Sommerauer71: But, at least my dilemma is over, Mike, I know that you will always spare a moment to dance the tango with me...
Oh, always and even barefoot if needed but the stamp of the stubborn heel to the floor will sound like a silly splash.
With the Slow Tango morphing through a Tango Incendiado to a wild Flamenco and touching a few seconds at a hot but tipsy Cha-Cha to gain its peak and then slowly fade back into the slow tango.
Chilled red wine is needed, white won't do, neither will warmish.
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby
I feel for you, girl.
I'm not sure who helps in such cases, but have you tried talking to a social worker?
mike69spain: Oh, always and even barefoot if needed but the stamp of the stubborn heel to the floor will sound like a silly splash.
With the Slow Tango morphing through a Tango Incendiado to a wild Flamenco and touching a few seconds at a hot but tipsy Cha-Cha to gain its peak and then slowly fade back into the slow tango.
Chilled red wine is needed, white won't do, neither will warmish.
Warmish, is not on the agenda...
I go dance with a vagabond, you go dance with your Andreea...
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby
Sweetheart...
I feel for you.
And yes, you do. Have to keep soldiering on. For that little girl..
No, you should not be raising her alone, but it looks like you may have to...
And as a parent, a teacher, it takes one person in a child's life to be there. Just one.
I have raised mine, without financial aid, alone, not because their father did not care, but because he could not afford to.
So, you are going to be that person, as much as you want to stick drawing pins in his eyes for not seeing what is staring him in the face, his daughter...
So you carry on, as you are, as difficult as it is, without the support of her father.
DNA tests suck in my opinion, any man, woman who is not devoid of any intelligence would know a child is his/hers...
I have one who is not mine biologically, he will always belong to his mother, I see him as borrowed.
Your daughter is yours, you must face the task of raising her, he will lose out.
And any parent that chooses not to be in their child's life, chooses I stress, is a person that I would not want in my child's life.
Leave him be, concentrate on that little one, and you.
BarrenPneuma: I am ashamed that you would bundle all men in one grouping here. I am extremely empathic and would consider myself of at least average emotional intelligence. Must have been the sour prank with the nudie pics eh?
Yes, Mark. I felt terribly deprived!
Nah, I've just been chasing women all week, as I was temporarily a lesbian. Long story. I'm back to men. I like the dangly bits.
manzy27: well i will use myself as an example as i feel my dilemma is big i am 22 years old with a 2 month old daughter and i am raising her on my own her father left when i was 4 months pregnant he's 23 and left me for a 16 high school girl. My mother died when i was 2 months pregnant and she was the most important person in my life because he left me i was forced to work right through my pregnancy i ended up in hospital cause my work load was to much but i had no choice cause i had no support then i deliver my baby on my own without him there then have him ask for a dna test then not show up after i paid for it. Now i'm on the benefit for single mum's and working until the table to get extra cash to pay for legal bills i just think i didn't make her on my own therefore i shouldn't raise her on my own i don't want him back but i feel my daughter needs her daddy but at the end of the day i can't force him and i just have to keep being a soldier for my bubby
I've raised my daughter for 13 years completely on my own, no father in the picture, and no financial assistance. She's better off. He isn't the kind of person I want her around. He's the kind of dad that would say he would show up to take her somewhere and never show up. I've prevented her from being neglected for these 13 years.
Tamarin: Luscious I never block anyone...just not my style...must be somthing to do with CS...thanks for letting me know...
I know, because it says the location/ age range is blocked, and my mail would go to your filter box. I've never mailed you before and i thought it was strange.
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Barefoot, in a dark room, with the one you love?
Dilemma over...
So are our early days, of wine, your shirt, my balcony...
Now we are both on new horizons...
But, at least my dilemma is over, Mike, I know that you will always spare a moment to dance the tango with me...