Uh, probably incorrectly but.........I assumed everyone on here was in the "untaken" category. Isn't this a singles site? Am I on the wrong site? What the????
Okietony: Uh, probably incorrectly but.........I assumed everyone on here was in the "untaken" category. Isn't this a singles site? Am I on the wrong site? What the????
Yes but the goal actually is to meet someone and end up being taken...otherwise...if we all stayed single...what's the point????
People date others from here...end up in serious relationships and some even marry...but will stay for the forums and because of the friendships they have made...but always indicate that in their profiles.....
I see, point taken. To each their own, but in the event that I did meet someone on here and enter into a serious relationship, I wouldn't stay on a "singles" site. Having said that, I don't think poorly of those that don't agree and stay on here, but for me........couldn't and wouldn't do it. I'm kind of old fashioned like that I guess huh? To a fault probably. Anyway, thanks for the info. Makes sense.
sweetowen: I think that'll be one of my New Years resolutions... stop my wild "Samantha" ways & let Mr. Right come along & sweep me off my feet! .....Maybe
Okietony: Well, I guess there are worse things they could call you huh? Not that "wild" is a bad thing!!! Sometimes a little wild is awesome!.....sometimes lol.
I guess in my case, "wild" means more spontaneous than anything. I like being the individual I am & don't usually make very many concrete plans, since my daughter's gone. Plans usually don't work out for me anyway.
My best friend's daughter has dubbed us "the fun-seekers"!
sweetowen: I guess in my case, "wild" means more spontaneous than anything. I like being the individual I am & don't usually make very many concrete plans, since my daughter's gone. Plans usually don't work out for me anyway.
My best friend's daughter has dubbed us "the fun-seekers"!
I can relate. Either because of my job or my family or something unforseen.......my plans are usually either cancelled or altered. But it's nice sometimes to have so many irons in the fire.....every now and then.
Another nice thing for me is that I'm not afraid to do things on my own. If I go out, my friends are there & they know me. If I want to go to a movie alone, I do it. If I want to go shopping, I know how to drive!
Who says life is over at 40?? It's only just begun!!
sweetowen: Another nice thing for me is that I'm not afraid to do things on my own. If I go out, my friends are there & they know me. If I want to go to a movie alone, I do it. If I want to go shopping, I know how to drive!
Who says life is over at 40?? It's only just begun!!
I so agree with you on this....I'm 49 and feel that I just started living again.
sweetowen: Another nice thing for me is that I'm not afraid to do things on my own. If I go out, my friends are there & they know me. If I want to go to a movie alone, I do it. If I want to go shopping, I know how to drive!
Who says life is over at 40?? It's only just begun!!
Now THAT is cool!!!! You won't be single long I bet. Wish there were more women with that attitude in Oklahoma!
Okietony: Now THAT is cool!!!! You won't be single long I bet. Wish there were more women with that attitude in Oklahoma!
Actually, my friend & I were discussing this same issue. I came to the conclusion that men don't like strong, independent women. In my experience, it just seems that most men tend to go for the women who need someone to lean on, either emotionally or financially. When a woman is comfortable in her own skin, men seem to run.
sweetowen: I've been technically single for 17 years....
Oh wow. You should come to Oklahoma and show women how to be single, independent and live on their own before they try to find someone to take care of them under the umbrella of "marriage". Don't get me started man....don't get me started lol.
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