The Ex Won,the Kids Lost,Where Do You Go From Here? (123)
jonahstrials: Raised my kids for 10yrs,then to suddenly lose custody of them. I don't even know where to start. My life has always been waiting for the 6days every other week I had them. How do you begin again?
There's not any easy way that I ever found.
It's gonna take time.
Make sure you have somebody close who you can talk to about it.
If you try to keep the hurt inside and pretend you're alright it won't ever get better and it will cause you all sorts of problems.
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thanks for the posts...I have to admit my faith got weak during these times in 2008 because I was in constant prayer and I really didnt think it was God's will for me to lose custody of my kids. I have tried to just accept it and go on living. The funny thing is that the ex proved it was just a power trip...now I see my kids even more than when I had them joint with her. I just wish we would have come to this agreement earlier and saved us both about 7grand...
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Check your state laws to see if at a specific age, the children get a say in who they live with. If so, when you kids reach that age, ask then who they want to live with. If they say they want to live with you, then go back to court and tell the judge.
IF the Judge did something inappropriate, then check with your state to see if they have a Judical Review board and file a complaint.
Good Luck