kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
LACali: I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
I am sorry that happened to you..
mine is stated in my profile..
that i am married and only here for the friends i have met on the forums
voyager007: Well, am not taken but I was abducted once then the police found me on the street sleeping and they brought me back home. You see I was already sleeping when they took me from home and when I started to snore they thought it was the police behind them so they trough me out of the window. Anyway, as soon as I came home I was kidnapped!!!! and those idiots started cutting my fingers and send them home one by one asking for a ransom??? one finger??? nobody answered???, second finger nobody answered too???? until the tenth finger still nobody answered??? well, you see those idiots did not notice that I live at home ALONE???? so they tried to kill me but they looked at my tears and those fingerless hands then they felt sorry for me and decided to give me for the lions at the zoo. so on the way to the zoo they passed by the same street that those other thieves through me at and I was sleeping at this time from all the pain and fear including the long raid too (cars does that to me since I was little kid) and for some odd reason I started to snore again and it worked!!!! they trough me out of the window again at the same time a police car come by and I shouted HELP with my arms up high and the police guys got made???? from me and the poked me and throw me in jail. after several weeks in jail I was brought to the judge and he told me that I was charged by fingering the police????? what????? I looked to the judge and said look at me look at my hands do I have any fingers???? then the judge became made ???? and he thought I was giving him the whole arm???? and he sentenced me for 10 years???? So now I got mad??? then I took the gun from the police man and started shooting TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA TA and it was my alarm clock awaken me up???? oh God it was only a DREAM!!!! so I did my SSS and went to work.
LACali: I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
I agree. If one isn't looking, it should be stated on the profile.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
LACali: I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
livinglarge: L,
So sorry to hear that
you deserve much ,much more !!
Something like that happened to me also,
it wasnt nice !!
but at least my conscience is clear
His profile is deleted as of now and I can't bring myself to answer his calls. I was very clear about it though and it happened more than once so I feel ok about my side of it. I'm sure he'll be back on here at some point that was his problem-seems more addicted to the site than finding someone.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
LACali: His profile is deleted as of now and I can't bring myself to answer his calls. I was very clear about it though and it happened more than once so I feel ok about my side of it. I'm sure he'll be back on here at some point that was his problem-seems more addicted to the site than finding someone.
If you have ben honest from the start , you deserved it back, I am glad you feel better about the situation , and stay strong
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
livinglarge: If you have ben honest from the start , you deserved it back, I am glad you feel better about the situation , and stay strong
Thank you. Sorry my computer is going crazy last night and today buzzing and adding extra spaces. I think it's going on strike....I will give it a rest and go eat lunch....
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
LACali: Thank you. Sorry my computer is going crazy last night and today buzzing and adding extra spaces. I think it's going on strike....I will give it a rest and go eat lunch....
enjoy !!
my computer keeps crashing,
windows is not working (again) had awful problems with it yesterday,
LACali: I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
LACali
That clearly hurt you.
I agree, it can be misleading and lead to all sorts of problems.
For me, I personally do not attach too much to my profile, as I was not terribly interested in any person when I joined over a year ago, I was guided here by a friend.
But I can understand your thought process, truly I can.
No, just in general... I just think that it's not fine for people to be flirting on singles sites if their already taken - especially not fair to their supposed partner Guess I'm just old fashioned that way
LACali: I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
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My husband knows i am here..
he knows i have friends here and he trust me
So that is all i need..
dont care what people think why i am here if i am Married..
The mods know and they are the ones who will approve/disprove
We have plenty of married people here, or people in relationships, John.