So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face? ( Archived) (82)

Dec 20, 2008 6:41 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: One single colour, no matter model.



Barefoot, in a dark room, with the one you love?

Dilemma over...

So are our early days, of wine, your shirt, my balcony...


Now we are both on new horizons...

But, at least my dilemma is over, Mike, I know that you will always spare a moment to dance the tango with me...


bouquet
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Dec 20, 2008 6:52 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: But, at least my dilemma is over, Mike, I know that you will always spare a moment to dance the tango with me...


Oh, always and even barefoot if needed but the stamp of the stubborn heel to the floor will sound like a silly splash.

With the Slow Tango morphing through a Tango Incendiado to a wild Flamenco and touching a few seconds at a hot but tipsy Cha-Cha to gain its peak and then slowly fade back into the slow tango.

Chilled red wine is needed, white won't do, neither will warmish.

wine
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Dec 20, 2008 6:56 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby


I feel for you, girl. sigh


I'm not sure who helps in such cases, but have you tried talking to a social worker?

hug
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Dec 20, 2008 6:58 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: Oh, always and even barefoot if needed but the stamp of the stubborn heel to the floor will sound like a silly splash.

With the Slow Tango morphing through a Tango Incendiado to a wild Flamenco and touching a few seconds at a hot but tipsy Cha-Cha to gain its peak and then slowly fade back into the slow tango.

Chilled red wine is needed, white won't do, neither will warmish.


Warmish, is not on the agenda...

I go dance with a vagabond, you go dance with your Andreea...

You are a beauty, you know that.
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Dec 20, 2008 7:07 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Hello ladies how are you all?

So your still dancing Sommer

You will crawl on that plane you will be shattered
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Dec 20, 2008 7:08 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Hi, Tamarin. wave
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Dec 20, 2008 7:12 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby


Sweetheart...

I feel for you.

And yes, you do. Have to keep soldiering on. For that little girl..

No, you should not be raising her alone, but it looks like you may have to...

And as a parent, a teacher, it takes one person in a child's life to be there. Just one.

I have raised mine, without financial aid, alone, not because their father did not care, but because he could not afford to.

So, you are going to be that person, as much as you want to stick drawing pins in his eyes for not seeing what is staring him in the face, his daughter...

So you carry on, as you are, as difficult as it is, without the support of her father.

DNA tests suck in my opinion, any man, woman who is not devoid of any intelligence would know a child is his/hers...

I have one who is not mine biologically, he will always belong to his mother, I see him as borrowed.

Your daughter is yours, you must face the task of raising her, he will lose out.

And any parent that chooses not to be in their child's life, chooses I stress, is a person that I would not want in my child's life.

Leave him be, concentrate on that little one, and you.
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Dec 20, 2008 7:38 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
BarrenPneuma: I am ashamed that you would bundle all men in one grouping here. I am extremely empathic and would consider myself of at least average emotional intelligence. Must have been the sour prank with the nudie pics eh?



Yes, Mark. I felt terribly deprived! laugh

Nah, I've just been chasing women all week, as I was temporarily a lesbian. Long story. I'm back to men. I like the dangly bits. wink
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Dec 20, 2008 7:42 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby



I've raised my daughter for 13 years completely on my own, no father in the picture, and no financial assistance. She's better off. He isn't the kind of person I want her around. He's the kind of dad that would say he would show up to take her somewhere and never show up. I've prevented her from being neglected for these 13 years.

And she thanks me for it.

Hold your head up. Neither of you need him.

teddybear
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Dec 20, 2008 7:45 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Tamarin: Hello ladies how are you all?

So your still dancing Sommer

You will crawl on that plane you will be shattered


Ah yes, but then I will get a glass of wine poured, a hug, a dance, a man jumping on the bed, and a warm safe haven where I can fall asleep...

How could one not dance about that?
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Dec 20, 2008 7:46 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
dcj22: Yes, Mark. I felt terribly deprived!

Nah, I've just been chasing women all week, as I was temporarily a lesbian. Long story. I'm back to men. I like the dangly bits.


Dana

You are too good for this mortal coil.

Too good.
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Dec 20, 2008 7:51 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Sommerauer71: Dana

You are too good for this mortal coil.

Too good.



Frankly, I'm not very good at all! laugh
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Dec 20, 2008 8:01 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
dcj22: Frankly, I'm not very good at all!


Ok, sod you, there I was paying you a compliment...

Why are you not good?

Does this mean you are bad????

How bloody exciting.

Gents, form an orderly line,please.
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Dec 20, 2008 8:04 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Hi Luscious.

How was your day?

God mine has been one that has been freakly good and without Sommer to get me through it I would have had to be peeled of the floor in shock.

Yesterday I had one guy coming to visit and today now a completely different one.

If I had read it in a movie script I would have never believed it..

I have found my own 'Officer and a Gent.'

Reaching 40 has it's perks...something to look forward to...

hug
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Dec 20, 2008 8:07 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Sommerauer71: Ok, sod you, there I was paying you a compliment...

Why are you not good?

Does this mean you are bad????

How bloody exciting.

Gents, form an orderly line,please.



Yes, I'm bad! devil

But not in bed. wink laugh


Thank you for the compliment, luv. hug bouquet
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Dec 20, 2008 8:08 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Tamarin: Hi Luscious.

How was your day?

God mine has been one that has been freakly good and without Sommer to get me through it I would have had to be peeled of the floor in shock.

Yesterday I had one guy coming to visit and today now a completely different one.

If I had read it in a movie script I would have never believed it..

I have found my own 'Officer and a Gent.'

Reaching 40 has it's perks...something to look forward to...



Could you please write a manual of how you achieved this for those of us with no gents visiting.

Thank you. bouquet
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Dec 20, 2008 8:09 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
dcj22: Yes, I'm bad!

But not in bed. Thank you for the compliment, luv.



And I'm a good cook. grin
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Dec 20, 2008 8:14 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Tamarin: Hi Luscious.

How was your day?

God mine has been one that has been freakly good and without Sommer to get me through it I would have had to be peeled of the floor in shock.

Yesterday I had one guy coming to visit and today now a completely different one.

If I had read it in a movie script I would have never believed it..

I have found my own 'Officer and a Gent.'

Reaching 40 has it's perks...something to look forward to...


I'm glad you're still going to have a good time regardless.

That's the spirit!

I left the house at noon, and came back after eleven. I'm tending to my braids, as i post. Yes, i'm weird. laugh

I tried sending you mail, but you have my location/ age range blocked. laugh



hug
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Dec 20, 2008 8:24 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Luscious I never block anyone...just not my style...must be somthing to do with CS...thanks for letting me know...wine
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Dec 20, 2008 8:27 PM CST So what is the greatest dilemma a woman can face?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Tamarin: Luscious I never block anyone...just not my style...must be somthing to do with CS...thanks for letting me know...



I know, because it says the location/ age range is blocked, and my mail would go to your filter box. I've never mailed you before and i thought it was strange.

Welcome to the new CS. roll eyes doh

No worries!

laugh
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