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Dec 31, 2008 1:35 AM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Can't help but notice that over the past few days, there have been a few threads posted by young people asking "If there attractive" " Am i ugly" i find it so sad that they have such little self esteem, and need reaassurance from a poll. What do you think. ( Sorry no question marks that button's not working) frustrated
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Dec 31, 2008 1:36 AM CST What's Goin On
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
Hi Morgan great to see you Happy New Year teddybear
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Dec 31, 2008 1:38 AM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
desmond: Hi Morgan great to see you Happy New Year
you too Des, have a good one!wine hug
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Dec 31, 2008 1:41 AM CST What's Goin On
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
morgan5: Can't help but notice that over the past few days, there have been a few threads posted by young people asking "If there attractive" " Am i ugly" i find it so sad that they have such little self esteem, and need reaassurance from a poll. What do you think. ( Sorry no question marks that button's not working)
question mark not working ,huh?....could you write me an email to tell me what you think i look like?

i'm not young anymore and ,damnit, i need some reassuranceprofessor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing just kidding....my heads already big enough....i'm not really bald....my head just outgrew my hairprofessor rolling on the floor laughing

just kidding againuh oh
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Dec 31, 2008 1:43 AM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
jlw45: question mark not working ,huh?....could you write me an email to tell me what you think i look like?

i'm not young anymore and ,damnit, i need some reassurance just kidding....my heads already big enough....i'm not really bald....my head just outgrew my hair

just kidding again
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave i luuuurve bald men!!hug
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Dec 31, 2008 1:47 AM CST What's Goin On
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
morgan5: i luuuurve bald men!!
good to see you morganbouquet .....hope you have a 2wonderful new yearteddybear wave
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Dec 31, 2008 1:49 AM CST What's Goin On
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
jlw45: good to see you morgan .....hope you have a 2wonderful new year
ooops...........that 2 was'nt supposed to be there....but, now that i think of it....hope you have a dozen happy new yearslaugh ....wink
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Dec 31, 2008 4:11 AM CST What's Goin On
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
morgan5: Can't help but notice that over the past few days, there have been a few threads posted by young people asking "If there attractive" " Am i ugly" i find it so sad that they have such little self esteem, and need reaassurance from a poll. What do you think. ( Sorry no question marks that button's not working)


Hi Morgan

I think it is the time of year.

Christmas and the New Year approcahing and people look at themselves, feel sadness, if they are single, they wonder why they are alone, some of them anyway. Just a hunch I get.

Winter is a time when we all bed down, nature's way of telling us we need to keep warm and that makes us want to be with another.

Happy New Year to you.
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Dec 31, 2008 4:37 AM CST What's Goin On
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Just like any other "pitty me" threadmumbling and a bit contradictory from scratch to be honest if they want to hear JUST "yes"! Then we are repsonsibles for them cutting their vain if we say "NO".They need to read more books and learn more about life, it's not about self-esteem per se!
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Dec 31, 2008 4:40 AM CST What's Goin On
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
cristina: Just like any other "pitty me" thread and a bit contradictory from scratch to be honest if they want to hear JUST "yes"! Then we are repsonsibles for them cutting their vain if we say "NO".They need to read more books and learn more about life, it's not about self-esteem per se!


Well of course they do Cris...

But that is what happens with people with low self esteem, they need constant approval and that is why it is hard to love people with low self esteem, it is draining and tedious.

People say that people need to love themselves, and to some degree I agree with that, but I think it more acceptance, accepting whp we are and that the people that do love us, love us, because of who we are.

If a person asks me, if they look good, then I will tell what I see.

It is not the message sometimes, it is the deliverance.

In my experience alone. Just to make that clear.
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Dec 31, 2008 4:47 AM CST What's Goin On
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Sommerauer71: Well of course they do Cris...

But that is what happens with people with low self esteem, they need constant approval and that is why it is hard to love people with low self esteem, it is draining and tedious.

People say that people need to love themselves, and to some degree I agree with that, but I think it more acceptance, accepting whp we are and that the people that do love us, love us, because of who we are.

If a person asks me, if they look good, then I will tell what I see.

It is not the message sometimes, it is the deliverance.

In my experience alone. Just to make that clear.



absolutelydrinking
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Dec 31, 2008 7:05 AM CST What's Goin On
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
The way I see it is, when you set up a poll with a question like that you are setting yourself up for more disappointment/hurt. I mean it's good that people are honest about the vote they cast, but sometimes it's not always best to express it.

JMO
Merky
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Jan 3, 2009 5:43 PM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Now we 3 on the first page !!!! it's driving me NUTS!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Jan 3, 2009 5:44 PM CST What's Goin On
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: Now we 3 on the first page !!!! it's driving me NUTS!!!
Well am i attractive or notgrin

sorry i just had tolaugh
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Jan 3, 2009 5:46 PM CST What's Goin On
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Would all CS women do me?

That isn't a poll question....grin devil
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Jan 3, 2009 5:47 PM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well am i attractive or not

sorry i just had to
hey babe you HOT devil rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 3, 2009 5:48 PM CST What's Goin On
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
mbcasey: Would all CS women do me?

That isn't a poll question....
Only if i can be first!! don't do sloppy seconds devil
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Jan 3, 2009 5:48 PM CST What's Goin On
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: hey babe you HOT
giggle flirty
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Jan 3, 2009 5:49 PM CST What's Goin On
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
morgan5: Only if i can be first!! don't do sloppy seconds


laugh rolling on the floor laughing

That is classic!!thumbs up

Hope you are doing ok Morgan...hug

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Jan 3, 2009 5:50 PM CST What's Goin On
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
mbcasey: That is classic!!

Hope you are doing ok Morgan...

My thoughts and prayers are with you.


no ken she is not fine...

cant you see her in all the threads doing thisfrustrated grin
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