I will never ever forget. She told me that she was there like I wanted, I told her I didn't think it was supposed to be this way and she said to me "but you wanted this" and I said "yes I do but not like this" and I woke up from the dream, the last one as a nightmare I had and smelled that very same smell that I had smelled in my dream, odd, it did not go away all day. Now I just know she is here with me. I do so miss her though 46 is a young age to die,, and 23 is a young age to lose her.
Its not going to happen, so why talk about a short time, or a few hours, or even weeks?It takes time for them to leave after they die, but now they are gone, I will see them again some day, and I can wait until that happens, when we are together again for always
Since my mother's entire family is gone, I'd love to bring them ALL back. But since it can only be one person, I'd have to say my mother, herself. I miss her more & more every day.
somechick: There are no what ifs in life cause I know it's never ever going to happen. I just couldn't take the heartbreak anyhow. Once was enough.
I agree. I was thinking that it would be my husband, just to feel his arms around me one more time...but, as you said, I realized the loss would be just as hard to go through again. It would never be enough, and it would re-open the wound that has finally healed.
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