Where I have been lately (14)
DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am very sorry to hear about your best friend ,that's a shame. But it's good his family has you to help them , that is a very good thing you are doing for him and them. Hang in there, some day you will find another friend or a love to be close too. I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
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DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
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I am so very sorry for your loss Dazzle....I sympathise with you.....there are no words to ease your pain.....you dont have to come in here and explain your absense to anyone.......
may strenght be with you over the next few days....
may strenght be with you over the next few days....
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I'm just so very sorry, hun. You have my thoughts and sympathies.
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DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
AWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEEE.....
My prayers are with you...your friends wife and children.....
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DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
Dazzle, I've already told you how sorry I am. I'm here, if you want to talk.
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you are a true friend to the end even though you are going through so much pain you are strong enough to help your friends family through such a tough time that is what best friends do and trust me he would not expect any less from you. I am so sorry for your loss and stay strong for him and his family
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im sure your friend is at peace knowing you there to help his wife and kids at this time
and m8 as long as you on these forums you never alone even if its friends behind a screen
and m8 as long as you on these forums you never alone even if its friends behind a screen
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I am so sorry to hear this is happening to your friends family and to you. There isn't anything I can say except that my heart goes out to all of you.
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DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
Don't know you, but you seem like a hell of a nice guy.
Feel bad for those little kids too, maybe you guys can help each other out.
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So sorry to hear of your best friends passing. May you find the strength and love to help his wife and children now to cope with the loss.
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DazzleYou: I eluded to it in another post this morning.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.
I'm sure all of us in here understand your pain - hang in there.
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so so sorry to hear that,u will never be on your own u have all of us.....
look after urself
me prayers are with ye
look after urself
me prayers are with ye
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I am not looking for sympathy, just wanted to explain why I have not been as present over the last few days.
I got a call Friday afternoon from the wife of my best friend, that he was involved in a bad car accident. I spent most of the night Friday and Saturday on the road, and he died Sunday morning early.
I pretty much have nobody at this point, which I never thought at 37 I would be saying. In the last 2 years, I went through a divorce, my mother and father both passed away, and now my best friend - probably the only friend I have had that has really been my confidante over the last 18 years - since we were college freshmen.
Usually this happens when you are in your 70s or 80s. Anyway, I am handling the arrangements for him so that his wife can tend to their 7 year old and 4 year old who don't fully understand.
anyway, that is where I have been.